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| Sexless Marriage by pentag0nal(op): 2:59pm On May 24, 2025 |
I have been having issue of almost always having to beg my wife for sex. It became too much so I decided to just leave her alone and see her reaction and for a month now, she does not care. She just acting like everything is fine, bring family issues to me, I solve them and she's just living her life. As a man, I am almost running mad. Almost a month and the woman isnot even bothered. How much more of this can I take? I am so sex-starved now. It is even affecting my work. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by advanceDNA: 3:18pm On May 24, 2025 |
Lol......  ...abi Dem don scam you with " don't worry, when we marry u will enjoy it the way you like" ... 3 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by pentag0nal(op): 3:24pm On May 24, 2025 |
advanceDNA:This is no joke at all. Imagine that you are married but still struggling for sex. |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by brain54(m): 3:41pm On May 24, 2025 |
Just under a month... A man should be able to control his urge. A man who can't control himself is at the mercy of women. But I am not here to judge! 3 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by eniolorunfe: 3:45pm On May 24, 2025 |
This seems to be the only kind of topics on Family section of recent. Wetin dey happen? 6 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by advanceDNA: 3:54pm On May 24, 2025 |
pentag0nal:My comment may sound like humor.....but it's a genuine question.... See ...if ur woman has always been like that, dodging sex during your courtship, telling you you'll have it the way you like after marriage ....then u have been scammed.... But if y'all were fvcking like rabbits before and now she's on ghost mode....baba, all I can say is...if your wife isn't fvcking you, then she's fvcking someone else |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by columbus007(m): 4:17pm On May 24, 2025 |
Op forget she's not fvcking someone else, she's just too reluctant to give you sex, relax, women they need to be pampered. How many kids has she got?. 2 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by obinna58(m): 4:23pm On May 24, 2025 |
If she’s doing her duties as a mother, Do hookup and rest 1 Like |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:41pm On May 24, 2025 |
pentag0nal:It is time for professional marriage counseling. If you and your wife are not making headway, then you both need to get a third party— a professional— to mediate and try to help you both understand exactly where you each are in the marriage, and what you could do possibly do to resolve issues on all sides, not just your side.  2 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by dfos2k(m): 5:06pm On May 24, 2025 |
You're probably struggling financially. It's only a broke guy that gets that treatment because she knows that you don't have a lot of leverage. Endure and hustle harder sex starvation does nothing to a man, your ego is just bruised that's all. |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Sotland: 8:32pm On May 24, 2025 |
Op sorry for your Ordeal. However, it baffles me when men keep complaining of sex. For me, my wife had to report me to my mum; that since this year we had sex six times only. and my mum called me with series of advices.. I simply told her, your son is man enough but doesn't just like sex even though it is enjoyable... I believe one has to be mentally ready for sex.. This evening, I am feeling pity for my wife. I told her what I told the doctor we both went to see.Doctor advice we have sex 3 times per week.. I was like "hey hey doctor no be food nah" And for me it is a transitional thing.. I didn't date much and I have a very low body count.... Bro I feel pity for you.. seems your wife falls in my category.. There are people who just don't really like sex and not that they don't enjoy it anytime their mind is open to it.. 6 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Kobojunkie: 8:43pm On May 24, 2025 |
Sotland:Which kain yeye doctor be that one?  1 Like |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Dogalmighty17: 7:55am On May 25, 2025 |
Somethings are not problems except we allow them to be. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by jesmond3945: 9:03am On May 25, 2025 |
pentag0nal:sex therapist or you seperate |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by jesmond3945: 9:06am On May 25, 2025 |
Sotland:you are pushing your wife to cheat. Why not strategize and study how to make sex enjoyable for you. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Starz825(m): 9:06am On May 25, 2025 |
Sotland:Omoo ..six times so far ... that's very low You guys should have clocked at least 20- 30 sex moments by this time of the year. 2 times per week x 3weeks = 6 times .per month (menstruation period exclusive). |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Goodnewsforlife: 1:20pm On May 25, 2025 |
pentag0nal:u are stressing yourself n u wan use your own hand ruin your beautiful marriage. Get a side chick n let your family keep running in peace, get a side chick n maintain the good relationship with your family n your wife. Anything less u go just destroy that family 2 Likes |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:15pm On May 25, 2025 |
Goodnewsforlife:And if his wife decides to get a side-dick in order to compensate for something OP may himself be lacking in, na una go first complain as well. Nonsense! 🙄🙄🙄 OP, if you come to the conclusion that you must have a side-chick, then the first thing you might as well get a divorce first. |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by DeltaBachelor(m): 4:33pm On May 25, 2025 |
Chai |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Dtruthspeaker: 12:36pm On May 26, 2025 |
Na her plan be dat. You just married one of the evils out there. 1 Like |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Divaan: 5:28pm On May 26, 2025 |
1. Relief your wife of every trauma she might be experiencing. 2. Relief her of every stress.when some women are stressed, they hardly think of sex. 3. Keep clean, dress well and smell good. 4. Play with your wife and buy her new stuff. 5. Exrecise patience and pray for her. With time, she'll come around. 'e thing is even if you cheat, some women don't care. |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Sotland: 1:07pm On May 27, 2025 |
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| Re: Sexless Marriage by Sotland: 1:08pm On May 27, 2025 |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Sotland: 1:10pm On May 27, 2025 |
I am not pushing her to no where.. That's just the way my system has come in terms with. And i'd say sex is enjoyable. jesmond3945: |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Kobojunkie: 4:06pm On May 27, 2025 |
Sotland:No doctor I know would say such silly nonsense! |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by AllBlack: 6:59pm On May 28, 2025 |
pentag0nal:kneel down and beg her some more. if she refuses, lie down and beg her. You nova start |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by faithfull18(f): 10:00am On May 30, 2025 |
Whatever you do, don't cheat. |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by IceColdVeins(m): 1:11pm On May 30, 2025 |
Divaan:All these just to get laid with whom I married legally? This is the height of tomfoolery |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Kobojunkie: 3:03pm On May 30, 2025 |
IceColdVeins:. Marriage does not make her your property as she retains her right to bodily autonomy, whether you like that or not. |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by Dtruthspeaker: 3:17pm On May 30, 2025 |
pentag0nal:Guy, your wife has scammed you |
| Re: Sexless Marriage by IceColdVeins(m): 3:49pm On May 30, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Yeah same way I reserve the prerogative to show her the exit once my basic requirements are intentionally and blatantly not being met. |
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