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efficiencie:
➜Are you married? If yes, is this how you relate with your spouse?

Partnership marriage is nothing like your submission marriage.

highchief1:
ok o but give the guy small time e go soon begin cry.i also tot my wife was sent from heaven until lately.

omo I read your comment begin laff. No be small thing oh...but I wonder why things like that happen. How person go dey okay today come dey do anyhow tomorrow.

Kobojunkie:
Partnership marriage is nothing like your submission marriage.

You don dey assume like mumu now. I talk sey your partnership marriage bad? Na simple question I ask you con dey assume anyhow.

efficiencie:
➜You don dey assume like mumu now. I talk sey your partnership marriage bad? Na simple question I ask you con dey assume anyhow.

Are you certain you are OK at all? I said a partnership marriage is nothing like a submission-type marriage. Why are you incensed by that?

[quote author=edogu
There're so many things to write but let me stop here.[/quote]You have wealth of experience + you are a role model yourself

Kobojunkie:
Are you certain you are OK at all? I said a partnership marriage is nothing like a submission-type marriage. Why are you incensed by that?

First you assumed I was comparing I wasn't. I just wanted to know your view. Two you said "your submissive marriage" and I didn't claim to have a submissive marriage in the question. Clearly you are the one that is incensed here. Rushing into unfounded assumptions and not really communicating. You are almost always antagonistic for no reason. You need to chill.

efficiencie:
omo I read your comment begin laff. No be small thing oh...but I wonder why things like that happen. How person go dey okay today come dey do anyhow tomorrow.

It takes two people to play tennis game.

efficiencie:
➜First you assumed I was comparing, I wasn't. I just wanted to know. your view . Two you said "your submissive marriage" and I didn't claim to have a submissive marriage in the question. Clearly you are the on that is incensed here. Rushing into unfounded assumptions and not really communicating. You are almost always antagonistic for no reason. You need to chill.

Abeg, waka pass me.... I no get time for all this whining today! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

efficiencie:
First you assumed I was comparing I wasn't. I just wanted to know your view. Two you said "your submissive marriage" and I didn't claim to have a submissive marriage in the question. Clearly you are the one that is incensed here. Rushing into unfounded assumptions and not really communicating. You are almost always antagonistic for no reason. You need to chill.

You guys seems to live in the same apartment.

goodmuscopi:
You guys seems to live in the same apartment.

I like her but she dey quick vex. Like she is waiting to blast people.

Marriage is not for the faint hearted....if your body no full no put body

dollytino4real:
Don't marry illiterate for the singles, whether man or woman pls run from them. They always feel cheated as if you are the cause of their illiteracy. My challenges are plenty ranging from children to husband but it is well.

Says a second class lower or third class certificate holder. They are the only ones that reason this way. High flying ladies in academics use their wealth of experience to upgrade their spouses but oharoad let my people go people always want to rub it on their spouses face that they saw the forewalls of the university of even poly. Repent!

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, waka pass me.... I no get time for all this whining today! 🙄🙄🙄🙄

I refuse to waka pass you today...I must disturb you

Amwitty:
please why do you say so.....................................................................

He want to generalize his bitter experience.

efficiencie:
➜I refuse to waka pass you today...I must disturb you

. Look, I made my point already. Any emotional/private issue you have with what I said has nothing to do with me. I am not in the mood to bicker on such things.

efficiencie:
I like her but she dey quick vex. Like she is waiting to blast people.

If you are so sure of the gender then I will assume you guys knew one another.

Ouchbabe:
I have a beautiful marriage. The only challenge is the my hubby is hardly around, always travelling. I sometimes feel lonely.
I also wish we had more money to enable me get a softer babygirl life

Hmmmm! I heard more than you said.
,,,...........,

highchief1:
who told u u are lucky.do u know what she is cooking,

Yes. She is cooking your head for dinner.

Kobojunkie:
. Look, I made my point already. Any emotional/private issue you have with what I said has nothing to do with me. I am not in the mood to bicker on such things.

..we don't have to bicker...we can just chat...and disagree and be cool with it. You still haven't answered my question oh. Are you married?

efficiencie:
➜..we don't have to bicker...we can just chat...and disagree and be cool with it. You still haven't answered my question oh. Are you married?

The topic is nothing about me or my private life, and so, I see no reason why you should concern yourself with that.

Kobojunkie:
Kids can be had outside of a marriage, so the same set of sacrifices are necessarily when pursuing that. These sacrifices are not unique to married couples.

Maybe try to understand things you read?

Ok, I'll try again. I'm NOT talking about the sacrifices of raising kids. I'm talking about the sacrifices of marriage itself (which should have been clear to you since that's what we're talking about). Some people believe they need to be married to have kids, so they "endure" the "sacrifices" of marriage to reap that benefit (that is, kids).

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you na weyrey alasho, they will just be minding their own business

He is a genius of sort.
But one day monkey go enter market and will not return

naijapikin2:
See ehn... This thread is timely. I am married (for want of a better word).. the case of divorce between her and I, has been in court for close to a year. And it's expensive. I just cleared the last installment of payment 3 weeks ago, so we both will be free say by this month end. Wahala everywhere... To marry wahala... To divorce wahala.

I won't advice ant young man to do court wedding sam sam. Just do traditional after you must have impregnated her. As for us... Our wedding didn't produce any children.

I'll come here and celebrate, maybe do giveaway when the divorce is concluded.

Nothing like peace of mind o.
. wallahi

imagine 34 year old lady I want to marry is insisting on court wedding, trad and white wedding before she will allow me have sex with her, can you imagine? Me I like her and she is a virgin but her conditions can't be met by me.

Kobojunkie:
The topic is nothing about me or my private life, and so, I see no reason why you should concern yourself with that.

Let it slide or you two should just meet at eagle square do boxing

JuanDeDios:
➜Maybe try to understand things you read? Ok, I'll try again. I'm NOT talking about the sacrifices of raising kids.
➜ I'm talking about the sacrifices of marriage itself (which should have been clear to you since that's what we're talking about). Some people believe they need to be married to have kids, so they "endure" the "sacrifices" of marriage to reap that benefit (that is, kids).

1. Then what are we talking about?

2. What you just spewed there makes no sense to me. That endurance nonsense people claim they do is not of marriage, but a form of brain damage that has nothing to do with marriage. It is sort of like the same way folks "endure" bad bosses, bad parents, or bad landlords. Sadly, it is usually damaged people who think of these endurance exercises as some form of sacrifice.

lendahand:
➜imagine 34 year old lady I want to marry is insisting on court wedding, trad and white wedding before she will allow me have sex with her, can you imagine? Me I like her and she is a virgin but her conditions can't be met by me.

It's OK if a court wedding is a red flag for you. It is not her fault that it is, though, since your fears regarding court marriage are simply that, yours. 🤔

Free her immediately so she can find herself a man who respects what she brings to the table enough to legally tie the knot with her in the courts.

highchief1:
who told u u are lucky.do u know what she is cooking,

oga highchief, you have a disturbingly negative outlook on holy matrimony. This is obvious right now.

goodmuscopi:
➜Let it slide or you two should just meet at eagle square do boxing

Huh? All because I don't share the same point of view as someone? No thanks!

lendahand:
imagine 34 year old lady I want to marry is insisting on court wedding, trad and white wedding before she will allow me have sex with her, can you imagine? Me I like her and she is a virgin but her conditions can't be met by me.

You don't like her. You like what she carries. Meanwhile, at 34, a lady should tell when she who want to just play from a real deal

highchief1:
marriage na scam.i have falllen for it.im working on modalities to walk out of it.na my kids welfare I Dey consider.theres no need to marry a naija woman.They are only after what u can provide.i have not seen a Nigerian woman that loves a man genuinely.

I talk am say you are passing thru a lot and it's reflecting totally in your outlook on life. Not every marriage will be ill-fated like yours sir.

My condolences though.

Lol let me balance here to observe and pretend not to know 99% of everything i already know about Marriage(Nigerian Marriages and Families Exclusively)😂

highchief1:
ok o but give the guy small time e go soon begin cry.i also tot my wife was sent from heaven until lately.

yea people do change but most times the red flag is there but ignored by us in the heat of the moment. That is why you should marry a god-fearing babe.