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nah wah ooo

He'll daddy.

May God nor allow us jam wicked people

My pops tried as a father too but he's a bad lover sha.
Still thinking if it has a role to play in my life cos I'm trying hard not to be like that

You go and start your own family,and see if you can do better. When I dey grow up I thought my parents weren't trying,until I started paying bills,I started honouring them more.

Frustration make op dey para for him pman. Cux if you don make am,u no go dey reason say your p man no try. I have once seen a situation when a son made it,and took his drunk father off the street. That he ogogoro papa no train am o,yet he helped his dad when he was made. Op let this bitters leave you now please

This is the work of your mother, atleast you very educated to use an internet, who paid your fees?

haahahahahahahahahahaaaa,,,,,,why did you say that

Exceed15:
If care is not taken you 'd be worst than your father.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

As you de talk like this, no go kill or hurt your father.
Some kids who had no help from their father eventually became big and famous. Your progress in life must not be tied to your father.

MrHandsome2013:
You see why I blame him, he knew he was from a poor background, he still went to marry from a poor background.
He knew he was from a polygamous family, he still went to marry from a polygamous family.
He knew he was from a family where dey hate each other , he still went to marry from such family.
That seed of hatred still exists among our siblings.
Baba this man is evil and worst than Lucifer

Quit your whining lil bro, get up and start working, be determined to not end up like your father... It's hard but it will be worth it

ibechris:
Are u sure u know what u are saying?


Life as a civil servant is very tough.

oga don't say what u don't know

Life was good for civil servants back then, my parents were civil servants n they were good.


Even now ordinary public school teacher on level 8 is collecting 120k which he can still manage with a working wife n children

MrHandsome2013:
You see why I blame him, he knew he was from a poor background, he still went to marry from a poor background.
He knew he was from a polygamous family, he still went to marry from a polygamous family.
He knew he was from a family where dey hate each other , he still went to marry from such family.
That seed of hatred still exists among our siblings.
Baba this man is evil and worst than Lucifer

If you do not refine this twisted mindset of yours, you may end up worse off than your dad

MrHandsome2013:
He should have been a rev father,
He knew his kids will find life unbearable why did not first sort his life before getting married,

Some men grew up with poverty and cannot see themselves buying meat pie at an early

U can't explain life

MrHandsome2013:
You see why I blame him, he knew he was from a poor background, he still went to marry from a poor background.
He knew he was from a polygamous family, he still went to marry from a polygamous family.
He knew he was from a family where dey hate each other , he still went to marry from such family.
That seed of hatred still exists among our siblings.
Baba this man is evil and worst than Lucifer

So why not blame your Dad and Mum, why only your Dad? remember karma is real.

MrHandsome2013:
You see why I blame him, he knew he was from a poor background, he still went to marry from a poor background.
He knew he was from a polygamous family, he still went to marry from a polygamous family.
He knew he was from a family where dey hate each other , he still went to marry from such family.
That seed of hatred still exists among our siblings.
Baba this man is evil and worst than Lucifer

And you're from a poor background, can you go and date a rich girl or probably marry one?

If it was that easy, you should be doing it at wase without blaming your dad....

From.your first post, you blamed your dad for always blaming your mum... and you're starting off blaming your dad..... probably what you will be doing at old age.... telling your kids that you're poor because of your dad.

G0odharddick:
First sign of a uselezss and entitled kid is refusing to accept responsibilities and blaming others for his failures in life.

Your dad has lived his life, perhaps he missed it and didnt get it right...now it's your turn to get it right.

Dude, sit Ur azzz up and start hustling. It's now or never otherwise Ur kid will say the same thing about you

Bulls eye! Very very useless kid. It should be the dad regretting

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

No problem, we agree with you.
BUT
We are watching you too!
Your achievements before you marry an innocent girl.
And a Testimonial from this girl that you are the Best Husband any Wife could wish for!


Only then would we celebrate you!
The curse is broken forever!

MrHandsome2013:
You see why I blame him, he knew he was from a poor background, he still went to marry from a poor background.
He knew he was from a polygamous family, he still went to marry from a polygamous family.
He knew he was from a family where dey hate each other , he still went to marry from such family.
That seed of hatred still exists among our siblings.
Baba this man is evil and worst than Lucifer

Well, I agree that some Nigerian men are devils. The only thing they know is to have regular sex partners who are deceived to consider themselves as "wives". These women bear children and are expected to take care of the kids by themselves!

Some guys on NL are also doing same by planning to have only baby mamas. They forget that those children will grow up and will never forget who sacrificed for their upbringing. @OP, don't expect deadbeat dads on this platform to support your firsthand view about your dad. That's how a family friend man whose children suffered hell in growing up at a city capital also decided to relocate to his village to marry a young lady to continue fathering more kids he's now too old to cater for.

Some deadbeat dads should be castrated I tell you... Bringing innocent kids they are not capable to take care of emotionally, financially or spiritually

The is the main reason we have insecurity in Nigeria, almajiris, Boko haram , touts are all products from such horrible fathers.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

Wait until you are a man, married before you write this epistle. He worked for 12 years and didn't have a house or car you said?... You go out there and hustle first and see how difficult it could be before you come yapping gibberish about your father. I don't know your father but seems you are worse than him with all these conclusions that you drew even when you haven't experienced much in your life to understand what life truly means.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

I feel ur pain..make a difference with your life since you dad has failed in life as a man in ur words..no be osimhen bring him papa out of trenches to magodo...
U can change the story of your family.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

I hope you won't end of being as Wicked as he was too. U don't need to start condemning him here. Though, it could be very painful seeing the way he choose to live his life. The after effects of his behaviour would affect you and ur other siblings. Pls bro, take a cue from his supposedly foolishness and learn not to be like him. Work hard and be determined in life to make money, invest in Ur future so u won't be a useless father to ur own children.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

you have not say a single offence the innocent man committed, you keep saying he's Wicked, don't you think you need mental evaluation?

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

Calm Down..
You story is like every other average Nigerian struggling homes.
Does it mean every father is now a useless or failed entity..?
Don't attract fatherly curses upon yourself. That can make things worse for you.
Again, things can turn around for the better in the very last minute of sufferings.
Wish I can share mine to you personally.
Better retract this and apologize to well-meaning Nairalanders. Too bad.

I don't think you understand the purchasing power of a country. Did you know Nigeria as a country can literally make you poor even when you appear to be smart and hardworking?
U seem not to understand how fast that country has deteriorated. U should be happy your Dad hasn't suffered cardiac arrest following all the nonsense happening there.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

because he accomplished nothing material for u to leech on he is a wicked man? Do u think every successful person was the smartest or best or more deserving?

Some people are just lucky and some were not for various reasons. Do u know if ur fathers own father failed him? Do u know ur father private struggles?

Yes perhaps he shouldn't have had kids but he can definitely marry and choose not to have kids or have just 1 which he can takecare of.

If u father didn't make it and ure grand father didn't make it why not determine that u must make it?

Ronaldo's father was poor but instead of blaming his father he worked hard to change the story of the family.

MrHandsome2013:
A civil servant that started working when Nigeria was booming in 1970s.

He Worked 12 years being single before getting married.
That 12 years he worked was useless.

He didn’t marry his wife properly. No wedding pic of them as husband and wife.
No house of his own, no property,
No car , nothing.
What did he do with those 12 years.

Is it the remaining 23 years remaining to serve or retire , he will achieve anything being married with responsibilities.

This my unfortunate dad never achieved anything throughout his 35 years of working.
He was busy blaming his wife for putting him in chronic debt,
Now I sat down and began to think that this man was already a failure before he got married.
Because you have use 1/3 of your 35 years as a single man yet no single achievement.

Some men don’t deserve to married.
My dad is an evil man seriously speaking,
He knew he was a devil that has failed and instead of him to go to one seminary school.

He choose to go one village to deceive one illiterate girl to marry so they will bring innocent kid to suffer untold suffering.
Is this not pure witch crafts

Did the illiterate girl that your father deceived into marriage turn out to be your mother ?
If so, then I am so sorry for the stress that you have passed through in life. The childhood experiences must have traumatizing but you do not need to dwell in the past. You need to live with the past but you do not need to dwell in the past. You do not need to make the mistakes that your dad made. You need to forgive your dad for his past mistakes. You need to plan for a better life for your wife and children to break the vicious circle .

I don't think you are okay.
What exactly is your problem?
You can talk to us.