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Just stay on that single reason you gave earlier to her. Don't let any ranting or cajole push you into discussing the real reason you took the drugs. Tell her you a doctor friend or a pharmacist recommended that PEP is a multipurpose drug that enhance the treatment of Asthma. Don't shout at her and make sure you always show surprise when she said she did Google search and came out that the drug is for HIV prevention.....stay on your initial point and show surprise.....hope you too quickly feigned Googling it to pretend as if you know nothing.....To safe your marriage, continue and maintain that initial point, you will be forgiven in no time if you have always been a good and responsible husband. However bro, you ain't smart at all....you are a Dundee United....a real compound fool ....this kind of drugs, you don't take it at home....take it right where you bought it and discard the palli on time.....or inside the car or just on the road while strolling and throw away the pali Kia Kia.....or rather if it's plenty dosage you need to take timely....mix it up with other normal drugs, or fake Malaria and gather drugs to yourself but stylishly keep that PEP at bay without the pali o.....and be taking it gradually until you are done with the dosage.....you are very careless man and almost trading your marriage cos of a useless wakabout dirty girl that you can't even decipher she's decent enough.....Good luck but remember not to give up in maintaining your initial stand or else your marriage Otilo......gone with the wind....
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Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

This couldnt be better said. Well dissected to ur understanding, na ur answer be this ooo mr op

NwaAmaikpe:




Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Which kind pikin be dis? Your wife is already screaming and shouting at you because she saw drugs in your bag and you also ran to the internet to seek advice. What happened to telling her you bought it for a friend? What about telling her it was distributed in your office by some HIV agency that came for a seminar? If you do not know how to handle your woman but run around anytime she screams at you, I suggest you wear the skirts and hand over all your trousers to her.

Spits

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Stop this ignorance. There's nothing like PEP drug. What you took is antibiotics and everyone knows what drugs are antibiotics. So, go tell your wife something else.

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Valuable because he’s rich? Lol

Lol

VOLTAGE420:
Op you funny aswear you already know you dey fear your wife and you still dey cheat on her to extent of shooting yourself by yourself. Sorry doooo but my advice its next dont let your emotions control you more as a man you claim to be. Be more bold next time defending your identity thats who its called a man. Kudos on your new trouble

defending manhood by cheating?....I still don't understand u guys.....so a man with guilt cos of love u have for ur wife should be proud to cover his sins n feel big about it?....omo no hope for dis generation abeg

Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

It's very dangerous staying with a woman that got you cheating. She may not opt for divorce but you may not enjoy the marriage again. Forget about whether you are valuable or not.

Since you need an advice, just tell her t's a prank so you could see her reaction and at the same time, you ask her to follow you for HIV test. However please don't do that again please. Jesus Christ didn't condemn the Adulterous woman but rather he asked her to go home and sin no more .

Well bro, the did is done. No point casting aspersions or blame on you
However, never u admit.
I repeat, never you admit.
Just tell her you went to barb your hair and the Clipper's blade cut through your head. You decided to take it for the sake of prevention and for the love you have for her not to transmit infection to her. That's even if she finds out what the drug is actually meant for, otherwise give her another reason that the drug is just an ordinary drug & not for HIV.
Finally, do not admit otherwise, you ll lose her and your marriage. Be warned!

U start taking PEP just because you finger a girl?
I have never seen a coward like you

AyeMoJuba:
Why atr you scared about bn divorced by your wife?

It simply means you are not valuable enuf

If a man has value, no woman would want to consider divorce even if you marry a second wife talk more of just a fling.

Men, constantly improve yourself, get value. No woman would dare threaten you with divorce.

not always true. Check all the rich men,famous musicians etc. They are all devorced. Some their wives left. It has nothing to do with being valuable.

Double0h7:
King of liars 🤥


I can't lie though, this is a great lie!

It's a dumb lie. When she now asks where the injury is nko?

SIRTee15:
Pocohantas U sure your profile hasn't been hacked or what am I reading g from a feminist.


Anyway that your principle only applies in naija. For abroad, there's no difference being single or married, nobody is rushing U.

Congrats on that.

How can you not tell your wife about such a sensitive matter?!!

Op what if she is on nairaland and she came across this thread?

samuelson06:
It's very dangerous staying with a woman that got you cheating. She may not opt for divorce but you may not enjoy the marriage again. Forget about whether you are valuable or not.

They are so convinced these women forgive and love them deeply after. Many of them will be single if their wives can feed herself and the kids by next week. Sapa induced longetivity of marriage is what we have many in Nigeria.

Double0h7:
King of liars 🤥


I can't lie though, this is a great lie!

some lies are meant to calm the nerves of others ,thereby saving their own lives. I believe he has learnt his lessons..

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Where this your cousin dey now?

No be married men dry knack her now Or she no dey knack?

[quote author=Nna2025 post=135562517]I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

Tell her U had a minor cut when Ur barber was shaving you ,hence the pep

This is a very good excuse o Mr OP....that's why I love my guys on Nairand, solution must come as soon as we rally round our pally here.....check that my write up above and merged it up with this one and also succinctly put it that the pharmacist recommended the drugs to enhance your Asthma disease and clear all toxins that could affect the nasal passage and finally healed up the Asthma.....you know Asthma has connection with virus infection... Just link it up together my brother.....still saying it o ..your past attitude will determine how she would accept this your lies.....if you have been a serial cheat, I guess it would be difficult but continue trying......hope your wifey no dey Nairand sef or any of her friend wey she dey talk to about her household......if so, then, you are dead and buried......

Alphanancy:
You should have told her that you used an unsterilized clipper at the barbing salon.

DrAkpa:
And she is dating married men now I believe

Most women don't want to be bothered by men again after living with them, and escaping.

💯 percent gaslighting and emotional manipulation will only saved the situation.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Allow her to divorce you, so that you can be free to cheat for the rest of your horrny life.

If you don't want.

Unapologetically stand that you didn't cheat, that you got exposed from Barbing Saloon, that you gut a cut and bleeded, so you started googling and fear gripped in.. so you had to opt for the drug.

What is Cheating?

SIRTee15:
Pocohantas U sure your profile hasn't been hacked or what am I reading g from a feminist.

That should be sarcasm... Men do not benefit from marriage? Little virgins will flock you??

How can doing fingerings give you HIV na?

yemmit90:
Your cousin don't love her husband or probably being keeping plan B before the incidence. Women don't divorce their husbands because of cheating except she is tired of the marriage before.

Women in their subconscious minds knows that men are polygamous by nature, the ones that left only use it as an excuse to quit the marriage.

are you a woman? 🙄🙄