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ediko5:
Firstly, this lady belonged to the street and she's not supposed to be domesticated by a man.

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Using the word "domesticated" is somehow oh. That is usually used for animals.

Bankowner:
If marriage is not for her, why is she worried about having different dads for her kids?

People just write anything just so others will see that they wrote something.

Common sense is not always common. And sense is very expensive reason why many don't have it.

She's used to hookups

Seun Seun Seun Seun Seun Seun.

Who now dey beg u to marry??send d person contact to mi...Shebi u don choose dey kind lyf wey u want !!!!

Kobicove:
If my wife posts trash like that she won't even last up to 6pm in my house that day!

These days people just post whatever nonsense they like online just to chase clout

Ur own na 6pm my guy! On seeing d post na immediate sending out…

NA RETIRED OS BE THAT NA


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ediko5:
Exactly man.
I want her husband to see this post, imagine Wetin the innocent man go pass through

i swear if am that man divorce paper dey land this night, so she can travel the world like mongo park nonsense

Samantha125:
Well, she chose the wrong man to have as a husband... She should've gotten married to a traveller like her, in that way, it'd have been easier for them to travel together and explore new places just like that Ghanaian content creator called Wode Maya and his wife... They either travel together or individually and they seem happy because that's what they love and brought them together.

But this lady here decided to get married to a man whom she wasn't compatible with and now she's filled with regrets.

wode Maya done make millions of dollars. The guy na big man now

ediko5:
A Facebook User Name 'Agreement is Agreement' Wrote:



SOURCE: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/16VR8Q46nJ/

The ugly ones are always the ones behaving as if the other party is begging them to stay.

pocohantas:
The closing part of my statememt was sarcasm and me mimicking the male chants on here, but since your comeback to me seems to be your opening question __I will go ahead and answer you.

1) I am not against women tolerating men. My post have always been clear. I am against the concept of endurance to INFIDELITY and DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. Please ensure you quote me correctly in future.

2) There is a difference between tolerance, compromise and endurance. Tolerance is understanding all humans are infallible and the wrongdoer is open to change. Compromise is you mustn't always have your way. Endurance is continuous wrongdoing with hope that your spouse (most times wife) has no choice but to put up with it.

3. What I see in her post is COMPROMISE. She loves traveling, but she understands family comes first. Most married people would at some point miss the autonomy that comes with being single. Women especially as we are the ones saddled with fulltime caregiving. The problem is some people will read her post as freedom to go sleep about. Maybe because that is what their brains are up to most times.

4. I fail to see what you are calling on her husband for. She didn't speak ill of her husband. She didn't speak ill of (her) marriage.


5. Her saying she doesn't want her kids to have different dads means she still wants more kids and companionship even while traveling. So her major miss was marrying a man who isn't into traveling. But even if she did, children make you miss out on a lot of fun except you have resources to mechanise and outsource recurring household tasks.

6. What she has is better than that of many women who are with their husbands for sapa.

Thank you.

And this is most likely ur quote abiiiiiiiiiiiiii?

Yam-leggars and their love for brothel are a match made in heaven, spits on the man that paid 35 page marriage list for a paternity fraudster.

You want to make olosho a wife, thinking she would change her waka when she is married lol.

The whole of nature will laugh at your folly

ediko5:
Facebook User Name 'Agreement is Agreement' Wrote:

People travel every year, some with their kids and some without. You need to plan for it and make it happen. That said, if she is truly unhappy with the marriage, there is nothing wrong with getting a divorce to pursue the better life she believes awaits her outside of it, provided she is aware that she will have to cater to the kids, whatever the final custody agreement.

JoeEeL:
And this is most likely ur quote abiiiiiiiiiiiiii?

She is no different, Women will tolerate a very successful man nothing hin fit do even cheating that is unforgivable. He would be tolerated up the time the women feel they no longer need him.

Women (including her) won’t even mind sharing a very successful man

ediko5:
A Facebook User Name 'Agreement is Agreement' Wrote:



SOURCE: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/16VR8Q46nJ/

She's just looking for an excuse to walk away without hinting at it. What bothers me is why can't she realize that she can still have the best of both worlds. My Cousin is married to a very busy Barrister yet they both find time to travel together whenever he goes on a business or training trip to the US or Ireland.
The problem with some women ehn!!
Hmm!!!

Same people, whenever we read weird things on this platform, I noticed that it is the same people, same region.I don't know why.

if u plan ur marriage and family life properly u can travel. Many families go on holiday trips and boat cruises.

Don't blame marriage blame ur finances which are not sufficient enough and hussle harder.

Samantha125:
Well, she chose the wrong man to have as a husband... She should've gotten married to a traveller like her, in that way, it'd have been easier for them to travel together and explore new places just like that Ghanaian content creator called Wode Maya and his wife... They either travel together or individually and they seem happy because that's what they love and brought them together.

But this lady here decided to get married to a man whom she wasn't compatible with and now she's filled with regrets.

Rightly said. People often underestimate the basic basis or foundation to be with someone. It always becomes a big issue down the line...

JoeEeL:
And this is most likely ur quote abiiiiiiiiiiiiii?

Hahahahaha! It is the fact you think I will call a woman "strong" and that is me being serious. In your mind you came with receipts. I am beginning to wonder where you guys apply this supposed LOGIC.😂😂😂

Seriously, is this even decent? Whoever posted this woman's profile is not a good person

If this man beside her is her husband, she should just forget it.

He is cheating on her.

I can perceive the spirit of lust inside of him.

I feel for her.

Mama knows why she wants to tour 10 countries.

Make I no cast the format.

Samantha125:
I don't get it, since when does being an explorer who wants to travel the world means you belong to the streets?

Do you even know the difference between a traveller and a street girl? Don't you ever see couples or single people touring the globe for leisure? Some people would even take a yearly leave from their workplace just to travel around the world.

Did you read where she said marriage is not for someone like her and that’s she’s going crazy because of it?

ediko5:
Seriously ladies are really confused beings. Funny part is they believe they are readily available men to rush them for marriage immediately they are out of their marriage with kids.

If you see the kind of desperation these set of ladies exhibit while hunting for husband eh and the same lady will be tired of the marriage within 2 years because of NOTHING.

I had a lady friend who got married at the age of 37 and within 6 months when I had a discussion with her, she told me she's already tired of her marriage and she was asking me the benefits of marriage cos she doesn't see anything special about marriage. I inquired from her if there's any major issue or abuse from the husband, she said NO but she's not just connected to the marriage. This is someone that have been hustling including prayer and fasting looking for a man.

Such lady married man which she doesn't have a single feeling for. Whenever ladies get into such relationship, they quickly tired of the relationship, many get married because of deep pocket of the man, perhaps, time no longer on their side.
When she finally married such man, it would be as she is cohabitating with fellow woman, no feelings of attraction

Unlike men, we can marry woman we don't have feelings for and still be continuing such relationship without problems or weary.

I don't know the agreement made by the op with the mods to push his misogynistic posts to fp.

Twice in about 24 hours

They should also push his thread about body odour to the fp so he gets a cure

ediko5:
A Facebook User Name 'Agreement is Agreement' Wrote:



SOURCE: https://www.facebook.com/share/p/16VR8Q46nJ/

Na this type of women go complain say dem no dey enjoy their marriage but ery 2 years dem dey born, dey throw elaborate party

I can't believe S.eun wants me to share Nairaland posts with offline contacts. What's there to share? Even the ones I share to my Nl followers goes through minutes of evaluation of value

Na mynd4.4 dey advice Seu.n

Kobicove:
If my wife posts trash like that she won't even last up to 6pm in my house that day!

These days people just post whatever nonsense they like online just to chase clout

Na man u be. Unfortunately, many people did not even notice that the lady in question, by her post, just disrespected her husband. I wonder how the man feels right now.

I was too busy laughing at her picture to take her seriously.

The fact that someone who looks like her is acting like this is a sign that the typical Nigerian woman lacks self awareness.

Kobicove:
If my wife posts trash like that she won't even last up to 6pm in my house that day!

These days people just post whatever nonsense they like online just to chase clout

I'm sure this is a contrary take.

This is both their fault. People don't change because they get married. If she liked to travel before they got married the husband should have known that and planned for that when they got married. And if she knew her husband wasn't the type to travel she shouldn't have married him.
Kids are expensive and complicate everything and that should have been discussed as well.

My g/f loves to travel. She was doing it before she met me. So, I make sure we do trips, though I'm sure less than she wants.
The desire to travel doesn't make one ashawo (my g/f makes her own money) or a street person, and can also be a sign of an inquisitive mind (she speaks 4 languages). The last trip we spent an afternoon at a historic town and an hour in a historic Catholic shrine, looking at the art on the walls and listening to its history as she took notes on her phone .

Just giving a contrary take.
But this could also be her saying she regrets that she married a poor man.