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😂😂😂😂😂... People wey wan die inside fornication go like this verse 😂...
But remember that "He who decides not to marry, must also be free of fvking upandan"
Exodus 20 Vs 14 "You shall not commit adultery "

Amwitty:
True you will not go to hell but I hope you know you can't be sleeping around right? I wish he had emphasised on that part as well.

True

Not enough original content.Well I just stepped out of church to see the beauty of the church

No one will also go to hell for marrying many wives.

Ijoba85:
Why is there this phobia for marriage these days? Is it money or what? If the mentality is on making money first , then all singles should be ready to be "ancestral singles". Who knows what's what in the next minute ? Who promised you tomorrow ? We are all living on hope. Living within one's means is the key. If it ain't making sense in the city , it might in a town . There's no life style or standard without its own provisions. Those who gave birth by mistake some years back with shame and rebuke are now so proud of the so called "children". Then , they never wanted them cos they had no money but those children are making them proud now. Ask Clarion Chukwura, Genevieve and co. Our old mothers never set unrealistic standards for themselves during their prime . Their husbands too were never "Dangote" before taking the bull by its horn. But today , every single is scared of the bills. Let me tell you all, " the cost of things " may never drop. It'd continue to get expensive cos everyone wants naija to become UK, so expect things to become the way there are there.
If you don't have money for flat , get a single room, there are plenty single ladies that would understand and stay with you there .
If you don't have money for pampers , use napkin
If you can't afford private school , take your child to jeleosimi or public school. We also attended public schools when we were kids.
If you can't afford baby's food, grind some grains together with akamu, your baby would take it.
Whatever a child would become he would become .

You man, just get something doing no matter the little it brings . The sky is wide enough for the birds to fly. No fear . God bless us all.

Just die childless if you don't have means to take care of a child. No need to bring a child and put all your generational problem on the child. Nigeria is overpopulated enough, don't add to the problem.

The worse part for me is people who marry, no money but they keep breeding children like rabbits.

Akwara25:
Where did you see hell ..
Don't mind fake pastors...
No body knows who will go to heaven or hell..

But you know the things that can lead you to heaven and hell right ?

CHAQUR:
Not marrying doesn't lead to hell but sleeping around and sampling different chics does.

Arrant nonsense. Africa’s lack of critical thinking people is why we are poor in the midst of humongous natural wealth.

Speeding1:
The worse part for me is people who marry, no money but they keep breeding children like rabbits.

They are extremely dangerous to society ……. as we are seeing all over Africa. The continent of ignorance and superstitions

Nigeria should not be the reason you won't fulfil purpose in life. Childbearing is not ordinary. It's an evidence you once lived. If you die childless, your memory is forever erased from the land of the living [Qquote author=alphabbey1 post=135923592]

Just die childless if you don't have means to take care of a child. No need to bring a child and put all your generational problem on the child. Nigeria is overpopulated enough, don't add to the problem.[/quote]

Apostle Selman should go and marry and stop consoling himself.

At 45 it's very irresponsible for a man of God with such a huge congregation and beautiful female attendees not to be discerning enough to pick a bride.

Marriage is biblical and love is a beautiful thing.

I totally disagree with him on the subject.

Go and marry Apostle Selman !

Ijoba85:
Why is there this phobia for marriage these days? Is it money or what? If the mentality is on making money first , then all singles should be ready to be "ancestral singles". Who knows what's what in the next minute ? Who promised you tomorrow ? We are all living on hope. Living within one's means is the key. If it ain't making sense in the city , it might in a town . There's no life style or standard without its own provisions. Those who gave birth by mistake some years back with shame and rebuke are now so proud of the so called "children". Then , they never wanted them cos they had no money but those children are making them proud now. Ask Clarion Chukwura, Genevieve and co. Our old mothers never set unrealistic standards for themselves during their prime . Their husbands too were never "Dangote" before taking the bull by its horn. But today , every single is scared of the bills. Let me tell you all, " the cost of things " may never drop. It'd continue to get expensive cos everyone wants naija to become UK, so expect things to become the way they are there.
If you don't have money for flat , get a single room, there are plenty single ladies that would understand and stay with you there .
If you don't have money for pampers , use napkin
If you can't afford private school , take your child to jeleosimi or public school. We also attended public schools when we were kids.
If you can't afford baby's food, grind some grains together with protein, your baby would take it.
Whatever a child would become he would become .

You man, just get something doing no matter the little it brings . The sky is wide enough for the birds to fly. No fear . God bless us all.

God forbid bad thing, Oga I reject this your Motivational speech. I will not bring children to this world to suffer. For men, pls get your finances in order before you jump into marriage for the sake of your unborn children.

Unfortunately many People only read or listen in other to respond.
If you listen to the clip very well to get the message he was trying to pass, it's all about responsibility

The emphasis is not on heaven or hell but responsibility. Unfortunately bloggers and Gen z will carry another topic for head just to make a case

But can lead you to hell if you nor fit hold body either you married or not it's none of God's business

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqcu79bW-eE?si=bUdRu92puhMmSKNl

Renowned Nigerian preacher Apostle Joshua Selman has addressed societal and religious pressures around marriage, stating that choosing to remain single will not condemn anyone to hell. Speaking during a sermon, he urged people not to marry out of fear or obligation, but rather by conviction and purpose.

Apostle Paul already posted long ago that women are a trouble to the soul of a man. They will test you and poke you. It's their nature. They will test your leadership because submission is not cheap. They will test if you are worth submitting to. Their loyalty will be tested by time, also.

It's left for the man to decide what he wants. If he wants to be refined as a family man, let him get married and have kids. Else let him remain single.

It's that simple.

Women are not the problem because their assignment " submission" is not cheap. It deserves worthy leadership.

And the failure of today's men to understand this simple fact is the reason today's ladies are manipulating today's men like headless chickens.

I see it everywhere and shake my head. But these things have been revealed in books by men who once walked past this route, I often whisper to myself.

Just then, I remember that education is a scam and if you wan to hide something from a Blackman, put it in a book.

Well! What do I know?

Ijoba85:
Why is there this phobia for marriage these days? Is it money or what? If the mentality is on making money first , then all singles should be ready to be "ancestral singles". Who knows what's what in the next minute ? Who promised you tomorrow ? We are all living on hope. Living within one's means is the key. If it ain't making sense in the city , it might in a town . There's no life style or standard without its own provisions. Those who gave birth by mistake some years back with shame and rebuke are now so proud of the so called "children". Then , they never wanted them cos they had no money but those children are making them proud now. Ask Clarion Chukwura, Genevieve and co. Our old mothers never set unrealistic standards for themselves during their prime . Their husbands too were never "Dangote" before taking the bull by its horn. But today , every single is scared of the bills. Let me tell you all, " the cost of things " may never drop. It'd continue to get expensive cos everyone wants naija to become UK, so expect things to become the way they are there.
If you don't have money for flat , get a single room, there are plenty single ladies that would understand and stay with you there .
If you don't have money for pampers , use napkin
If you can't afford private school , take your child to jeleosimi or public school. We also attended public schools when we were kids.
If you can't afford baby's food, grind some grains together with protein, your baby would take it.
Whatever a child would become he would become .

You man, just get something doing no matter the little it brings . The sky is wide enough for the birds to fly. No fear . God bless us all.

I do follow this kind of advice few years ago but this kind of advice is doom and I won't advice anyone to follow that. What a shallow Nigerian mentality luring people to marry.

id4sho:
NB:
Apostle Joshua Selman is not married. Don't pressure yourself most especially with this present economy, families are barely surviving . Marriages are crashing and wives losing weight 🤷🏿🤦, Omo e go b 🤯

My guy, you no lie o, wives are really losing weight in dis tinubu regime o 🤣🤣

kennyz247:
The current situation in Nigeria, marriage should be discouraged or put on hold.... otherwise the coming generation go too suffer, imagine waking up ds morning with nothing in the pocket and you have three kids and wife to feed today..

My dear suffering no easy o, I don put pregnancy on hold till after tinubu regime o

Hell testimony
Marry if you cant control lust or sexual desires
If you like joke with fire & Mosaic laws
Spiritual realm i have once experienced but not to this depth

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WTeixd_rxsI&t=28s

It is a good thing to put your finances in order before the arrival of your unborn children. But , bro, how much are you looking at before you think the time is right and when do you plan to have it ready? And remember , when you are trying to have it , the cost of items or survival would not be stagnant for you to arrive. Then, your age is moving so fast and your energy dropping bit by bit due to nature and your body asking for rest (retirement). Is this when you want to begin having kids?

youngestgrad:
God forbid bad thing, Oga I reject this your Motivational speech. I will not bring children to this world to suffer. For men, pls get your finances in order before you jump into marriage for the sake of your unborn children.

As if many of these people have been to the other side witness how life is to share their living experience,I don't blame them it's the morons and gullible, confused and lost minded followers listening and believing their lies I blame

It's good to remain single because of the stress that comes with some partners and to focus on serving God. But if one can't keep their body, they should marry to avoid burning in lust. Not everyone has the grace to remain unmarried for Christ.

Amwitty:
True you will not go to hell but I hope you know you can't be sleeping around right? I wish he had emphasised on that part as well.

What does sleeping around got to do with not getting married? You can have a long term relationship.

Are you married bro? Why do you think its shallow to cut your cloth according to your cloth? Y'all be hanging on to one-way reasoning but what if nature has a different plan? Y'all want to be rich before bringing up children or marrying. Who promised you that arrangement ? It's your thought though . What makes you think your breakthrough isn't in your responsibility as a married man? One does not necessarily have to be rich to get married but it's a reasonable thing to regularly earn an income to cater for needs , once that is achieved , then no need to be afraid

Pickieox:
I do follow this kind of advice few years ago but this kind of advice is doom and I won't advice anyone to follow that. What a shallow Nigerian mentality luring people to marry.

Ijoba85:
Nigeria should not be the reason you won't fulfil purpose in life. Childbearing is not ordinary. It's an evidence you once lived. If you die childless, your memory is forever erased from the land of the living [Qquote author=alphabbey1 post=135923592]

Just die childless if you don't have means to take care of a child. No need to bring a child and put all your generational problem on the child. Nigeria is overpopulated enough, don't add to the problem.

What about those who had accident or die from sickness at a tender age without having kids. All these erased from the land of the living is just arrant nonsense. Just don't bring kids to the world to suffer.

That is heartlessness and selfishness.

Seven more characters

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sqcu79bW-eE?si=bUdRu92puhMmSKNl

Renowned Nigerian preacher Apostle Joshua Selman has addressed societal and religious pressures around marriage, stating that choosing to remain single will not condemn anyone to hell. Speaking during a sermon, he urged people not to marry out of fear or obligation, but rather by conviction and purpose.

It's better to marry than to burn..don't let anybody give u a fight u can't win...didnt sleep with a woman till I was 25yrs in a space of 2yrs I slept with over 5ladies..2 virgins 3 non virgins all over the age of 24yrs
The oldest 36yrs

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Very balanced message

Nobody should be pressured to get married.

Also, you that don't want to get married, don't discourage others from doing so.[/color]

You didn’t listen to the message.
If I see someone who’s not ready, I can discourage them by advising them not to marry yet.
He said, the choice to be married is conditional. You must be ready for the responsibilities. “If you can’t take care of yourself, your spouse and your children, don’t marry”. If you do, you’re worse than an infidel.

Ijoba85:
Nigeria should not be the reason you won't fulfil purpose in life. Childbearing is not ordinary. It's an evidence you once lived. If you die childless, your memory is forever erased from the land of the living [Qquote author=alphabbey1 post=135923592]

Just die childless if you don't have means to take care of a child. No need to bring a child and put all your generational problem on the child. Nigeria is overpopulated enough, don't add to the problem.

Just dey play. You think say na by children history go take remember you. If you don't want to be forgotten,make a name for yourself.The great philosophers or rulers you read in history today,you think they got there by just having kids. Work on your life and you will be remembered.

ibedun:
Arrant nonsense. Africa’s lack of critical thinking people is why we are poor in the midst of humongous natural wealth.

Mr. Critical thinking... Kudos to you. Knacker-demus Keep it up.

Una just want to drag this man of God. What he meant might not be cleria to everyone This message is very correct 💯.

It's so unfortunate that those you mentioned lost their lives due to circumstances they couldn't predict nor prevent. If they hadn't die , perhaps they would have wished they lived a wonderful life. See, let me say this , if you are a responsible man who cares about his kids , you wouldn't watch them suffer . A child suffering is not about parents being poor only , it's about some parents being irresponsible or incapability to care for the child due to health challenges or so. I know of a rich dad whose children are suffering because he doesn't have their time due to the fact that he's married somewhere to another woman. What would you call that ? And I know a driver who vowed to care for his children no matter what it takes . He earns 75k and his children attends private schools . What about that? Bro, laslas it is what you think within you that shape you

Meedon:
What about those who had accident or die from sickness at a tender age without having kids. All these erased from the land of the living is just arrant nonsense. Just don't bring kids to the world to suffer.