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DyshApp:
https://thenationonlineng.net/reality-star-doyin-criticises-men-who-s3xualise-women/

do you blame the men? when the women themselves don’t respect there body and dress seductively and you expect a man not to see you as a sex object? 80% of women this days sell sex and that’s because that’s all they got to offer in return for favours.

Go to tiktok and you'll know dis one na fool.

Tallesty1:
Her frustration is valid, but she is also very, very foolish. Yes, men reduce women to their physical appearance at first glance, which is understandable since you have to tell them or show them what they’re not seeing—and it ends there. But what she, just like every other woman, often leaves unexamined is that the culture women criticize is also one they help construct.

If you invite 20 celebrities to an event, 10 men and 10 women. The men will come nicely or weirdly dressed. The women will wear expensive clothes that covered everywhere except the places clothes where originally meant to cover, the two decently dressed women will cheer them on and snap them for us at home to see.

You done come back with your bad character, ba?

Tallesty1:
Her frustration is valid, but she is also very, very foolish. Yes, men reduce women to their physical appearance at first glance, which is understandable since you have to tell them or show them what they’re not seeing—and it ends there. But what she, just like every other woman, often leaves unexamined is that the culture women criticize is also one they help construct.

If you invite 20 celebrities to an event, 10 men and 10 women. The men will come nicely or weirdly dressed. The women will wear expensive clothes that covered everywhere except the places clothes where originally meant to cover, the two decently dressed women will cheer them on and snap them for us at home to see.

We now live in an era where empowerment is often expressed through hypersexualized imagery. While everyone has the right to bodily autonomy, we can’t ignore the contradictions: the same platforms where women demand to be seen as more than their bodies are often the very ones where many self-objectify for attention, monetization, or validation.

Religion teaches that modesty isn’t oppression; it’s intentional dignity. Philosophy reminds us that freedom without restraint collapses into chaos. Academically, we know objectification is a two-way transaction: it requires both the objectifier and the one willingly objectified.

So yes, women are more than their bodies. But accountability requires examining how they present themselves to the world as much as how the world perceives them. You can’t wear a costume and be angry that you’re cast in a role. If you want a culture that sees the whole woman, you must help build one that honors her whole image—mind, body, and spirit.

A well crafted ChatGpt post...

Not when they dress like this

The same Doyin that did not allow Deji rest in the BBN house? Abeg, make she shift one side. Hypocrite

Said by a gender that Moneylize men in the first time/date ...
Mtcheeeew eghú

The way girls/ladies/women now sexualise themselves is now alarming. Very tacky and annoying.

They think they are getting attention, which is true.

Were dun wo ko se bi lomo. ( It is convenient to observe the display of a mad person, but no one prays that is their child) .

There is an unending supply of nudity and i noticed ladies struggle so hard with setting limits once they enjoy an attention.

If I should say exactly what is on my mind now, Nairaland mods fit ban me again.

It’s hard not to sexualize women when all over the internet we have semi clad women, in the days of our father’s na shimmy dey turn them on while today we see the whole skin without even paying a dime. You go see women display the whole Manchester but cover the nips still kon expect men not to objectify them. The ages of this girls are getting younger now with TikTok and other social media platforms. Any human who identify as a man will get a hard on, questioning him on that is even the crime here. It’s a primal behavior ingrained in our DNA and any man who does not get turned on should seek medical and mental health, here’s an idea though how about women dress moderately, maybe just maybe that will tame this beast.

Side note, hell go swallow many women ehn for knowingly and unknowingly seducing men when dey soapy to their pictures. Judgement day go shock many of them.

Some weirdos will still say it's her body, she can do as she like with it.

Colson:
A well crafted ChatGpt post...

Might not be.

I've been in the same group with the man and he writes well, there are folks are better than chatgpt out there.

SultanOfAbia:
I blame men that believe, agree or take what women say serious.
Reason why i can never watch women podcast.
I rather spend 20 hours watching mickey mouse on repeat than sit down and listen to women.

Why?

Because women themselves DO NOT KNOW WHAT THEY WANT.
I have seen women talk A and in the same day do B.
A babe was giving me head and i checked out her Twitter
Her latest post was shaming men as only wanting s3x and how she hates guys that request for sex on first date.
Imagine reading all her feminist post while i stare at her giving me a sloppy toppy with full saliva.

I really really pity men that take what women say serious.

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You are totally on point bro...
E get why our grandfathers keep them for kitchen only... E get why... Wallahi

The way u portray urself is the way we go approach u...

No need being s-en-tee-m-ental...

Make u no vex...

Se fi ni...you said it all. A man is more than his money...or height or complexion. If you can judge us, you have no right to tell us we cannot judge you by the same measure you used to measure us. ;DIf she likes, she can remain single...last last, she will fall in line.

Tallesty1:
Her frustration is valid, but she is also very, very foolish. Yes, men reduce women to their physical appearance at first glance, which is understandable since you have to tell them or show them what they’re not seeing—and it ends there. But what she, just like every other woman, often leaves unexamined is that the culture women criticize is also one they help construct.

If you invite 20 celebrities to an event, 10 men and 10 women. The men will come nicely or weirdly dressed. The women will wear expensive clothes that covered everywhere except the places clothes where originally meant to cover, the two decently dressed women will cheer them on and snap them for us at home to see.

We now live in an era where empowerment is often expressed through hypersexualized imagery. While everyone has the right to bodily autonomy, we can’t ignore the contradictions: the same platforms where women demand to be seen as more than their bodies are often the very ones where many self-objectify for attention, monetization, or validation.

Religion teaches that modesty isn’t oppression; it’s intentional dignity. Philosophy reminds us that freedom without restraint collapses into chaos. Academically, we know objectification is a two-way transaction: it requires both the objectifier and the one willingly objectified.

So yes, women are more than their bodies. But accountability requires examining how they present themselves to the world as much as how the world perceives them. You can’t wear a costume and be angry that you’re cast in a role. If you want a culture that sees the whole woman, you must help build one that honors her whole image—mind, body, and spirit.

pocohantas:
You done come back with your bad character, ba?

I am well behaved na

benalvino3:
Women are not forced to dress almost naked. Instagram is filled with girls posting almost naked videos inviting men to sexualize then. Talk to the girls not men.

Abi.. what did she expect when ladies of nowadays dress half naked and seduce men

Then tell the ladies to dress decently and cover themselves up and sexualizing will stop
... simple

Sexualized by who Men or what is she saying

DyshApp:
https://thenationonlineng.net/reality-star-doyin-criticises-men-who-s3xualise-women/

I say this with a very heavy heart - IT IS THE WOMEN WHO INSIST OF SEXUALIZING THEMSELVES, against advice of men.

Please tell me what over 95% of women show in their dressings, dances, behaviors, and even their speech, etc?

Check online hookup apps where people intentionally and willingly under no compulsion, create profiles to prostitute themselves- how
many women do you see there actively marketing their wares.

Unfortunately, even the speaker herself is only known for sexualizing herself, what else can she offer the world?

Why do women spend billions of money worldwide to do BBLs?? to appear decent? To desexualize themselves? Why

pocohantas:
You done come back with your bad character, ba?

Good woman... you still dey?

U be legend sha

Colson:
A well crafted ChatGpt post...

You self still go use ChatGPTs best choice of word reply am

How you people craft words like that hun?

Dis one just want people to hear her....as una dey go knack for bbh....una no no..u just go some where before u knw...una don dey knack....pls.pls...just close mouth pls

Some women write off men based on their looks and financial muscle.....there is more to the man asides looks and money


Oga, na so life be just take am like that

jojothaiv:
Might not be.

I've been in the same group with the man and he writes well, there are folks are better than chatgpt out there.

he was aided by ChatGpt 💯

The long hyphen is the signature punctuation of a ChatGpt generated write up.

But if you come on a first date and a guy gives you money, you go collect??