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Fenrir:
And parroting someone else's words

You didn't know how to manipulate AI until I told you that if was possible and how

But, let me explain something when you read articles about how much the world loves Nigerian wedding traditions 999 times out of 1000 its a Nigerian saying it

You dont let people choose to do it, you force them into it with lies and falsely claiming its a legal obligation

Actually ask the world what they honestly feel about it and you will understand the hate
Its selfish and greedy and 100% 1 sided

And most end in divorce in 4-8 years

And when i say greedy you automatically assume im talking money but no mean cultural greed

Honour and stroking the ego of Nigerian men for things they dont deserve and never actually earned

A simple unbiased search:

"Popular opinion about Nigerian weddings"

And of course there are pros and cons! As is everything there is out there in the world; positives and negatives

POSITIVE: The part that everyone loves about the subject
NEGATIVE: The part people like you want to so desperately dwell on and define the subject in its entirety, shunning the positive views about it because you wanna oppose like it's your life's purpose 🫵🏾🤡

Fenrir:
The scarlet sorcereress has returned
Min kjaere if you truly want a sacrifice then get them face to with me and let glorious battle start

Saw Samantha and started wagging your tail, gooning over her presence like she cares about your person or is just here to instigate Nigerians over the South Africa/Nigeria banter😆😆

Tello619:
Saw Samantha and started wagging your tail, gooning over her presence like she cares about your person or is just here to instigate Nigerians over the South Africa/Nigeria banter😆😆

How many accounts do you actually make when you get banned completely?

Since ive been on here
You've used a name of a demon and something fivefoot ninja

You never make your own topic so that actually says alot im about to send you a private email

Tello619:
A simple unbiased search:

"Popular opinion about Nigerian weddings"

And of course there are pros and cons! As is everything there is out there in the world; positives and negatives

POSITIVE: The part that everyone loves about the subject
NEGATIVE: The part people like you want to so desperately dwell on and define the subject in its entirety, shunning the positive views about it because you wanna oppose like it's your life's purpose 🫵🏾🤡

You used the popular

I used actual worldwide opinion and you will see that now

From the actual worldwide opinion there literally are no pros at all and it all cons

But like normal the nigerian man wants his ego stroked and wants to be worshipped like hes some kind of god

And this is not my view
You all know my view on it by now

Mother
Father
Siblings
Aunts
Uncles
Cousins
The community all are entitled to nothing at all in a wedding not 1 word of say
Its 100% about the bride and groom and if they freely choose to do it or freely choose to ignore it all

You have no legal right, no moral right and no ethical right at all

And the bride price is enough to respect the culture and thats still not a legal obligation at all none of it is

But I did exactly what you said, didn't crop it and its the world's actual opinion of your nonsense

Fenrir:
How many accounts do you actually make when you get banned completely?

Since ive been on here
You've used a name of a demon and something fivefoot ninja

You never make your own topic so that actually says alot im about to send you a private email

Reply to this and ill tell you,
Your name
Your age
Your location

And all the personal stuff that make you run and hide

Fenrir:
Reply to this and ill tell you,
Your name
Your age
Your location

And all the personal stuff that make you run and hide

Every time I try to post it I get banned and deleted

So ill screenshot the emails themselves and post them if you actually have the spine to accept it and reply

Tello619:
So you want to downplay Nigerian weddings?😆😆 I've never seen a person as pathetic! And how were you able to come up with the stats about 999 out of all 1000 people In world who loves Nigerian weddings are Nigerians? Is it a new thing to Nigerians that we are speaking so highly of it as though we are knowing about it for the first time? Plus you didn't tell me nothing about that Google AI game, you d0nkëy😆😆🤡 i figured how you always crop out the search bar in your screenshots so people won't see it's you cherry-picking the cons with the keywords.you input😆
At this point, I'm not sure you are in need of Nigerian women's validation because this right there won't be pleasing to them😆 they have no problem with the Nigerian marriage culture and majority enjoy the flashy outlook of it as a show of status, wanting to be spoiled and presented and arraigned in an expensive manner on her traditional wedding day
(I mean it's actually for the Nigerian men to take care of, which is why non-Nigerians commend it)
And how come you validate the dowry culture one minute and the next you're bashing it in it's entirety?🫵🏾🤡
Are you fighting for Nigerian women about the bride price or are you fighting for the Nigerian men because it's basically the man that are expected to follow the dowry rites and everything about it for the woman's hand in marriage 🤔 so are you bashing the dowry culture to protect the men from the difficult and unnecessary task of bride price??
Why do want your myopic view to be justified soooo bad that you want to downplay every good view about it?😆 How will a Nigerian woman receive this your view of talking crap about her culture?
Is this you still bashing Nigerian men only or as a whole (with women included) because Nigerian mothers also hold this dowry culture sacred and want the best one for their daughters who also enjoys the traditional wedding system
I'm not sure this your POV will be received well by the Nigerian women community😆😆

And when have I ever had a problem with the bride price

See thats the problem with men like you
In your head the word greed always = money and a financial transaction because to the nigerian man the bride price is now just like a security deposit and long term rental

To us the bride price is simply a gift, we dont ask for it back after divorce
We dont want it back
And we dont expect it back

It was given freely and you dont take giftd back

When we say greed we mean
Its always celebrating the nigerian side
Always nigerian traditions
Always you saying humble and respectful and tolerant but its only for the nigerian side

Unless a man actually just takes the woman
When is his culture or his traditions ever celebrated? When is his anything but abused by the nigerian side?

Its all take, take, take, demand, demand, demand

And after the wedding you get all the upsides
The social standing
The respect in the community

But us, we are always outcasts after
None of the social standing
None of the community acceptance
And betrayal of what makes us who we are
And after marriage what happens? The family only actually contact the couple when they need something and for no other reason

They never just pick up the phone to see how the couple are getting on newly married life

And this is seen in your whole society

When a daughter starts working and moves out, how often does the father or uncles just call her to see hows shes getting on? If she needs anything? If shes coping ok? If shes struggling or needs any help?

Almost never, its always the mothers calling to check in or the daughters calling

Tello619:
So you want to downplay Nigerian weddings?😆😆 I've never seen a person as pathetic! And how were you able to come up with the stats about 999 out of all 1000 people In world who loves Nigerian weddings are Nigerians? Is it a new thing to Nigerians that we are speaking so highly of it as though we are knowing about it for the first time? Plus you didn't tell me nothing about that Google AI game, you d0nkëy😆😆🤡 i figured how you always crop out the search bar in your screenshots so people won't see it's you cherry-picking the cons with the keywords.you input😆
At this point, I'm not sure you are in need of Nigerian women's validation because this right there won't be pleasing to them😆 they have no problem with the Nigerian marriage culture and majority enjoy the flashy outlook of it as a show of status, wanting to be spoiled and presented and arraigned in an expensive manner on her traditional wedding day
(I mean it's actually for the Nigerian men to take care of, which is why non-Nigerians commend it)
And how come you validate the dowry culture one minute and the next you're bashing it in it's entirety?🫵🏾🤡
Are you fighting for Nigerian women about the bride price or are you fighting for the Nigerian men because it's basically the man that are expected to follow the dowry rites and everything about it for the woman's hand in marriage 🤔 so are you bashing the dowry culture to protect the men from the difficult and unnecessary task of bride price??
Why do want your myopic view to be justified soooo bad that you want to downplay every good view about it?😆 How will a Nigerian woman receive this your view of talking crap about her culture?
Is this you still bashing Nigerian men only or as a whole (with women included) because Nigerian mothers also hold this dowry culture sacred and want the best one for their daughters who also enjoys the traditional wedding system
I'm not sure this your POV will be received well by the Nigerian women community😆😆

You are always bringing your insecurities about the bride price into it

Not actually reflecting my view
Ive said multiple times that I believe it should be legally mandatory and a legal requirement worldwide for a few reasons but should be drastically different

1) not about buying the woman and not a financial transaction

But as a symbolic gift to prove a man is capable of providing for a wife and family and willing

2) to reflect the effort and investment that family has made is raising that daughter

How they reinforced ethics and morals into her
Not necessarily religious and not necessarily a housewife

But loyalty and honesty are just 2 examples

3) it would save a lot of women marrying dead beat men that promise the world then just abandoned the wife and kids after

Look at your country as an example

When divorce happens how many Nigerian men pay child support or maintenance? How many just abandon the ex and kids and dont even acknowledge they exist and who's actually left to raise those kids? Its the mothers and or the mother's side

Then those men come crawling back later for a bride price and ego stroke years to decades later

Its a broken system

But the concept if done right could be wonderful and show commitment you just need to stop seeing it as a financial transaction and go back to your roots and how it was originally practiced of it being a gift and contribution to bond both families or the couple

Tello619:
So you want to downplay Nigerian weddings?😆😆 I've never seen a person as pathetic! And how were you able to come up with the stats about 999 out of all 1000 people In world who loves Nigerian weddings are Nigerians? Is it a new thing to Nigerians that we are speaking so highly of it as though we are knowing about it for the first time? Plus you didn't tell me nothing about that Google AI game, you d0nkëy😆😆🤡 i figured how you always crop out the search bar in your screenshots so people won't see it's you cherry-picking the cons with the keywords.you input😆
At this point, I'm not sure you are in need of Nigerian women's validation because this right there won't be pleasing to them😆 they have no problem with the Nigerian marriage culture and majority enjoy the flashy outlook of it as a show of status, wanting to be spoiled and presented and arraigned in an expensive manner on her traditional wedding day
(I mean it's actually for the Nigerian men to take care of, which is why non-Nigerians commend it)
And how come you validate the dowry culture one minute and the next you're bashing it in it's entirety?🫵🏾🤡
Are you fighting for Nigerian women about the bride price or are you fighting for the Nigerian men because it's basically the man that are expected to follow the dowry rites and everything about it for the woman's hand in marriage 🤔 so are you bashing the dowry culture to protect the men from the difficult and unnecessary task of bride price??
Why do want your myopic view to be justified soooo bad that you want to downplay every good view about it?😆 How will a Nigerian woman receive this your view of talking crap about her culture?
Is this you still bashing Nigerian men only or as a whole (with women included) because Nigerian mothers also hold this dowry culture sacred and want the best one for their daughters who also enjoys the traditional wedding system
I'm not sure this your POV will be received well by the Nigerian women community😆😆

Can you read at all?

I never said 999 out of ALL 1000

There are literally millions

But roughly IN EVERY 1000, 999 of those are written by a Nigerian

Tello619:
So you want to downplay Nigerian weddings?😆😆 I've never seen a person as pathetic! And how were you able to come up with the stats about 999 out of all 1000 people In world who loves Nigerian weddings are Nigerians? Is it a new thing to Nigerians that we are speaking so highly of it as though we are knowing about it for the first time? Plus you didn't tell me nothing about that Google AI game, you d0nkëy😆😆🤡 i figured how you always crop out the search bar in your screenshots so people won't see it's you cherry-picking the cons with the keywords.you input😆
At this point, I'm not sure you are in need of Nigerian women's validation because this right there won't be pleasing to them😆 they have no problem with the Nigerian marriage culture and majority enjoy the flashy outlook of it as a show of status, wanting to be spoiled and presented and arraigned in an expensive manner on her traditional wedding day
(I mean it's actually for the Nigerian men to take care of, which is why non-Nigerians commend it)
And how come you validate the dowry culture one minute and the next you're bashing it in it's entirety?🫵🏾🤡
Are you fighting for Nigerian women about the bride price or are you fighting for the Nigerian men because it's basically the man that are expected to follow the dowry rites and everything about it for the woman's hand in marriage 🤔 so are you bashing the dowry culture to protect the men from the difficult and unnecessary task of bride price??
Why do want your myopic view to be justified soooo bad that you want to downplay every good view about it?😆 How will a Nigerian woman receive this your view of talking crap about her culture?
Is this you still bashing Nigerian men only or as a whole (with women included) because Nigerian mothers also hold this dowry culture sacred and want the best one for their daughters who also enjoys the traditional wedding system
I'm not sure this your POV will be received well by the Nigerian women community😆😆

Who doesn't hit them?
Who doesn't abuse them?
Who doesn't control them?
Who doesn't make them prove they are worth love and respect?

Ive only asked 2 things from them

1) honesty

2) not 1 second of our wedding is about her family its 100% about us

If you cant cope with that, that says more about you not me

I mean, come on man, what kind of beta male mug will let an event thats 50% his and 50% his womans be celebrating another man?

And its irrelevant if that man isnt Nigerian

Traditionally who pays for the process?

When its Nigerian marrying Nigerian both families contribute

When its white or black European
Or white American or black American
Or white Australian or black Australian

Traditions are ignored and its 100% on him so you are ignoring your traditional family bonding attitude then and being hypocrites with double standards

Not 1 thing is contributed and your families only take and tell fibs not 1 word of say is required or entitled to being said

Tello619:
Saw Samantha and started wagging your tail, gooning over her presence like she cares about your person or is just here to instigate Nigerians over the South Africa/Nigeria banter😆😆

And you = tello916
Tello619
The demonic moniker
Fivefootninja and multiple more

Me = 1, just this account
So who's the trustworthy one? Who's that stands by his morals and ethics? Who's the one that actually does whats right and has more than proven he's honest? Just by how i use this

And quite frankly the harsh truth is

That if you don't practice what you preach and earn you traditions by living a fairly traditional life

Then you do not deserve them at all

You living the opposite way that your traditions dictate you should then screaming and throwing a tantrum saying that you want them and they must be respected when you didn't respect them yourself

Is not humble
Its not respectful
And its not tolerant

Its greedy
Its selfish
Its a double standard
Its humiliation
Its a lie
Its a mockery
Its undeserved and a million more things none of which you are claiming to be

Fenrir:
And you = tello916
Tello619
The demonic moniker
Fivefootninja and multiple more

Me = 1, just this account
So who's the trustworthy one? Who's that stands by his morals and ethics? Who's the one that actually does whats right and has more than proven he's honest? Just by how i use this

Little boy blue ran away because he didn't realise military and ex military understand pattern recognition and a similar paths used in multiple accounts and are very very good at it, especially ex snipers

And little boy blue didn't reply to my email so I can tell him exactly where he is

Fenrir:
Little boy blue ran away because he didn't realise military and ex military understand pattern recognition and a similar paths used in multiple accounts and are very very good at it, especially ex snipers

And little boy blue didn't reply to my email so I can tell him exactly where he is

Ey! Because I didn't reply a day doesn't mean I ran away😆 I have a whole life outside Nairaland (maybe you don't, since you wanna be such an attention seeking squirrel on here) Yesterday was pretty hectic as I got a new project on my plate😆 too busy to reply since lengthy paragraphs are what you need🫵🏾🤡
Should've said it earlier, but I was hoping you won't be childish enough to miss me and want my attention badly
Well, I'm back! And your replies... WOOH😆
It's 2:22 am and I stood up to use the bathroom and decided to reply...
So here comes...
(Replying now)

Fenrir:
You used the popular

I used actual worldwide opinion and you will see that now

From the actual worldwide opinion there literally are no pros at all and it all cons

But like normal the nigerian man wants his ego stroked and wants to be worshipped like hes some kind of god

And this is not my view
You all know my view on it by now

Mother
Father
Siblings
Aunts
Uncles
Cousins
The community all are entitled to nothing at all in a wedding not 1 word of say
Its 100% about the bride and groom and if they freely choose to do it or freely choose to ignore it all

You have no legal right, no moral right and no ethical right at all

And the bride price is enough to respect the culture and thats still not a legal obligation at all none of it is

But I did exactly what you said, didn't crop it and its the world's actual opinion of your nonsense

Oh you think you're smart!!!!🫵🏾🤡
Manipulating AI response again!
With the way it started with "while..." coupled with the blue highlight on that particular sentence as a result of trigger keywords at the invisible end of the search bar... It's very clear you input a lot of negative keywords
And even claiming that there are "...no pros, only cons"
When it's obvious you manipulated the response instead of allowing it to give a plain straight forward overview
THE MANIPULATION AND DECEPTION😆😆😆
You really think we are stupid?
Okay now-
Let's do it like this;
Do that again but make an intentional typo. Like I did in mine where I deliberately typed "anout" instead of "about" so that it'll make corrections before responding, thereby bringing everything you added into the search bar out of the search bar. The search bar isn't big enough to show all your input so do it again and make an intentional typo let's see.
You think you're smart huh? 🫵🏾🤡
So hell bent on villainizing, you manipulate the AI response and lied that there were "...no pros, only cons" OH JESUS🤦🏾‍♂️

Fenrir:
Who doesn't hit them?
Who doesn't abuse them?
Who doesn't control them?
Who doesn't make them prove they are worth love and respect?

Ive only asked 2 things from them

1) honesty

2) not 1 second of our wedding is about her family its 100% about us

If you cant cope with that, that says more about you not me

I mean, come on man, what kind of beta male mug will let an event thats 50% his and 50% his womans be celebrating another man?

And its irrelevant if that man isnt Nigerian

Traditionally who pays for the process?

When its Nigerian marrying Nigerian both families contribute

When its white or black European
Or white American or black American
Or white Australian or black Australian

Traditions are ignored and its 100% on him so you are ignoring your traditional family bonding attitude then and being hypocrites with double standards

Not 1 thing is contributed and your families only take and tell fibs not 1 word of say is required or entitled to being said

Oh you think non-Nigerians are the only one entitled to paying the bride price in full? 😆 Nah even Nigerian men! Especially Nigerian men who are rich! They already knew growing up that the more money you have the more you spend on your woman's bride price
BUT
if the man isn't 100% financially stable he can reason with his inlaws and they'd reduce the gifts, expenses etc and some family would contribute as well.
It happened to my parents, both family contributed to my parents traditional marriage as my dad was still an intern at a hospital at the time and he wasn't 100% financially capable of the wedding expenses but was deeply in love with my mom.
Plus it's all about gifts too and presence and not necessarily money, you d0nkéy!😆😆
The thing is rich Nigerian men doesn't complain about paying 100% for the wedding expenses as they already grew up knowing the more money you earn the more you spend without complaining and it's even some sort of ego for a rich man to spend on his woman.
But one secret, the Nigerian women of this Gen Z era are starting to follow the path of modern women as regards mocking you for complaining about spending😆 Nigerian women today are very materialistic so you better not let them catch you complaining about expenses😆😆

Fenrir:
Can you read at all?

I never said 999 out of ALL 1000

There are literally millions

But roughly IN EVERY 1000, 999 of those are written by a Nigerian

It's the same thing werey!😆
Who thinks there only 1000 people talking about it?😐 Ofc there are millions but according to you "999 out of every 1000 are Nigerians" right?
So why denying that's not what you said. There are millions talking about it, yes! but in every 1000 counted off the millions of the people talking about it, you say 999 are Nigerians 🤷🏾‍♂️

"I never said 999 of all 1000"
But went ahead to say
"Roughly 999 in every 1000 are Nigerians"

What's the difference??🤡🤡🤡

Fenrir:
Reply to this and ill tell you,
Your name
Your age
Your location

And all the personal stuff that make you run and hide

OH NOW YOU WANNA TAKE IT PERSONAL!??🫵🏾🤡
OOHHH!😆😆😆
You want to threaten me by stalking me?!!?
My name
My age
My location
Because what? You can't stomach an argument without trying to take it personal? Making threats to infringe on ny privacy out of frustration??!?😆😆
What does that say about your persona? Threatening to stalk someone because you can't stomach an argument and want to scare me to silence??😆😆
What do you wanna do with my home adress, build me a swimming pool or a castle?
What do you want to do with my name, pray to your Nordic gods about a random Nigerian guy replying you on Nairaland?😆😆
And my personal stuff? You want my shoes? My clothes? My body cream or cologne?
What about my age? Send me a birthday present?!??😆😆
HAHAHAHAHA! SOOOOOO PATHETIC and childish! Too teenager-ish for an old man😆😆

Fenrir:
How many accounts do you actually make when you get banned completely?

Since ive been on here
You've used a name of a demon and something fivefoot ninja

You never make your own topic so that actually says alot im about to send you a private email

Why would I make my own topic if i don't see the need to? 😆My TikTok is empty af and I don't post anything, I'm only there to comment under funny memes, animations and videos, banter with Ghanaians in our Jollof war or engage in various political arguments 🤷🏾‍♂️
And that's why I came here too, somewhere more Nigeria-centered!
Which is how I got to know about Samantha and her attention seeking topics😆 and then all of a sudden she posted about "a Norwegian man insulting Nigerian men" to spite us over the Nigerian/South African banter and while I was replying her, you jumped in to reply me under her topic and then VIOLA! Here we are😆😆
I'm not a content creator and I don't wanna post topics, what would the topic even say about me that you think I'm hiding because no topics
Hahahaha😆 nah, this is too childish!🤡🤡🤡

Fenrir:
You used the popular

I used actual worldwide opinion and you will see that now

From the actual worldwide opinion there literally are no pros at all and it all cons

But like normal the nigerian man wants his ego stroked and wants to be worshipped like hes some kind of god

And this is not my view
You all know my view on it by now

Mother
Father
Siblings
Aunts
Uncles
Cousins
The community all are entitled to nothing at all in a wedding not 1 word of say
Its 100% about the bride and groom and if they freely choose to do it or freely choose to ignore it all

You have no legal right, no moral right and no ethical right at all

And the bride price is enough to respect the culture and thats still not a legal obligation at all none of it is

But I did exactly what you said, didn't crop it and its the world's actual opinion of your nonsense

And oh! I forgot to show you that I tried using the exact same keywords as yours and didn't get an AI overview-
I wonder how you got yours though🤔
Probably because you inserted certain negative trigger keywords that initiated the entire response and then lie about it having only cons and no pros but oh well, let me wait for your proof🤷🏾‍♂️
Remember, you have to deliberately make a typo so that Google exposes all your search bar input and corrects it☝🏾🤡
Let us know if indeed it had "...no pros and just cons" or you triggered it to give a biased review on the negative opinions
(Patiently waiting)

Tello619:
And oh! I forgot to show you that I tried using the exact same keywords as yours and didn't get an AI overview-
I wonder how you got yours though🤔
Probably because you inserted certain negative trigger keywords that initiated the entire response and then lie about it having only cons and no pros but oh well, let me wait for your proof🤷🏾‍♂️
Remember, you have to deliberately make a typo so that Google exposes all your search bar input and corrects it☝🏾🤡
Let us know if indeed it had "...no pros and just cons" or you triggered it to give a biased review on the negative opinions
(Patiently waiting)

Because you are using a Nigerian sim card, on a Nigerian network in Nigeria

Im using a uk sim card on European network in Nigeria

Do you think every country has the exact same access to everything on the Internet?

Little boy blue

Search up why I call you that
Then start running

Tello916:
Oh you think non-Nigerians are the only one entitled to paying the bride price in full? 😆 Nah even Nigerian men! Especially Nigerian men who are rich! They already knew growing up that the more money you have the more you spend on your woman's bride price
BUT
if the man isn't 100% financially stable he can reason with his inlaws and they'd reduce the gifts, expenses etc and some family would contribute as well.
It happened to my parents, both family contributed to my parents traditional marriage as my dad was still an intern at a hospital at the time and he wasn't 100% financially capable of the wedding expenses but was deeply in love with my mom.
Plus it's all about gifts too and presence and not necessarily money, you d0nkéy!😆😆
The thing is rich Nigerian men doesn't complain about paying 100% for the wedding expenses as they already grew up knowing the more money you earn the more you spend without complaining and it's even some sort of ego for a rich man to spend on his woman.
But one secret, the Nigerian women of this Gen Z era are starting to follow the path of modern women as regards mocking you for complaining about spending😆 Nigerian women today are very materialistic so you better not let them catch you complaining about expenses😆😆

You are pathetic always using the bride price as the avenue of attack

Thats your insecurity because you will never he able to afford one and thats your problem in your head its always bride price bride price bride price and you cannot get past it

Not my issue

What else is involved in a wedding little boy?
Traditionally the brides family contributes to something

And it doesn't if its something tiny the point is contribution to bond both families

But there is nothing traditional about Nigeria today not 1 thing

seppuku:
There's nothing shocking here. This is what dyslexia looks like in real life.

Boss abeg help me check something, I no dey see the werey again from my ends. Do you still see him or his posts? Abi na block him block me? Help me confirm abeg...

Right, since that little boy deleted everything and I dont understand how he did it

Ive done everything the child said and shown exactly what I typed by misspelling 1 word

Fenrir:
Right, since that little boy deleted everything and I dont understand how he did it

Ive done everything the child said and shown exactly what I typed by misspelling 1 word

And you seem to misunderstand me
I was married to a yoruba woman and 3 parts of yoruba traditional weddings are completely forbidden in my culture

I did the whole customary court thing and the court thing in general and her father did serve a prison sentence for that violation of human rights