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Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Let me brutal to you here Mr. Man,how can you be cheating and the same time not be smart in doing that?

Well, just like you've already said,your marriage is about to face the greatest smack down,and may likely not survive it......But no sin is too much to be forgiven, after all you didn't kill anybody......Na kpekus you chop but forgot to clean mouth

Anyways,happy divorce in advance cuz my mind is telling me your wife will definitely find out the true use of that drug and she wouldn't take it lightly with you....

Chaiii..guyz with lies! Op, just admit that you have the virus simple. Pls, divorce that innocent woman. Carry your cross in PEACE!

I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

you go nack olosho, you come enter panick mode, hahahaha, from now on any small fever wey you get, your mind must go HIV side, hahahahaha.

Cheating is costly, stay faithful.

You're very foolish for hurting her.

delzbaba:
you go nack olosho, you come enter panick mode, hahahaha, from now on any small fever wey you get, your mind must go HIV side, hahahahaha.

I swear bro, I experience am last year, condom tear.. I wan die , any small headache heart go dey cut.. The greatest mistake I made was searching early signs of hiv on tiktok, tiktok doctors/content creators wan kill me with high bp

xareal:
I swear bro, I experience am last year, condom tear.. I wan die , any small headache heart go dey cut.. The greatest mistake I made was searching early signs of hiv on tiktok, tiktok doctors/content creators wan kill me with high bp

I dey tell u

I don't know why people fear divorce this much

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

lol “rich and valuable”

Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.

If HIV virus is so easy to catch virtually every fornicators and adulterous individuals would have had it and also probably passed it to their innocent spouse. HIVAiDs isn't so much of a big disease as people call it. I believe it only target selected numbers of cells. Like people with broken 💔 cells.

UrPapa:
lol “rich and valuable”

No be every woman dey worship money

Did you find out that the person you were intimate with has HIV, or is there another reason for your PSDP? You seem quite agitated.

Pep koh, guardiola ni...

Even if I fuc.k person and my wife know, na to scope am and make sure she doesn't know next time.... But say make I no fuc.k yen, babanla iro...

Like the great man up there already opined. Your ancestors will be like this 🤦🤦🤦

Goodluck ooo.. Man wey dey fear him wife & divorce, still dey nack outside, even without condom tearing, still bringing a bottle of Pep home, even tho he tore the label...

Radarada...

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

And she is dating married men now I believe

Laff wan finish me where Nwamaikpe said Our forefathers are all crying in their graves cos of weaklings like OP. The guy matter don tire our forefathers....


Calm down oga.........Afterall said and done, Something must still kill a man.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Tell her u had an injury at work and needed to protect urself from any retroviral infection and was given the med by ur office clinic. Adjust as necessary

Guess what there is a research of PEP actually weakening your immune system to be susceptible to HIV. HIV is a autoimmune virus. Some drugs weaken your immune system as an immediate or adverse side effect. PEP is good don't feel bad but be more careful next time.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

You are a simp, bro. Hide your dir*ty face in shame. Woman wey you use your money marry dey threaten you. You be sueegbe

Op no forget say na Man U b oo u nor kill person, heaven will not fall abegi

U re not man enough
U better no give ya self high blood pressure

Op you funny aswear you already know you dey fear your wife and you still dey cheat on her to extent of shooting yourself by yourself. Sorry doooo but my advice its next dont let your emotions control you more as a man you claim to be. Be more bold next time defending your identity thats who its called a man. Kudos on your new trouble

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Ntooor

Blitzking:
Tell her u had an injury at work and needed to protect urself from any retroviral infection and was given the med by ur office clinic. Adjust as necessary

King of liars 🤥


I can't lie though, this is a great lie!

Sonnobax15:

Let me brutal to you here Mr. Man,how can you be cheating and the same time not be smart in doing that?

Well, just like you've already said,your marriage is about to face the greatest smack down,and may likely not survive it......But no sin is too much to be forgiven, after all you didn't kill anybody......Na kpekus you chop but forgot to clean mouth

Anyways,happy divorce in advance cuz my mind is telling me your wife will definitely find out the true use of that drug and she wouldn't take it lightly with you....

Especially as he cheated on her first.

Women prefer to be the first to cheat

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Riches is not only the valuable thing.


I pity your cousin by the way, if she doesn't remarry in 12 months she will regret her decision cos she might become another person sidechick.

Nna2025:
I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

you dey threaten your adviser?