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The story doesn't seems true . If a lady really wants to send you to prison for rape, she must have showed you sign before she acts

You lost your marriage long ago, only that you are too slow to realize it.

Weeeeeyaaaaaaaaaaàa
So sorry for you
Try abf fjj dhy

Baronthecelebri:
Good for you, Jesus Christ said ask it shall be given.
You ask for sex she refuse, divorce her straight up no time for nonsense, but yet you'll still be begging for sex.

My brother can you imagine?

A person you call your wife is refusing you sex, and you still sit there calling her your wife?

What kind of rubbish is that?

Or is there a shortage of women there?

Bestman241:
Last week Friday I started begging my wife for us to have sex since it’s been over a year we had it. Anytime I requested for sex, it’s always one excuse on top another about how she’s lost drive for sex completely. Mind you, I’m not inconveniencing her at all as I do most of the house chores and foot 100% of the billings. The only thing I sometimes refused to do is send money to her parents due to heavy demands from her.

So, on Friday after heavy persuasion lasting into hours, she yielded in and we had sex. On Saturday, I received German police at my door asking about my wife. I called her out and before I knew what was happening, they started asking her if she’s safe which she told them she’s not. They took her to a makeshift apartment pending when they finish investigation on me. I have received a case file which I must respond to and present myself this morning (Monday).

I’ve never treated my wife badly even when it’s obvious I lost control of the home . She’s the one always insulting, always speaking to her male colleagues at late hours, not joining her to do anything at home.

Tired. I don’t know what to do from here

Oga it's not by force to stay in a marriage that is obvious your wife doesn't want again. Use ur head

Bestman241:
Last week Friday I started begging my wife for us to have sex since it’s been over a year we had it. Anytime I requested for sex, it’s always one excuse on top another about how she’s lost drive for sex completely. Mind you, I’m not inconveniencing her at all as I do most of the house chores and foot 100% of the billings. The only thing I sometimes refused to do is send money to her parents due to heavy demands from her.

So, on Friday after heavy persuasion lasting into hours, she yielded in and we had sex. On Saturday, I received German police at my door asking about my wife. I called her out and before I knew what was happening, they started asking her if she’s safe which she told them she’s not. They took her to a makeshift apartment pending when they finish investigation on me. I have received a case file which I must respond to and present myself this morning (Monday).

I’ve never treated my wife badly even when it’s obvious I lost control of the home . She’s the one always insulting, always speaking to her male colleagues at late hours, not joining her to do anything at home.

Tired. I don’t know what to do from here

Another one. Only God fit save some marriages. Pele

Men wey still dey do marriage things for this days and age, naa whaa for you oh.
Baby mamas all the way.
My peace of mind is non negotiable.
Marriage wey be say no matter how you think you try reach, you neva do anything.
No be me abegi!

Haha, this one wey happen to you ehhhnnn you are on your own, you shouldn't have demand sex from her ever again. You should have been planning on how to relocate and leave her alone or you spend your money to have sex since you are working for the money 💰 even if it's gonna cost you fortune,since it is very important for you to have sex at that point in time.

Bestman241:
Last week Friday I started begging my wife for us to have sex since it’s been over a year we had it. Anytime I requested for sex, it’s always one excuse on top another about how she’s lost drive for sex completely. Mind you, I’m not inconveniencing her at all as I do most of the house chores and foot 100% of the billings. The only thing I sometimes refused to do is send money to her parents due to heavy demands from her.

So, on Friday after heavy persuasion lasting into hours, she yielded in and we had sex. On Saturday, I received German police at my door asking about my wife. I called her out and before I knew what was happening, they started asking her if she’s safe which she told them she’s not. They took her to a makeshift apartment pending when they finish investigation on me. I have received a case file which I must respond to and present myself this morning (Monday).

I’ve never treated my wife badly even when it’s obvious I lost control of the home . She’s the one always insulting, always speaking to her male colleagues at late hours, not joining her to do anything at home.

Tired. I don’t know what to do from here

Topics like this dey make me lose interest for this marriage of a thing.

And a Nigerian friend's wife who is German is complaining to me that the man is demanding sex from her 2 times daily.

Make she nor see this post sha

Bestman241:
Last week Friday I started begging my wife for us to have sex since it’s been over a year we had it. Anytime I requested for sex, it’s always one excuse on top another about how she’s lost drive for sex completely. Mind you, I’m not inconveniencing her at all as I do most of the house chores and foot 100% of the billings. The only thing I sometimes refused to do is send money to her parents due to heavy demands from her.

So, on Friday after heavy persuasion lasting into hours, she yielded in and we had sex. On Saturday, I received German police at my door asking about my wife. I called her out and before I knew what was happening, they started asking her if she’s safe which she told them she’s not. They took her to a makeshift apartment pending when they finish investigation on me. I have received a case file which I must respond to and present myself this morning (Monday).

I’ve never treated my wife badly even when it’s obvious I lost control of the home . She’s the one always insulting, always speaking to her male colleagues at late hours, not joining her to do anything at home.

Tired. I don’t know what to do from here

You still have mouth to say you don't know what to do?

What a disappointment.

Begging your supposed wife for sex and all the other things you mentioned should have given you a glimpseof the future of your union.

Who does that. Even me aty current age, I have younger women who dey massage my chest.

Gods, why would people choose to delude themselves into forcing a relationship with anyone wey no longer care for them?


SMH

[quote author= post=135932142]Why should we believe this story without hearing from the second party.[/quote]I get her number...make I give you so u go ask her wetin happen??

You dey whine us, abi? You want us to believe this cock and bull story? You try sha

A woman you call wife deny you sex and you still live with her? That's a clear sign that all is not well and your life is at risk. Why do our people not use their head?

koladata:
Only God knows how some men end up with these kinds of women. But honestly, why wait until things have completely fallen apart before you start thinking of an exit strategy? Marriage is not a life sentence, and it is not by force. Nigeria did not send you to exile so if it comes to this, you can return home and rebuild your life with dignity instead of waiting till one woman put you into trouble and get deported

When a woman no longer loves you, it shows. Depriving you of Intimacy is one of the oblivious signs and no matter how much you try to manage or salvage the situation, it’s neither wise nor safe to remain where you're not valued. Love isn’t something you can force; it’s like a reflex, natural, effortless, and undeniable. And when it fades, as painful as it is, you can’t really blame anyone. The heart wants what it wants, and sometimes, that means letting go.

So my brother I pray that God continues to direct your steps

Honestly I am still in shock and always wondering how men meet and marry these kind of witches disguised as women



Na wa oh, is this story even real or another episode of things that never happened we do read here on Nland?

You are married to a woman you have touched for over a year and you call that one marriage...

You are a joker

Divorce the Jezebel and look for a sweet girl to marry...

A woman that is always talking to male colleagues at late hours is a suspected adulteress

ayoncox:
If this is true, I really feel your pain, my advice is that you try your best to make peace with her, report the the real issue to a third party, like therapists or even necessary government bodies, although it's obvious your wife's goal is separation. If you can switch towards going into monk mode may be it will be helpful. A lot of lady get poisoned by the cultural patterns in Europe that exposes the true possibilities they have in them

Good talk, but the immediate issue for him now is how to convince the German police that he didn't do what his wife claims he did

Bestman241:
Last week Friday I started begging my wife for us to have sex since it’s been over a year we had it. Anytime I requested for sex, it’s always one excuse on top another about how she’s lost drive for sex completely. Mind you, I’m not inconveniencing her at all as I do most of the house chores and foot 100% of the billings. The only thing I sometimes refused to do is send money to her parents due to heavy demands from her.

So, on Friday after heavy persuasion lasting into hours, she yielded in and we had sex. On Saturday, I received German police at my door asking about my wife. I called her out and before I knew what was happening, they started asking her if she’s safe which she told them she’s not. They took her to a makeshift apartment pending when they finish investigation on me. I have received a case file which I must respond to and present myself this morning (Monday).

I’ve never treated my wife badly even when it’s obvious I lost control of the home . She’s the one always insulting, always speaking to her male colleagues at late hours, not joining her to do anything at home.

Tired. I don’t know what to do from here

What kind of story is this without enough background info.
Which country do you and your wife originally come from? How long have you been married? What are your ages? Any kids involved? Does she work? etc.
These info would add more balance to the story and assist people in their advice or suggestions or contributions

This your story looks unbelievable because it sounds odd that she will call police if there was no element of force or threat before sex. But the mistake you Nigerian Men abroad makes is forgetting that once you relocate abroad you are the endangered specie. So you have to be proactive, any sign your Woman in abroad is the type that feels that she can always do away with you , Just don't wait for more signs, go offensive, get your things in order, file for divorce before she wakes up. A person surrounded by enemies is always at alert

Death to simps!,.......,...................Learn the pill , you people refused, now see where it landed you






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Breaker001:
You dey wind us, abi? You want us to believe this story? You try sha

The story sound weird and unbelievable


I don't think the op knows what he is talking about.


Your wife denied you sex for a whole one year and you still live with her and call her wife? And you claim you foot the family bill 100% and also do house chores?


This story get plenty k-leg, op stop taking us for fools abeg

Wahala no dey finish for marriage.... If you Marry someone u love and the person love u back, God don butter your bread 🍞.

Ahhhh! Na wa ooo, dis one pass film trick! So after one whole year of dry spell, you finally use begging marathon collect small Kpekpus, only for German police to show face the next day? Abeg, make I laugh small!

Your wife don turn Odogwu Scammer overnight o! You dey do all house work, pay all bills, only to hear say she tell police she no safe? Na Wahala Visa she apply so?

And she dey gist with male colleagues at night, no help for house, yet she dey form Endangered Species for police? Brother, you don enter Yahoo Wife trap!

Now she don pack go Free Hotel wey police provide, while you dey face case file like EFCC suspect. Na real Jazz be dis!

My guy, no dull yourself—lawyer up sharpaly! If she wan play Oyinbo Survivor, make you no be the one to Kpakpando for cell. Document every text, call, proof say you no be wife beater.

And abeg, next time, no beg for Kpekpus from woman wey don turn your life to Nollywood script. If she no want, Ghana Must Go!

Taya for you sha… but no worry, God dey!

We too we don't know what to do from here, we have many issues in Nigeria that we are yet to deal with, we wish you the best in your court case in Germany.

I feel sad when reading about couples who traveled abroad having marital issues after they've settled. It's really sad but most times, the men fall victims due to the laws over there.

As painful as it is, I'm afraid Divorce is the only and best action you can take now. Her mind seems to be made up. Starving you for a year without sex Hmmmmmnnn.

Please let her go in peace.

I am so sorry to read what you are going through. I know how it feels as I am going through similar thing. I pray GOD sees you through.

Mindlog:
You do most of the house chores and still foot 100% of the billings in Germany?

Guy man don suffer

Almost all men that japa with their wives dey collect wotowoto steadily, all of them don dey learn the hard way

koladata:
Only God knows how some men end up with these kinds of women. But honestly, why wait until things have completely fallen apart before you start thinking of an exit strategy? Marriage is not a life sentence, and it is not by force. Nigeria did not send you to exile so if it comes to this, you can return home and rebuild your life with dignity instead of waiting till one woman put you into trouble and get deported

When a woman no longer loves you, it shows. Depriving you of Intimacy is one of the oblivious signs and no matter how much you try to manage or salvage the situation, it’s neither wise nor safe to remain where you're not valued. Love isn’t something you can force; it’s like a reflex, natural, effortless, and undeniable. And when it fades, as painful as it is, you can’t really blame anyone. The heart wants what it wants, and sometimes, that means letting go.

So my brother I pray that God continues to direct your steps

Rule Number 1: Never think it can't happen to you.

Hope you signed a prenup. She was only after your properties and was looking for a way to get it. She was trying to frustrate you into initiating a divorce or cheating which she would then use to file the divorce and win. She's definitely cheating on you for sure. You should have done enough investigations, gather the facts and present it before a judge before the divorce. She deserves nothing

oliverwrites:
I am so sorry to read what you are going through. I know how it feels as I am going through similar thing. I pray GOD sees you through.

You're going through similar things?

It's well o
Men dey suffer.

Marriage na scam, men benefits nothing

This is your version. We need her version. Then the truth. There are three versions to every story.

harsysky:
I can only believe you when I read your wife's comment. People only blame others but themselves. When the wife says her own, alot would be shocked that they even believed the one the husband wrote. When you hear from both parties, you can easily know who is at fault.

If u live in Europe,this accusation is very common ... especially Germany and Austria.some Nigerian women re beginning to do this in uk too....I think the prolonged persuasion by the man made the yield to the act against her wish


In Europe,even if u are at the point of ejaculation,if Ur girlfriend or wife ask u to stop,pls do

[quote author= post=135932142]Why should we believe this story without hearing from the second party.[/quote]if you know how some Nigerian women behave once they get to western countries and understand the power they have hmmm you won't even wait to hear from the woman

Women in Abroad especially the one that hates you will do anything to get you out of her way so that she can be with the one she loves

Once again women don't love