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God help make my dreams come true. I want to house a white woman or Japanese. I need biracial kids!

McLizbae:
Nigerian women are the best. If eh no be naija girl run oo!

Why do I generalized it? En thats how you also generalize it when 1 or 2 naija women run you down now. And I am even doing it better now because I have how many women? 1 (mum), 234 (3GW: my sisters), 5 (my additional sister: sister-in-law), and then my soulmate (this one will take any number she pleases😁).

I am a grown man now (38 years old), and I have been a beloved son for all my years. My mum has all the way been the normal (I hope it is actually normal to be) loving, caring, disciplined, selfless, and responsible mother. She can never be taken for granted and her place is locked and irreplaceable in my heart.

My sisters, the 3GW, as I call them when referring to to the 3 of them, are unque women that have got my back since day one. They remain people and places I can always go to, and always be welcomed. We are all 5, I gallanty hold position 4, the 3 sisters hold positions 1, 2, and 3, and then my kid bro (the last kick😁). Now, 3GW actually means "three good witches". I just know you want it, so let me briefly give you the gist. So wayback when we were young (just entered jss1 in a boys only secondary school then), I told my parents and sisters about a older boy and senior who bullys me in the new school. We all know him because he is also a member of our church, and I think my mum talk about the issue with his parents, but he never really stopped, and sometimes even instigate his colleagues to bully me at school and I keep bringing the stories home, particularly to my sisters. So, on that day of his undoing were in church and he did somehow towards me. Just from nowhere, sister 3 has jumped on him and before I could even moved sister 1 and 2 have joined 3 and all I had to do was to watch how dude was fatally finished. When the beating was finally stopped, the only thing I could him muttering repeatedly was "witches, witches, witches", while my sisters laugh in full fun. So since that day I call them witches (they tried to stop that) and later good witches, and the acronyms 3GW that was finally accepted😁.

My brother's wife is the only in-law I have from a different tribe. She is great! This sister have brought absolute support, comfort and peace to my brother's life. She respect and regard me, my sisters, and parents and no one takes her for granted too. She is the last addition, but she was the one that created the family group including 5 of us and our spouses, which has been much interesting, engaging and beneficial than our siblings group. What I love most about her is her ability to bond with my wife whos really not a friend keeper. This kinda align with the bond between me and my brother.I can't ask for a better additional sister jor!

So now, my soulmate for 15 years (4 in courtship and 11 in marriage). If I start talk on this it no go finish. Girl is simply my ride or die, and partner in doings😁. Understanding shakes sometimes but the love and faithfulness gets bigger and stronger everyday.

Mods please let's have this promotional and realistic thread for made in Nigeria women.

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Graciously, it is not. I take it that you guys are taking this drama to the next level. What I posted there is a reality, and I believe it's normal.

Entanglement:
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Lols... Seriously, what part of that story actually seem like a fiction to you?

cutecommend:
Is this true?

Finally, normal humans are talking!

highoctane:
I agree in toto

That particular lady is selfish, thank God you found out early and made the decision that is best for the 2 of you.
There are many good girls in Nigeria bro. Guys are still marrying them till this very moment. I am not a relationship expert, but I know it possible to keep getting attracted to the persons you are not compactible with. But again, relationship na work. You and your spouse must be ready to put in the work that will sustain your relationship.

DadojoReloaded:
I'm 36 years old and can't seem to find a Nigerian lady to marry around me in Delta state.
I'm thinking about embarking on a trip to one of these African countries. Maybe, luck might be on my side.
My last relationship was with an Igbo lady who was a first daughter. She was schooling and needed me to support her.

However, all she kept saying was how she wanted to build a house for her parents in the village and also take care of her family.

So I asked my self one question: Why should I spend my money to support you in Nursing school, (that your parents aren't able to) only for you to finish and spend your money on your family (Including her brothers) while I spend mine in running our home?
It just didn't make sense to me.

This is actually focused on the women how have amazingly integrated into a world created by men. You may comprehend that I tried to completely shade my dad (the king superhero), my brother, and brother in laws, in this article.

shegzhkn:
Lol. I thought women integrate into the society built by the men. Does your society looks like one that will raise prim and proper human??

You must be living in a crazy wild world of Nigerian women for this article to sound nonsensical to you. I really wish to read what you regard as a "sensible journal" of Nigerian women. Una Don really suffer o!

Solofresh2:
Pure nonsense!

This part of the article answers your query [/b]Why do I generalized it? En thats how you also generalize it when 1 or 2 naija women run you down now. And I am even doing it better now because I have how many women?[b] 7 Nigerian women!
So, sarcastically, I can also continue to say Nigerian women are the best!

Chickensoup:
First of all, the generalization is wrong simply because you have good women that are related to you except your wife. When you mean Nigerian women are good, which women are we talking about?
Is it the ones in cult?
Is it the ones that join in scam?
Is it the ones that try to extort and steal?
Is it the ones that set you up for kidnap?
Is it the ones that sleep with their best friends boyfriend?
Is it the ones that cheat?
Is it the ones that leave a guy after he paid for her schooling?

The list can go on so no, women aren't the Angels you are trying to portray. Most Nigerian women treat strangers differently depending on looks and assets.

Thank you for this divine campaign. Feels like a breath of fresh air and a break from the norm. I got tired reading about how children from dysfunctional homes come online to disgrace their mothers and sisters all in the name of fuelling a hate campaign against women.


There are good and bad people out there and it is not subjective to Nigerian women only. These children date h*es and expect to get angelic treatment. (Pun intended)

DadojoReloaded:
I'm 36 years old and can't seem to find a Nigerian lady to marry around me in Delta state.
I'm thinking about embarking on a trip to one of these African countries. Maybe, luck might be on my side.
My last relationship was with an Igbo lady who was a first daughter. She was schooling and needed me to support her.

However, all she kept saying was how she wanted to build a house for her parents in the village and also take care of her family.

So I asked my self one question: Why should I spend my money to support you in Nursing school, (that your parents aren't able to) only for you to finish and spend your money on your family (Including her brothers) while I spend mine in running our home?
It just didn't make sense to me.

You have dated women around you and also one Igbo lady. Is that enough to brandish all of us as bad? Is/was your mother a bad wife to your father? Are you trying to say all the marriages you see around you are suffering?


So let's say all the ladies around you are not marriageable, hence the next line of action is to extend your search to other African countries... Great! Last time I checked, 36 states make up Nigeria.



Well your need, your choice! All the best!!

Na luck u just get. Please no dey disturb us

Stereotypes exist for a reason...

For examplè in USA Black American women attend Churches the most than anyother race women (White, Latinos, Native americans, and the rest)

But they are the most rambunctious, crass, loud and baby mamas, highest number of unmarried angry ladies...

The least race desirable for marriage and relationship in general.

Thats a bad rap of a statistics for the most religious race of women.

Come to Nigeria the most populous black Nation

The second highest number of paternity fraud in the world is done by Nigerian women.

Yes, fact check it.

So your sisters are the outliers, and it shows you are not aware of your environment and ignorant to know your sisters are statistically insignificant to the general norm of women in Nigeria.

McLizbae:
You must be living in a crazy wild world of Nigerian women for this article to sound nonsensical to you. I really wish to read what you regard as a "sensible journal" of Nigerian women. Una Don really suffer o!

Bros abeg rest. All this epistle just because I said ‘pure nonsense’? You don turn forum to family WhatsApp group, giving us unsolicited CV of your sisters, wife, and in-law. You even form ‘3 Good Witches’ like say na Marvel origin story. Oga, we're talking reality, not your personal episode of ‘My Nigerian Women and Me’. Clap for yourself, but no come dey gaslight those wey no jam your fairytale edition. Life no be your living room

Rooorubbish post .....naija wvmen don cast infact na our mama generation were the best these new generation of gyals forget dem na ololo dem be

No be for this genz women
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Lols... "Fairytale" ehh really!? Now let me tell you that as fairy as that sound to you, I can tell you I am just trying to admire what I have. Because, I have also seen other people doing much better. No intentions to hurt anyone though (and this shouldn't hurt anyone really), but I believe sharing it should be motivating rather than gaslighting.

Solofresh2:
Bros abeg rest. All this epistle just because I said ‘pure nonsense’? You don turn forum to family WhatsApp group, giving us unsolicited CV of your sisters, wife, and in-law. You even form ‘3 Good Witches’ like say na Marvel origin story. Oga, we're talking reality, not your personal episode of ‘My Nigerian Women and Me’. Clap for yourself, but no come dey gaslight those wey no jam your fairytale edition. Life no be your living room

Glowqueen3:
There are good women out there and also you are a good Man hence the reason why you end up with a good woman,some Men are not good so they attract almajiri ladies and also some ladies can sense a good Man from afar,if they see a good Man they will stay but if it is a bad Man they will ignore and bypass him because they believe this is not what they want.
Also some ladies use billing to send away Men they don't like they sometimes have the mentality that he will eventually leave if they bill him high and most times it work for some ladies while the simps among those Men will stay and they are refer to as their Maga or Dodoyo/Fool.
The same way a Man can use a lady for his selfish purpose is also the same way a lady can also use a Man.It is two way thing.

Nice one

But your assertions in your first paragraph is wrong...

Not all good people are lucky to have a good spouse...that can't be overemphasized sha...cos it's happening everyday here in Nigeria..so it's clear

Moreover, we have more good men than good women....this is the reason we celebrate good women when we see one..we refer to them as rare gem...in fact this post says It all....

Even women with bad characters are looking for good men to marry... Reducing the options of the women with good characters...

A lot of good men are trapped in marriage with bad women than the other way around..

Why

Because bad women can easily recognize a good man from afar than a good woman could...

That's why you see a lot of good women ending up with bad boys...

And good men ending up with bad wives... Call it life drama

As for me...na good woman I go marry ...as I am ready to go all out for her.....

McLizbae:
Lols... "Fairytale" ehh really!? Now let me tell you that as fairy as that sound to you, I can tell you I am just trying to admire what I have. Because, I have also seen other people doing much better. No intentions to hurt anyone though (and this shouldn't hurt anyone really), but I believe sharing it will motivating rather than gaslighting.

Fair enough. But let’s be honest—you didn’t just ‘admire’ what you have, you built a whole shrine and invited the rest of us to worship at it. Motivation is sweet, but next time spice it with a little humility and less Nollywood soundtrack. Not everyone’s reality comes wrapped in ribbons and good witches

[/b]...but next time spice it with a little humility and less Nollywood soundtrack. Not everyone’s reality comes wrapped in ribbons and good witches[b] lols... I hear you.

Solofresh2:
Fair enough. But let’s be honest—you didn’t just ‘admire’ what you have, you built a whole shrine and invited the rest of us to worship at it. Motivation is sweet, but next time spice it with a little humility and less Nollywood soundtrack. Not everyone’s reality comes wrapped in ribbons and good witches

McLizbae:
Thank you baba. I want to believe there are many lucky men and women out there having stable and peaceful relationship with their spouses too. But you know, its the "men are scum and women are bad" folks that seem to be loudest this days. Casting doubts that good relationships and strong family ties actually
exist on an appreciable scale in the society.

Of course that's true but more important is TRENDS. Anyone 40 to 50 years old can tell that the mating market has deteriorated badly in the last 10 years or so.

In Nigeria the major reason is the increasing levels of POVERTY and the DESPERATION to avoid falling into and remaining in poverty.

In the US & UK it's the increasingly SOCIALIST policies that have destroyed the family. For example in the UK, 33% of children in the sub-Saharan, Black African community are born to single unmarried mothers. In 1950 over 75% of Black American children were born/living with two married parents, today less than 25% are in that structure.

Nigerians in particular are so hard hit that EVERY RELATIONSHIP in life....with siblings, career, business, marriage, religion, social clubs politics....EVERYTHING is now about how to leverage that relationship to extract free MONEY. I'll cite this as an example - in the USA today, it's common for Nigerians to form Committee of Friends to support funerals and related expenses for bereaved persons. Most of the time the money becomes the subject of controversy and fraud. Same thing with money contributed by Nigeria alumni associations.

The primary mode of existence for Black Africans since Contact with Europeans/Arabs has been xeno-parasitism coupled to an unceasing DECEPTION & EXPLOITATION of their fellow Black Africans, taking without providing anything in return. That's what the Slave Trade was all about.

It's not about marital relationships, it's about EVERYTHING, everything in Nigeria has been poisoned by the desperation of poverty.

Good Luck to Nigerians.

Na me be the OP, and I think your mind is in the right settings

ImoleNaija:
My mind too dirty walahi

Poverty being the reason for unstable relationship and irresponsibility growth in the society, is just a plausible idea.
On a larger scale, I believe the issue is a culture that is being incorporated by wild exposure and wokeness. This issue is not strapped to any class of people in Nigeria (as it is all over the world), and it is not uncommon among both the elite and the less privileged society. I can even augue that this issue is rising with the misuse of the freedom of rights and models of privileges.

IbeOkehie:
Of course that's true but more important is TRENDS. Anyone 40 to 50 years old can tell that the mating market has deteriorated badly in the last 10 years or so.

In Nigeria the major reason is the increasing levels of POVERTY and the DESPERATION to avoid falling into and remaining in poverty.

In the US & UK it's the increasingly SOCIALIST policies that have destroyed the family. For example in the UK, 33% of children in the sub-Saharan, Black African community are born to single unmarried mothers. In 1950 over 75% of Black American children were born/living with two married parents, today less than 25% are in that structure.

Nigerians in particular are so hard hit that EVERY RELATIONSHIP in life....with siblings, career, business, marriage, religion, social clubs politics....EVERYTHING is now about how to leverage that relationship to extract free MONEY. I'll cite this as an example - in the USA today, it's common for Nigerians to form Committee of Friends to support funerals and related expenses for bereaved persons. Most of the time the money becomes the subject of controversy and fraud. Same thing with money contributed by Nigeria alumni associations.

The primary mode of existence for Black Africans since Contact with Europeans/Arabs has been xeno-parasitism coupled to an unceasing DECEPTION & EXPLOITATION of their fellow Black Africans, taking without providing anything in return. That's what the Slave Trade was all about.

It's not about marital relationships, it's about EVERYTHING, everything in Nigeria has been poisoned by the desperation of poverty.

Good Luck to Nigerians.