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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by yeyebrity: 7:59pm On Jun 11, 2025

Una no dey tire for marriage talk?

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by yesloaded: 7:59pm On Jun 11, 2025

Late marriage is not good at all but too much expectation from men makes early marriage difficult

There's no fun training your children at old age like 60yrs+

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Zannix(m): 7:59pm On Jun 11, 2025

Married at 29 no regrets.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Expanse2020(m): 8:01pm On Jun 11, 2025

[quote author= post=135701276]A 23 old young man knows nothing about life. Definitely not a good idea.[/quote]Nobody marry Early regret it .
Na poverty mentally you de use view am

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Expanse2020(m): 8:02pm On Jun 11, 2025

bluebay:
Marrying early
Is not right

.
Na poverty mentally de make you yawn nonsense guy

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Adewale1603(m): 8:04pm On Jun 11, 2025

There's no PDF manual for life. Either one marry early or one marry late. It means nothing. Just pray for things to work between both partners, pray to marry a good woman as a man, and as a woman pray to marry a good man. Marrying the right partner is underrated. Just pray to marry right once and for all.
If you marry wrong lasan, it would affect your life journey.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:05pm On Jun 11, 2025

[quote author= post=135701276]A 23 old young man knows nothing about life. Definitely not a good idea.[/quote]Die this narrative! My father married at 26, but he still believed that he married late. 21 is ripe enough for marriage

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Mozikwe: 8:05pm On Jun 11, 2025

It depends on you as a person and most importantly the type of woman you get married to,using myself as an example got married at the age of 27 even with the ups and downs in marriages we are still getting stronger each day.

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by ayobarmy(m): 8:07pm On Jun 11, 2025

pocohantas:
Please what made you marry @ 24 as a man?
I am sure you understand what I mean.
No offense intended at all

Sec scl done, Apprenticeship done
University Education looking almost Impossible, Already started Working
Chooses to settle dow than following my friends to the Club......
To God be the Glory
It's been the best decision So Far....

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by terrezo2002(m): 8:08pm On Jun 11, 2025

Whether you marry early or late, any marriage can lead to regrets.
1. Marry the one you love.
2. Be mature and well prepared for the worst.
3. Be humble.
4. Be open to your partner.
5. Spend quality time together
6. Share many things together and have things in common. Not my car, my house, my room. Let it be 'ours'
7. Most importantly, let God be help.

Marriage is only for those who can bear it. It comes with many funny challenges. If you are able to manage them well, then marriage is for you. Those who can't go for divorce. They jump to another relationship hoping that will be better, only to find out the one they ran from was better. Marriage is not for everyone.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:10pm On Jun 11, 2025

Patriotic9ja:
Married at 27, wifey 21. Our first child 12, second 10, and last is 7. It's been awesome, especially when people think your child is your little sister lol.

I always wanted to marry early while growing up and conclude having kids before 30 to 35. Its been awesome and all thanks to God and a mentally matured and intelligent wife despite her age (21).

Yes it's great to marry early but the man especially must be mentally matured and ready to lead the family. All what a young wife needs is a matured husband to love, guide, and protect her

My friend married at 20, and became a grandfather at 42. He may likely become a great-grandpa at 62-63.

You guys are fortunate! I got married at 34, my wife had early marriage @24

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by bluefilm: 8:12pm On Jun 11, 2025

Why all these marriage posts on nairaland all of a sudden of recent?

Whose business exactly is it that I am not yet married?

Am I the only one at my age who is not yet married?

Please if it's a joke, you people should better stop it now immediately

Is Don Jazzy married?

Even Seun of nairaland, is he married?

So why are you people after my life over this marriage issue of a thing?

One more word about this marriage thing eh... I will ... I will... In short...

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 8:14pm On Jun 11, 2025*

ayobarmy:
Sec scl done, Apprenticeship done
University Education looking almost Impossible, Already started Working
Chooses to settle dow than following my friends to the Club......
To God be the Glory
It's been the best decision So Far....

Oh, I get it now.
That was quite a bold decision you took.
I am happy it is you are happy in the marriage. That is the most important part.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by FameGlory(f): 8:15pm On Jun 11, 2025

Marriage is not easy.

So if I marry now, does that mean my husband will see me naked when I'm wearing my pant?

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Patriotic9ja(m): 8:17pm On Jun 11, 2025

TonyeBarcanista:
My friend married at 20, and became a grandfather at 42. He may likely become a great-grandpa at 62-63.

You guys are fortunate! I got married at 34, my wife had early marriage @24

34 is also good too, especially with the present realities in the country. I know some guys over 40 still single

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by 1phone(m): 8:24pm On Jun 11, 2025

May anything you believe on and serve blessed You mightly.
I have sad story to tell when am finally out of this sh*t I put myself in

Abaziaka:
DON'T TRY IT IF YOU'RE NOT FINANCIALLY STABLE
it might kill ur aspirations, crippling ur children futures if ur partner is not supportive enough

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:25pm On Jun 11, 2025

Patriotic9ja:
34 is also good too, especially with the present realities in the country. I know some guys over 40 still single

Honestly, if not that my former relationship collapsed when I was 23, I'd have married her @25-26.

My father married at 26 and he kept saying he married as an old man grin

. I do tease him that I married as an ancestor.

Meanwhile, I have an associate who is unmarried @39 and still sees himself as a young dude. I do tell him that if he's not careful his child teachers will be addressing him as Daddy and he will be made the Chairman of the PTA in the school.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Procashtips(m): 8:28pm On Jun 11, 2025

TonyeBarcanista:
My friend married at 20, and became a grandfather at 42. He may likely become a great-grandpa at 62-63.

You guys are fortunate! I got married at 34, my wife had early marriage @24

Meaning you are 10 years older than your wife?

I married 2 months to my 36th birthday and I regret waiting that long.

Goal was to be married at 27.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Focusmind: 8:31pm On Jun 11, 2025

If you have the money, go ahead and marry on time. But if you don't have the money or you are struggling, please don't do it. It would cut your likelihood of success by half. I was financially ok to marry at 28 but didn't do it. I married at 32, well prepared, financially, emotionally and mentally. I was also ready to be a father at 32 and was well prepared for the arrival of the little ones unlike when I was 28.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by femi4: 8:32pm On Jun 11, 2025

Imma624:
Men who married early at 23, 24, 25 or before 30. Do you regret your decision or enjoy marrying early.
Let's discuss.....mature responses only

No regret.

At 50, you are through with paying school fees

Nothing beat such feelings, you have extra cash to flex n get a new wife if you want

2. Your best sex life is between 20 - 40

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by kay29000(m): 8:33pm On Jun 11, 2025

TonyeBarcanista:
Honestly, if not that my former relationship collapsed when I was 23, I'd have married her @25-26.

My father married at 26 and he kept saying he married as an old man . I do tease him that I married as an ancestor.

Meanwhile, I have an associate who is unmarried @39 and still sees himself as a young dude. I do tell him that if he's not careful his child teachers will be addressing him as Daddy and he will be made the Chairman of the PTA in the school.

You can't understand how much this made me laugh and why it made me laugh. grin

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Slytiger: 8:34pm On Jun 11, 2025

If I was to do it again, I won't marry young.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by JuanDeDios: 8:36pm On Jun 11, 2025

isio1:
Marrying early brings a lot of joy, when I see my children and grandchildren. today I have little or no worries. I married at the age of 22, became a grandfather at 46+ today I am so happy because one of my grandchildren is already in the Uni at age 17 and my last born is serving (NYSC) already. Life in the 80s was fun, more habitable and cheaper, unlike the new World of today.

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Ofekongsk(m): 8:36pm On Jun 11, 2025

But some from the 80s will say life was difficult then compared to now because they were probably picking palm kernels in the bush undecided

isio1:
Marrying early brings a lot of joy, when I see my children and grandchildren. today I have little or no worries. I married at the age of 22, became a grandfather at 46+ today I am so happy because one of my grandchildren is already in the Uni at age 17 and my last born is serving (NYSC) already. Life in the 80s was fun, more habitable and cheaper, unlike the new World of today.

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Shigabs(m): 8:39pm On Jun 11, 2025

Don't let anybody deceive you, if you find a good woman please marry early. Our life span as Nigerians is reducing steadily. I married at 28 and that's the best decision I have made in life.

Imma624:
Men who married early at 23, 24, 25 or before 30. Do you regret your decision or enjoy marrying early.
Let's discuss.....mature responses only

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by Ofekongsk(m): 8:40pm On Jun 11, 2025

It's okay to marry early as a man when your pocket dey loaded. You go mature along the process.

Imma624:
Men who married early at 23, 24, 25 or before 30. Do you regret your decision or enjoy marrying early.
Let's discuss.....mature responses only

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by udeh3(m): 8:43pm On Jun 11, 2025

The challenges in marriage waits for everyone whether you marry early or late. It takes matured minds to keep a home and this isn't a function of age, rather a function of the mind. A man in my church in his early 50s now has a grandchild and all his children at so matured at heart. All done with University. Two out of three children done with masters already before 25yrs

I'll rather marry early than I did if I have the opportunity to change time as marrying late doesn't eliminate marriage challenges

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:45pm On Jun 11, 2025

Procashtips:
Meaning you are 10 years older than your wife?

Absolutely

I married 2 months to my 36th birthday and I regret waiting that long.

Goal was to be married at 27.

My goal was 26/27 but babe called off things three years into the relationship sad

when I was 23. Though she wanted a return 6 months after but I refused! This caused my delay.

I've never seen any need to wait into late 20s or 30s, however, I've never believed in desperation or a fan for one to settle down with just anybody.

Omo the joy of early marriage is sweet

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by doncartel: 8:45pm On Jun 11, 2025

Hausa men left the group chat

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:46pm On Jun 11, 2025

kay29000:
You can't understand how much this made me laugh and why it made me laugh.

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Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by harbeyhmiu(m): 8:49pm On Jun 11, 2025

I’m not regretting anything ooo if not I won’t marry again

Re: Men Who Married Early. Do You Enjoy Or Regret Your Marriage? by highchief1: 8:49pm On Jun 11, 2025

Imma624:
Men who married early at 23, 24, 25 or before 30. Do you regret your decision or enjoy marrying early.
Let's discuss.....mature responses only

if I see my grown up kids I’m happy I did.but if I know wetin I know now I no go marry at all.

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