₦airaland Forum

“It’s really important who you choose. It’s really important. Young women, choose wisely,” Adichie said.

“Sometimes as young women, you can tell that the person you’re with is not really a good person, but you’re desperate to get married.

“You’re desperate to have somebody who’s your partner. Don’t settle. Be very careful who you choose.

“The person you choose as your life partner will make a huge difference in your life.

“If you choose somebody who’s kind, supportive, it will make all the difference. So I can tell you that I chose well, there are some good men left.”

DyshApp:
Renowned novelist, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie advises young women on the need to choose the right partners for themselves.

During a recent event, the ‘Dream Count’ author urged ladies to take great care in making decision about whom to marry.

She noted that one’s partner shapes how their lives turn out eventually.

Chimamanda noted that ladies should endeavour to choose a kind and supportive man, because she made the right choice.

The writer said in part …


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/07/dont-marry-out-of-desperation-chimamanda-adichie-advises-young-women/

ppogba:
Why didn't she come home to chose a Chinedu abi Okafor?

She is married to a white and giving advice.

Of course, she is smart. She does not want to end up drinking corpse water. She does not want her head shaven gorimapa.. And of course, she does not want to be thrown out by wicked , hungry in laws when her husband dies .

Instead of her to campaign against such , sheis in rhe comfort of obodo oyinbo talking trash.

ideatoprince18:
Are u married Miss chimamanda? When did u have the right to give advise when u are a single mum?

There is something really really wrong with feminism honestly . She wants to give advise that she herself didn't follow.

ambivert27:
This can't be over-emphasised enough. The man you marry will either make or mar you. Same thing applies to the men.

jmoore:
Her husband is from Cross rivers state.



Hushhhhh,!

ideatoprince18:
Are u married Miss chimamanda? When did u have the right to give advise when u are a single mum?

There is something really really wrong with feminism honestly . She wants to give advise that she herself didn't follow.

ppogba:
Why didn't she come home to chose a Chinedu abi Okafor?

She is married to a white and giving advice.

Of course, she is smart. She does not want to end up drinking corpse water. She does not want her head shaven gorimapa.. And of course, she does not want to be thrown out by wicked , hungry in laws when her husband dies .

Instead of her to campaign against such , sheis in rhe comfort of obodo oyinbo talking trash.

BeginsAtHome:
Shawarma, iPhone, front seat, urgent 2k, Gucci top, bone straight and more are the determinants for my gender these days.

Sad but true.

Get yourself a kind partner and live in bliss not blisters....

ideatoprince18:
Are u married Miss chimamanda? When did u have the right to give advise when u are a single mum?

There is something really really wrong with feminism honestly . She wants to give advise that she herself didn't follow.

ppogba:
Why didn't she come home to chose a Chinedu abi Okafor?

She is married to a white and giving advice.

Of course, she is smart. She does not want to end up drinking corpse water. She does not want her head shaven gorimapa.. And of course, she does not want to be thrown out by wicked , hungry in laws when her husband dies .

Instead of her to campaign against such , sheis in rhe comfort of obodo oyinbo talking trash.