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Kobojunkie:
. Why do those who reason as you do insist that stating the facts regarding marriage means one is against marriage? Why so insecure?

Are you married to know the facts about marriage, or you are concluding based on experience of others?
FYI, as fingers are not equal, marriages are not equal also

Gboom:
➜Are you married to know the facts about marriage, or you are concluding based on experience of others?
➜ FYI, as fingers are not equal, marriages are not equal also

. Again with the insecurities! 🙄🙄

Where do you come up with this idea that only those who claim to be married can know of marriage, though? Isn't that a clear sign of disconnectedness from the reality of things and human relationships?

2. Fingers are not equal, therefore marriages are not equal, even though all who enter into the union are human beings, predictable in every sense of the word. Are you sure you are OK at all, cause here you seem to think, against the obvious, that I am your problem.

Kobojunkie:
. It is the answer to a successful marriage, yet this answer clearly failed in this instance. Doesn't that there invalidate your claim of it being the answer to a successful marriage? If 1+1 IS NOT 5, why continue to assert 5 as the answer to 1+1? 🤣

2. Without evidence, your particular conclusion seems to be that the woman never submitted at all in the relationship. Why do you do this to yourself? 🤣

3. Get the f-ck away with this religious gobbledegook of yours! Nonsense! 😂

Sorry am enjoying my marriage
I wish this your curse go relief you one day

dapadawee:
➜Sorry am enjoying my marriage I wish this your curse go relief you one day

Storyland! 🙄🙄🙄

luminouz:
Oh really?

Tell me more

Why do you need to know? Are you dating or married to a deeper life member?

Caaz:
If she were to be your sister,i m guessing you will not spill this trash.

Principled men tell the truth to whoever it may concern, sister or not.

Caaz:
If she were to be your sister,i m guessing you will not spill this trash.

Stop being a slave to emotions. Your sister is a female too, she's not a special apart from her gender

This lady has a lot pursuing her, from her father who hates and wants to destroy her to friends (funke) who are jealous of her and want to destroy her marriage. She need to pray!

Caaz:
She wants to quickly divorced herself from the narcissist.

You for at least read past the headline na.

Na 2025 be this. We suppose don stop this childish habit.

Kobojunkie:
They petitioned his former work place on what grounds and with what evidence? Why did he resign if he was without issue? What was the disgrace he resigned in order to avoid?

That is important but not relevant to this story
It only shows how your mind works

We can write a Phd on that question but what purpose does it serve?

It takes away from the main issue

Another female diversionary tactic.

It is disgrace enough that your wife and daughter are petitioning your work place.
The question is is that normal behaviour

Any man with pride would not want to go through the indignity of having his marital issues spread out at his work place in front of people that respect him

The fact that you don't get that suggest you think it is normal for a woman to do that to her husband and probably would

The normal thing to do is to divorce him and or if he was doing anything criminal report him to the police
Going to his work place is Natasha Akpoti behaviour intended to destroy him and we are now seeing a repeat with the daughter. Is she not disgracing her husband

My take is you do not have a good family name and do not understand the concept of reputation or shame. If you did you would not ask such a silly question

dododawa1:
https://punchng.com/lagos-couple-in-messy-divorce-battle/

He regretted not listening to his friends and church members, who warned him against the union.

Love is blind is suicidal... Marital love should not be blind cos eye must open one day. Imagine even her papa know the kinda daughter and wife he married. FEAR ANY GIRL WEY NOR DEY RESPECT HER FATHER. SHE WILL NEVER RESPECT HER HUSBAND.

You paid school fees as in what
Simping is not good and they always learn in the hard way

This sounds all too familiar. Believe a crying woman at your own peril, if not that I’ve had first hand experience before I would have fallen for her version but being an experienced victim in the past I know when these bleeding daughters of Jezebel are lying.

Deeper life policy of imposing partners on members needs to stop.
There is no courtship people are coerced into marriage even threatened.
Even parents consent is ignored
No wonder kumuyi son had to beat the system by marrying outside. He didn't mind the suspension he got.
Many deeper life marriages are suffering both men and women.
You re not allowed to complain or you will be ostracized by the church.

The way marriages keep deteriorating in the stories we read is really scary. What will make a once loving man/woman turn against the person they once were so much in love with, that they swore on the Bible (for Christians) to cherish and hold till death part them?

A lot of immature people enter into marriage without properly understanding the concept of marriage and love/submission, which alright, because knowledge is progressive they can learn in the process. This is akin to a young inexperienced 16-year old gaining admission into a University. You gain experiences along the line that would sharpen your skills, knowledge and learning. You weather it all because there is a goal in perspective.

But because marriage is a lifelong relationship, most people see the other side of their unrealistic expectations of their spouses, and tend to panic and back out. They opt for divorce as an alternative because they can’t keep up with their unmet expectations.

So, I met a Professor who said he’s making a research on marriages, and is proposing the following:

1. How long should marriages last? This is from the experience that when there’s an expiry date to a product, the consumers cherish that product until the last day. If couples know that their marriages will last for five years and renewable, both parties will endure themselves and find out if they would like to renew their marital vows.

2. Any marriage that is dissolved but have children should not lay claims to the children anymore but provide upkeep for them in a shelter home. This means that the couples won’t have access to their children after separation, but must be responsible for their upkeep, education, and other matters relating their their health, etc.

3. Any man or woman who is separated from a legally contracted marriage should not have children anymore, especially if they had children from their marriage.

4. Marriages built on deceit and falsehood will attract jail term for the offender.

I will advise anyone who wants to marry to carefully do a detailed review and checks on their partners before committing themselves.

If your brothers wife is a drug addict. Will you be happy?

The lady is chronic liar n must have suckered the guy into marrying her, she said the landlord spent 150k at the hospital while the landlord said he paid 50k , like that u know the lady is a big liar

GindoX:
My brother has been westernized. marriage na spiritual thing and it requires spiritual eyes. Indians know this. Forget inner maturity and decision making abilities, all those are plus.

Define "spiritual thing". Everything is spiritual thing

Very messy .

All of them get for body including father in law .
Marriage is very deep such that both of them might even be telling their own truth.