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pocohantas:
I am not sure their logical brain processes it that way. They keep threatening these women with being sidechicks to married men. But they claim sidechick gives peace of mind. The sidechick gets a better deal. She doesn't deal with his grumpiness, snoring..etc. Heck, she doesn't submit. I doubt she has to make dinner. She just gets the packaged version of him with suya and juice when he visits.😂😂

Sonnobax15:

Let me brutal to you here Mr. Man,how can you be cheating and the same time not be smart in doing that?

Well, just like you've already said,your marriage is about to face the greatest smack down,and may likely not survive it......But no sin is too much to be forgiven, after all you didn't kill anybody......Na kpekus you chop but forgot to clean mouth

Anyways,happy divorce in advance cuz my mind is telling me your wife will definitely find out the true use of that drug and she wouldn't take it lightly with you....

Nna2025:
I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

NwaAmaikpe:




Our forefathers are all crying non-stop in their graves because of what today's man has become just because of you.

How can a supposed dimkpa be this jittery just because his wife may find out that he has played okoso outside?
The rule book says that you should not cheat if you do not have the balls to cheat.

You shagged a lady with a condom, yet you still had to bother google because you fingered her as well. What will people like us who can't pour except we go raw then do, use ChatGPT?

Do not get me wrong, I will never try to endorse cheating because that will be overfloogging a dead horse. It is an accepted fact that 98% of all men with the means and the opportunity cheat.

So my anger with you here is not that you are remorseful about cheating, or paranoid about possibly being infected, but because you are terrified of your wife.

If you are this scared of your wife, she will be very justified if she leaves you; because remaining with a sissy is tantamount to same-sex marriage and women know this; that's why they'd always love bad boys unconditionally.

Your wife should be grateful to you for being considerate enough to treat your exposure first before whambamming her.

As a happily married, certified expert in cheating whose specialty is raw sex, I can authoritatively confirm to you that you have nothing to worry about.

To answer your final question, the only thing that can salvage this situation is professionally well-played mindgames.
Bring down hell and brimstone, question her trust for you and the future of your union since she now resorts to going through your pocket.

If you can not gaslight or turn the table on a woman, then you are not mature enough to be in a marriage.

Obakoolex:
I don't know why people fear divorce this much

The truth is that if you are very valuable no one leaves you.... This goes to both husband and wife.

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Blitzking:
Tell her u had an injury at work and needed to protect urself from any retroviral infection and was given the med by ur office clinic. Adjust as necessary

Paragonpric:
Not true..]my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question.."if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Bukola94:
chai! Mr you can lie, hope you are not a player, I will like to be your friend. U go dey give me some lamba in case I am about to mess up or Bleep up and partner caught me red handed

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Paragonpric:
Not true...my cousin left her valuable rich husband based on infidelity issues, her husband cheated on her. She only asked him one question..""if I cheated on you in our marriage will you forgive and accept me back?"" He couldn't answer.

Obakoolex:
Riches is not only the valuable thing.


I pity your cousin by the way, if she doesn't remarry in 12 months she will regret she's already regretting her decision cos she might become another person sidechick.

Nna2025:
I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

richie240:
Fixed!

In their childish minds, they think re-marrying
is like replacing a damaged battery at computer village.

Las-las, she'll end up becoming a side chick and be cheating with another woman husband- doing to another woman the same thing that made her leave her own husband.

Nna2025:
Hello Nairalanders, I know we are very sensitive to cheating so I ask for forgiveness.

I had a fling with a girl I have known for sometime now, I used CD but at some point, I used my finger. I started reading about Hiv and the possiblity of contracting it through fingering. Although my readings says % is very low provided there is no fresh injury, however I opted for PEP to calm my nerves. ( Pep is a drug used, when you suspect an exposure to HIV, remember you have 36hours to take it or else it won't work)

I tore off the pack, hid it in something and kept it in my bag. My wife for whatever reason searched my bag, saw it googled it and came back shouting and screaming since last night. My only comment to her is let's go for hiv test And that the drug was for my asthma, I know she wants to take it somewhere for verification.

My only fear now is if I disclose the reason for taking PEP, then my marriage is in danger.


Anything I can do to salvage this situation, I do not have time. Please my people

Nna2025:
I don't have the virus. The risk is still minimal and here has not been any recorded case, but to just allay my fears I opted for PEP.

You may have to choose your words carefully

Proserpina:
You took the drugs and hid them from your wife whom you had probably got intimate with right after the lady. Do you even care about your wife's safety at all? If your suspicions were right do you know you could have passed the virus to your wife and while it to develop in her . Crazy part you will still get intimate with her. Some of you try to be smart but you are not wise.

The greatest undoing that can happen to a woman is to be with a cheating man. An unintelligent/selfish one at that .

richie240:
Fixed!

In their childish minds, they think re-marrying
is like replacing a damaged battery at computer village.

Las-las, she'll end up becoming a side chick and be cheating with another woman husband- doing to another woman the same thing that made her leave her own husband.

pocohantas:
The greatest undoing is to be single.
Better a wandering-an-inch-away-from-HIV-husband, than be single. 😩😩😩😩

Paragonpric:
Nope. She remarried and still married now for 8years. Not every woman tolerates infidelity especially if they are educated and have small change

Proserpina:
Ahhhh
These guys can make one think marriage is more precious than Life itself. People who don't benefit from marriage o.

Proserpina:
Or Las las she could end up with a very wise man who prioritize his health and family. Do all men cheat? Must she end up with a Nigerian man?

You all imagine the worst of yourselves but cry when another says the worst about you.