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| Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 10:05am On Jun 06, 2025*. Modified: 12:35pm On Jun 07, 2025 |
For security reasons, I decided to post this with this acc. I don't know what to do and how to say this. But I pray and hope that you understand and offer me the Best advice possible. Been vulnerable and defenceless coupled with depression led me into joining a cult group. If I had joined while in school, I may not have lived to tell the full story cos I was going to be killed. But thank God for sparing my life. I joined after sch. I was depressed. I was oppressed. I had nobody(not even a family) to fight for, or defend me. I'm this gentle kind of person and it seems most gentle people suffer more in Nigeria as people take advantage of your gentility. You can be avoiding trouble yet trouble keeps finding you. That's just the simple way to put it. Two years ago, I got initiated and was assigned someone( an old member) who would be giving me constant orientation of the cult group. Three weeks later, I traveled and I heard that same guy and another Member had been killed by rival cult group. I was terrified. Before the clash, I had already been warned by the rivals to stay off else I may not return home with my both legs as they intended destroying one or both of my legs. I became even more scared cos I was a stranger in that place. This was what led to my Traveling outta the place.. I joined them in attending all the meetings and these meetings always result in attacks from rival groups. Then I asked myself why I should be living such a careless life that could make me die like a cockroach at any time? I asked myself again, Do I want to die so soon after all I suffered to achieve in life? I have completely left the environment, blocked all the phone contacts of my colleagues and even on Facebook. I'm no longer interested. I want peace. I have come along way and wouldn't want to be harmed for no reason but because I joined a wrong association out of Depression and loneliness. For those who were there and denounced their association with them, is there any other thing I need to do? I'm at peace with myself because I didn't kill or harm anybody while I was in the group. Since I joined after sch, I wasn't recruited into the rank and file of the association but as a Senior Man. Nlfpmod Nlfpmod
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| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Nemesis0147(m): 10:41am On Jun 06, 2025 |
Since you have change your location and environment You are good to go Just cut ties with your old squad. 7 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 10:52am On Jun 06, 2025 |
Nemesis0147:Ok Sir 🙏 |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Jamesmatic(m): 1:04pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
First of all na which cult you join. If you join d one Wey many rivals hate. You no go last.?you for just dey chill and remain neutral. But my only advice for you na to go run beta juju make dem comot eye for your body 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 1:25pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Jamesmatic:God is the only juju I have sir. I have left the association already 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Jamesmatic(m): 1:36pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Chram:Okay good luck to you. Who can do can bear? As you get mind take join the cult you go still bear the consequences. |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 1:47pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Jamesmatic:U sure say u dey quick understand something so? 2 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by LanceNL: 2:19pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Chram:Sir, do not mind the young man trying to drag you back. Don't listen to his lies. If possible, block him on NL. That's the rubbish they keep yapping to keep men bound. It's only through Jesus Christ, that you can experience the peace of God, and thank God you've found him - He that dwells in the secret place of the most high, shall abide under the shadow of the almighty. The mistake had been made, lessons learnt, and thanks to God for sparing your life. Join a bible believing church that prays fervently and encourages personal development (I'd also suggest listening to apostle Joshua Selman's messages), attend life changing seminars, and seek friendship with people who are going to your destination in life. Don't live your life in fear of anything or anyone, Just avoid any means of contact to the former area, change your mobile, and get a job, skill ... as it were. If you have 1st connection relatives back there, be wise and discreet with communications, and do that anonymously. You can still be who you dream to be. I've battled depression before, and I know how hopeless life might look. But your reality would be what you declare and work life to be. Things have taken a new turn for me, I believe yours too will get better and better speedily. Stay blessed bro. 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 2:57pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
LanceNL:Thanks so much Sir |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by dopedealer(m): 2:57pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Nemesis0147:Person life de at risk you de talk wetin you no no.. So does changing environment make him invisible? No be by force to tenda advise o leave matter for Matias 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Lance008(m): 3:24pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Na viki u join he sure me 💯 |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Lance008(m): 3:27pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
dopedealer:Boss u are wrong If u change location u can never be indetify as one unless u mistakenly meet ur old friend Every area for cultism get diff leaders and office holders But the day dem know say na 1 u be and u Dey hide dem fit come pack ur load for house no body go answer u because the day u were initiated nobody knew ur agreement 4 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 3:38pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Lance008:Check ur notifications |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by PaNnamdi(m): 3:39pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Chram:Don't happy too soon rivals fit get ur pics and might be on your tail,dot u know every cult group get rivals informants wey don infiltrate am. |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by adamkkk: 3:53pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
things I never had the stomach for while in school Gambling Cultism Drug I am not preaching religion and I didn't make those move because of religious reasons. I stayed away from these things because they just don't interest me, i see them as stress. 4 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 4:08pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
PaNnamdi:That's your business. You can't decide my happiness |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 4:09pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Lance008:Na u Sabi that one o |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 4:09pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
adamkkk:You did well |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by flokii: 4:13pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
@OP It is well with you.. cultism, occultism and likes only add to people's problems. 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Olachase(m): 4:32pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
That's how one of my guy joined cult without my awareness This guy invited me for a drink at one joint, we were there till 8:30pm, this guy newly joined hoo how come he's now wanted by rivals To cut the story short they located us at the joint, they beat this my guy without touching me Luckily for him they didn't kill him Last month makes it 3 years he left Lagos and relocated back to his village, but since last year his number wasn't reachable again maybe he changed number or he's dead I can't say 5 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by shortgun(m): 4:42pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Your story is fabricated from your imagination  You are even getting Intel from a rival group before a hit 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by dopedealer(m): 5:01pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
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| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Chram(op): 5:36pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
[quote author=flokii post=135648577]@OP It is well with you.. cultism, occultism and likes only add to people's problems. [/quote Thanks |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Lance008(m): 6:04pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Chram:I no see anything Why can't u say it here |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Lance008(m): 6:09pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Olachase:All this story dey mak me fear to even waka with person talkless of go sit down drink U were lucky say no be gun dem use Some no even sabi target dem no train dem na Na to jus carry gun Dey shot up and down 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Adewale1603(m): 6:34pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
Na mumu dey join cultist. You've already signed your death warrant. In this advanced era age of technology advancement and development, some bush people are still doing cultism, at your age, you're still doing cultist. You no do cultism gan, Nigeria is not safe for anyone, one can kpai at anytime, robbery, accident, bandits, kidnappers. You still intentionally Walk into death trap 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by Allsmilez999: 6:39pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
What do you mean by oppression? “ I was depressed. I was oppressed. I had nobody(not even a family) to fight for, or defend me. I'm this gentle kind of person and it seems most gentle people suffer more in Nigeria as people take advantage of your gentility. You can be avoiding trouble yet trouble keeps finding you. That's just the simple way to put it. “ Kindly elaborate/ Give a few instances of such scenarios where you were taken advantage of. |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by CJStarz: 6:52pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
So those wey dem dey kpai no do juju to comot eye for dia body? Dey play. Safety is guaranteed only in Christ Jesus. I be living witness. Jamesmatic: 1 Like |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by CJStarz: 6:54pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
LanceNL:Maximum respects, sir! 2 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by josh123(m): 7:56pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
I once had a friend who swore he would never joined Cultism,after graduation he went to Lagos to pursue his music career and business, he had rich friends and he was told that for him to have connections he needs to join, he was desperate for money and he later joined. Nobody knows he is a cultist except few of his friends but he regrets joining them. He left Lagos and Cultism was one of the reasons he left 3 Likes |
| Re: Depression Led Me Into Seeking Solace In Cultism. How Do I Exit The Group Now? by kpankpangolo: 8:48pm On Jun 06, 2025 |
I believe this is made up. Let me book space here and come to a conclusion later. 2 Likes |
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