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What kind of wives will my children marry in future? - Nigerian man voices concern over indecent dressing of girls at Children's Day celebration

A Nigerian man, Kaeren SimonOyantar Aver, has voiced concern over what he described as ‘indecent' dressing of some girls at a Children's Day celebration in Benue.


"The Children's Day was going on well before this J-Z stole the show. As parents, how do your children dress like this and come out comfortable without being questioned? This is just the few among many children who were dressed half naked in the midst of other parents, and I ask, where are we heading to?

Which kind of a wife would my children get married to in the nearest future?" he wrote.

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.... Lol.. All those secondary school children you are seeing,omo , they have gone faaaarrr... Like a friend told me ,All the sex and enjoyment that their mother, grand mother and great grandmother didn't do , they wanna help them to do it so that nothing will miss in their generation. Sex is just a normal thing to them.. While the guys, omo, full time YY ..

Nigerians should stop all these pretence and move with trends around the world.

Dressing doesn't reflect the heart of the person, looking outward instead of inwards.it just their preference and the modern trends.

This is Gen z generation

Celestialsword:
Nigerians should stop all these pretence and move with trends around the world.

Dressing doesn't reflect the heart of the person,it just their preference and the modern trends.

This is Gen z generation

.... Trend ke, that's how they kicked Korra Obidi out of the plane cos she's also following the ugly modern trend..

I don't c indecent exposure here?

I only see a grown man indirectly admitting to the fact that he's a pedophile... Even his daughters aren't safe around him, because there's definitely nothing wrong with how these children are dressed... I've watched two traditional Nigerian movies before and the girls' native attires were always revealing, I didn't see anything wrong with it because that's part of their culture.

His wife should never make a mistake of leaving their daughters under his care.

Celestialsword:
Nigerians should stop all these pretence and move with trends around the world.

Dressing doesn't reflect the heart of the person,it just their preference and the modern trends.

This is Gen z generation

We are Africans. We are not supposed to move with every trend.

Indecent dressing is not in our culture, same with LGBTQRSTUVWX.

Zonefree:
We are Africans. We are not supposed to move with every trend.

Indecent dressing is not in our culture, same with LGBTQRSTUVWX.

we refused to inculcate and accept other progressive culture and lifestyles outside our shores hence Africa countries remain at the back bench among nations of the world.

badaru911:
.... Lol.. All those secondary school children you are seeing,omo , they have gone faaaarrr... Like a friend told me ,All the sex and enjoyment that their mother, grand mother and great grandmother didn't do , they wanna help them to do it so that nothing will miss in their generation. Sex is just a normal thing to them.. While the guys, omo, full time YY ..

get down from that tree.

Sex has always been a generational activities.
Their parents and progenitors had more sex than this generation at that age.

At what age were the girls betrothed to men in those days? No be when dem start menstruting?

Amotolongbo:
get down from that tree.

Sex has always been a generational activities.
Their parents and progenitors had more sex than this generation at that age.

At what age were the girls betrothed to men in those days? No be when dem start menstruting?

.. Sure , what about body count, are they the same

We have destroyed the future

badaru911:
.... Trend ke, that's how they kicked Korra Obidi out of the plane cos she's also following the ugly modern trend..

No that guy! One can't say the truth again.

Amotolongbo:
get down from that tree.

Sex has always been a generational activities.
Their parents and progenitors had more sex than this generation at that age.

At what age were the girls betrothed to men in those days? No be when dem start menstruting?

Just say you had more sex when you were like them.

almarthins:
Just say you had more sex when you were like them.

Ya.
Same as your mother and grandmothers

Amotolongbo:
Ya.
Same as your mother and grandmothers

If u be green, that doesn't make me green. Stop generalising like every body did it. Not everybody.

... they're looking for pricks they will ride on top, end time generation

Samantha125:
I only see a grown man indirectly admitting to the fact that he's a pedophile... Even his daughters aren't safe around him, because there's definitely nothing wrong with how these children are dressed... I've watched two traditional Nigerian movies before and the girls' native attires were always revealing, I didn't see anything wrong with it because that's part of their culture.

His wife should never make a mistake of leaving their daughters under his care.

It is either the girls are mumu innocents or are already immoral and dress subtly to give out a sense of adulthood. It's like youths smoking-more out of rebellion than need. They want independence.

Their parents should admonish them to dress chastely. The skirts must always be beneath the knee and the top shouldn't be breast hugging. I side with the man.

Men are enticed mostly by what they see. Men want the perfect body. Women are more emotionally inclined.

People never know where dem dey go ooo🤣, e go soon clear.

It's the so called "woke" men like yourself who'd easily get enticed by children.

This is how Igbo and Yoruba girls dressed in the olden days, yet no man had any issues with it.

grandstar:
It is either the girls are mumu innocents or are already immoral and dress subtly to give out a sense of adulthood. It's like youths smoking-more out of rebellion than need. They want independence.

Their parents should admonish them to dress chastely. The skirts must always be beneath the knee and the top shouldn't be breast hugging. I side with the man.

Men are enticed mostly by what they see. Men want the perfect body. Women are more emotionally inclined.

Samantha125:
It's the so called "woke" men like yourself who'd easily get enticed by children.

This is how Igbo and Yoruba girls dressed in the olden days, yet no man had any issues with it.

Continue to live in 1650.

These ones are not the ones that the holiday is for...

Blame their failed parents.

Lol, enter social media and see someone's future mother twerking with no clothes on,like I don't understand where their sanity went to.

Imagine onyeka onwenu and Christy Essien igbokwe acting like that in their youth,how will they be regarded later.

Oyinbo that brought this social media sef don't stoop this low like our Nigerian girls,Na wa o

No wonder all our content creators are all earning peanuts because e no dey pass nudity.

Op Nothing wrong here

almarthins:
If u be green, that doesn't make me green. Stop generalising like every body did it. Not everybody.

you are black

Samantha125:
It's the so called "woke" men like yourself who'd easily get enticed by children.

This is how Igbo and Yoruba girls dressed in the olden days, yet no man had any issues with it.

Grew up seeing Fulani ladies like this, you must be a Nigeria historian

when that time comes, he’ll realise that this present girls he’s condemning will be saints to what the future holds…

Women will be going naked, sexiness will be judged by how beautiful a woman appears totally naked, shape, size and colour of pvssy will be the yardstick…

Humanity is going back to nudism as a way of living in a civilised society

Omo