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My name is XYZ I graduated from secondary school at 15 in year 2010. That was the same year I first masturbated; I was in my room one day and all of a sudden I started stroking my genitals; after a little while I felt the release of semen. The feeling was enjoyable and soothing or so I thought not knowing the Devil had crept into my life. I curse the day I got to do this first.

I was staying alone with my dad in a single room apartment and dad would always leave early for work and return late. Immediately dad leaves for work I start masturbating. Sometimes once in a day, sometimes twice, even thrice at most.

I got admission into the university and this didn't stop. It was easier for me since I stayed off campus. Sometimes I masturbate before going to class and feel dizzy when in class through out my stay in the university I was masturbating. I started developing negative consequences like anxiety, guilt, tiredness and weakness, I thought some of these things were normal or so inability to associate with people especially ladies. I could just see a girl then and I want to have sex with her and sunce i can't I'd wait till my spare time and do the deed. I would think people were seeing through me that I masturbate. I had this false confidence like I was the man.

I moved in to the school hostel in my third year and that didn't stop. I masturbated in my hostel room and even in the open field in school. Just trying to skip a lot of details. There's no place of family or friend I've visited where I did not masturbate. Even during my NYSC in year 2022 I masturbated all through the scheme.

I try to stop and can go off for I week or three days and i'd be back to it. I masturbate with my productive time and It has been 15 years now since I started masturbating I don't have good social skills, my relationship with people is faint, i don't have a job and its even a scandal now. People around me say it because I don't have a girlfriend I don't have friends and I don't talk to anybody. Not having a girlfriend is not my problem Worst of it all is I missed my purpose. I can't say it to anybody cause I'm ashamed of it so I came here to pour my heart and advice anyone who is tempted. I t ruins life. I'm supposed to be a role model but I'm the opposite. I used to have high hopes but now my intelligence level has dwindled.

Masturbation is a demon and an evil spirit. I just pray God helps and heal me and restore me. Praise God.

Brother,Masturbation isn't the cause of your predicaments
If you want to stop it because it's addictive, it's understandable
Addiction is very very bad,even people that take hard drugs swear they won't go back

Your attitude is the issue,masturbation won't stop your unemployment
We've learnt to demonise our misfortunes in this part of the world, we tend to shift blames instead of looking at the cause
Your lack of conviction, debased mindset, defeatist mindset is what kills your purpose,when hunger catch you for a week,you will leave your meat and go find meat ,it seems someone is sponsoring his lifestyle
If you want to quit,it starts and ends with you.
The mind is a very powerful tool for prosperity
You attract what you believe, as a man thinketh ,so is he,people masturbate and make lots of money from it,people pay other people to.watch them do it
Two teams wrong with you is addictive tendencies
and a defeatist mindset....overcome this you will be an overcummer

JagaLove:
My name is XYZ I graduated from secondary school at 15 in year 2010. That was the same year I first masturbated; I was in my room one day and all of a sudden I started stroking my genitals; after a little while I felt the release of semen. The feeling was enjoyable and soothing or so I thought not knowing the Devil had crept into my life. I curse the day I got to do this first.
I was staying alone with my dad in a single room apartment and dad would always leave early for work and return late. Immediately dad leaves for work I start masturbating. Sometimes once in a day, sometimes twice, even thrice at most.
I got admission into the university and this didn't stop. It was easier for me since I stayed off campus. Sometimes I masturbate before going to class and feel dizzy when in class through out my stay in the university I was masturbating. I started developing negative consequences like anxiety, guilt, tiredness and weakness, I thought some of these things were normal or so inability to associate with people especially ladies. I could just see a girl then and I want to have sex with her and sunce i can't I'd wait till my spare time and do the deed. I would think people were seeing through me that I masturbate. I had this false confidence like I was the man.
I moved in to the school hostel in my third year and that didn't stop. I masturbated in my hostel room and even in the open field in school. Just trying to skip a lot of details. There's no place of family or friend I've visited where I did not masturbate. Even during my NYSC in year 2022 I masturbated all through the scheme.
I try to stop and can go off for I week or three days and i'd be back to it. I masturbate with my productive time and It has been 15 years now since I started masturbating I don't have good social skills, my relationship with people is faint, i don't have a job and its even a scandal now. People around me say it because I don't have a girlfriend I don't have friends and I don't talk to anybody. Not having a girlfriend is not my problem Worst of it all is I missed my purpose. I can't say it to anybody cause I'm ashamed of it so I came here to pour my heart and advice anyone who is tempted. I t ruins life. I'm supposed to be a role model but I'm the opposite. I used to have high hopes but now my intelligence level has dwindled. Masturbation is a demon and an evil spirit. I just pray God helps and heal me and restore me. Praise God

Ur last line indicates u r still masturbating.

The truth is, it sounds like you're using masturbation as a scapegoat for the challenges and disappointments in your life. There are countless people; successful leaders, socially active individuals, even billionaires, who also masturbate. The act itself isn't inherently destructive.

What is harmful is compulsive addiction or attaching guilt and shame to it based on certain belief systems. When the act is viewed only through a lens of sin or secrecy, it creates internal conflict; not because of the act itself, but because of the mindset surrounding it.

It's important to distinguish between real problems; like poor life choices, laziness, lack of discipline, or a sense of direction, and a convenient target like masturbation. Blaming it might feel easier, but it won’t fix the underlying issues. Taking responsibility, adjusting your mindset, and developing discipline will.

Lol

Masturbation has really suffered.

Very soon, someone would claim that masturbation made him lose a business opportunity and become poor.

Man, as much as I don't support the frequent act of "meat-beating", most of the problems you're having were not caused by your inglorious hobby.

Some successful people still stroke their Ogbomobi once in a while to relieve stress.

Anyway. Godspeed ditching the habit.

So you to tel me you cant even get a lady you can be S U C K I N G her b*r*e*a*s*t*s

It's in your head, masturbation didn't do anything to you

chigoziri2403:
Brother,Masturbation isn't the cause of your predicaments
If you want to stop it because it's addictive, it's understandable
Addiction is very very bad,even people that take hard drugs swear they won't go back

Your attitude is the issue,masturbation won't stop your unemployment
We've learnt to demonise our misfortunes in this part of the world, we tend to shift blames instead of looking at the cause

If you want to quit,it starts and ends with you

Aptly stated. Well said, they are lawys looking to blame one devil or the other instead of looking inward for the real reason for their failures.

Masturbating is very evil. Stop it now before it stops you

Masturbation in itself isn't bad, but it's the addiction to it that is bad, just like every other addiction.

Someone who masturbates three times a day doesn't like himself, too much of everything is bad, two or three times a week is healthy, .

Don't you start patronising prostitute all because someone online said that masturbation is bad, you can contract diseases that will make you wish you didn't start,

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Your village people are playing Orlando Owo with your destiny but you thought it's masturbation.
I pity you...

Hold your head with your two hands and shout at the top of your voice that;
My father, my father,
Every wicked people using destiny to masturbate, oya die by fire....
Shout, CATCH FIRE🔥

Pray.....

Go get a girlfriend that can be leaving with you. Have sex in place of masturbation.
Besides you are the one wrecking your life. Masturbating is messing with head also.

There is no law against masturbation in the Bible. Under the law, boys got married at age 20 and girls, younger. Everyone had access at their most fertile and most prolific period. But we are in the Rome-Babylon era powered by Esau and everything is upside down.

People cannot get married on time due to economic reasons, a lot of mature single ladies and guys in town, willing and ready but not able. Then you ask them not to have sex, to suppress an innate biological need, it is the economics of men that changed, not their biology.

Rome makes marriage very difficult and its agents promote messages against masturbation, and disguised sexual repression

Evil will be destroyed.

Jesus is coming soon and he will restore the law.

Hmmm.... Masturbating comes with many problem but only few of what you stated above is associated with masturbation.
Your Mr Johnson deserves award for 15 years of active service.
Getting GF may not stop you from masturbating unless you get someone that is addicted like you
1. Try to get yourself engage in different activities.
2. Try not to stay alone for too long
3. If possible stop browsing porn-sites
4. Look for alternative solution

Masturbation is demonic. Anyone who masturbate will find it difficult to progress in life

[quote author=chigoziri2403 post=135836075]Brother,Masturbation isn't the cause of your predicaments
If you want to stop it because it's addictive, it's understandable
Addiction is very very bad,even people that take hard drugs swear they won't go back

Your attitude is the issue,masturbation won't stop your unemployment
We've learnt to demonise our misfortunes in this part of the world, we tend to shift blames instead of looking at the cause

If you want to quit,it starts and ends with you[/quote

Your weaknesses is a panacea or foundation the so to speak in his post "demons" he referred.

Attitude truly is everything, and depending on which side it goes can be a weakness explorable by these vices

Bros, it's not masturbation that didn't make you get a job or have purpose in life.

Don't worry, when you get a good job, another hurdle to cross will come, your problem will not be with masturbation again, that's how life is, this time will pass.

Masturbation is haram!

Just go get married or keep fasting!

Masturbation is for all... masturbation is not responsible for predicament bro

Big lies, masturbation didn't do any shit to u

flexyrule:
Beat that meat....

Dont stop ooooooo.

shut it …..,, I think it’s really not a good idea lol

Was expecting to see the picture of a peeled dick.


Anyway nothing is wrong with masturbation.

It's a stress reliever.



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Why re u tying ur lack of success in life to masturbation
There are successfully ppl in life who masturbate n md there re ppl who don't masturbate and re still not yet successful

JagaLove:
My name is XYZ I graduated from secondary school at 15 in year 2010. That was the same year I first masturbated; I was in my room one day and all of a sudden I started stroking my genitals; after a little while I felt the release of semen. The feeling was enjoyable and soothing or so I thought not knowing the Devil had crept into my life. I curse the day I got to do this first.

I was staying alone with my dad in a single room apartment and dad would always leave early for work and return late. Immediately dad leaves for work I start masturbating. Sometimes once in a day, sometimes twice, even thrice at most.

I got admission into the university and this didn't stop. It was easier for me since I stayed off campus. Sometimes I masturbate before going to class and feel dizzy when in class through out my stay in the university I was masturbating. I started developing negative consequences like anxiety, guilt, tiredness and weakness, I thought some of these things were normal or so inability to associate with people especially ladies. I could just see a girl then and I want to have sex with her and sunce i can't I'd wait till my spare time and do the deed. I would think people were seeing through me that I masturbate. I had this false confidence like I was the man.

I moved in to the school hostel in my third year and that didn't stop. I masturbated in my hostel room and even in the open field in school. Just trying to skip a lot of details. There's no place of family or friend I've visited where I did not masturbate. Even during my NYSC in year 2022 I masturbated all through the scheme.

I try to stop and can go off for I week or three days and i'd be back to it. I masturbate with my productive time and It has been 15 years now since I started masturbating I don't have good social skills, my relationship with people is faint, i don't have a job and its even a scandal now. People around me say it because I don't have a girlfriend I don't have friends and I don't talk to anybody. Not having a girlfriend is not my problem Worst of it all is I missed my purpose. I can't say it to anybody cause I'm ashamed of it so I came here to pour my heart and advice anyone who is tempted. I t ruins life. I'm supposed to be a role model but I'm the opposite. I used to have high hopes but now my intelligence level has dwindled.

Masturbation is a demon and an evil spirit. I just pray God helps and heal me and restore me. Praise God.

U can stop it if u are determined to. I have even forgotten the Last time I masturbated, meaning I stopped masturbating even more than 3 or 4yrs ago. I have long forgotten anything about Masturbation. I can never ever be tempted to go back into masturbation because I overcame it with all determination.

Wow! The quantity of semen you must have released right from when you started masturbating till now would be enough to fill a petroleum tanker.
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

MrPresident1:
There is no law against masturbation in the Bible. Under the law, boys got married at age 20 and girls, younger.

Jesus is coming soon and he will restore the law

So you're still waiting for him?

Mr Waiter, continue with your wait

Hmm.

Don't blame masturbation for your failures in life.

Masturbation in itself is not necessarily bad and can save you from some STDs.

My advice use your spare time constructively.

So the era of booking space in NL is gone. I just tried and got the error message - 'not enough content'

Well-done Seun and team.