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Please it's over a year now I suffered stroke please I want to know if I can still get married and have children because I want to.ill be 44 July 18 because I was 43 when it happened. Please be nice with your comments because I've gone through a lot and I think I need a man in my life now. Thank you all.

Please I need your contributions. Don't ignore a depressed soul. My left hand is still a bit weak especially the fingers but I can do a few things like washing of plate and holding a light bag with it . But it's not fully functional yet.
If you're interested can you drop a comment in the affirmative. Please be nice.

DivinegiftofGod:
Please it's over a year now I suffered stroke please I want to know if I can still get married and have children because I want to.ill be 44 July 18 because I was 43 when it happened. Please be nice with your comments because I've gone through a lot and I think I need a man in my life now. Thank you all.

Has the illness improved.Are you able to walk and move around

Every woman has her husband, your husband will locate you

You can marry. But if you are not very energetically mobile, don't insist on conceiving. You and your husband can go for child adoption.

Mercychen! I’m so glad you’re still alive. Where are you living now? Hopefully you were able to get yourself together.

A stroke should not prevent you from getting married, if you have someone who you love and loves you enough to go the journey with you. Even if you can't do any chores for now, you can always employ a help.
As for having children, that will also depend on major factors like what caused the stroke in the first place, your age (which, at 44, is not on your side even under normal circumstances), etc
At the end it's a decision you will have to take after due consultations with your partner, primary physician and a gynaecologist.

But I tire for you oo, why can't you get married and have so many children as you want God already created you a womb, common go and get it.

Are you sure it is a man you need. Or you need things you think a man CAN give,like support,love , encouragement , money.
Please honey rethink your wish and look around you and within you ,you would see that what you need in a man you might be getting from your siblings kids, family , friends, neighbors ,church .etc,
No go add wahala to your existing problem honey.

How time flies!
How are you??
Praying for perfect healing for you..
Are you considering marriage now

Focus on companionship and leave child bearing because age is no longer on your side.

You can go surrogate route or adopt a baby if you want.

My one cent advice

Awwwnn.....thank God you're recovering.

How time flies.

You really want to get married now

To a rich guy or struggling guy

Men are still evil, remember.

[quote author=Foodqueen post=136083155]How time flies.

You really want to get married now

To a rich guy or struggling guy ...

Ulunne777:
How time flies!
How are you??
Praying for perfect healing for you..
Are you considering marriage now

My dear I'm fine. But.. still pushing because fibroid no let blood remain for my body. Just collected two pints of blood last month and my sister also gave me some blood veggies like tonic leaf to boost blood. The hospital bill's and buying the blood tonics has really crippled my sister financially and I'm having to bear the brunt. But it's is well.

Esthered:
Awwwnn.....thank God you're recovering.

My sister. Thank God I'm recovering by his grace. Just that I've not been able to work because I'm still feeling weak from shortage of blood. The other day I went to look for job at a super Mart and fainted in front of one womas shop as I was talking with her that I want to buy something . my sister was called to take me the hospital where I was given two prints of blood .

It's the fibroid now that I praying to heal so that my blood will remain in My system for me. They said it was 13% when they checked.

Celestialsword:
Has the illness improved.Are you able to walk and move around

Every woman has her husband, your husband will locate you

I'm able to walk around thank God. Just the fibroid is draining my blood and making me feel weak and dizzy. Though my sister suggested operation but the price they are calling is too much for her. Like 700k and up and I'm also afraid to do

Amen I believe there's a husband for me. Thanks for your encouraging words. I appreciate.

immortalcrown:
You can marry. But if you are not very energetically mobile, don't insist on conceiving. You and your husband can go for child adoption.

Okay hopefully I find the one because for now no body yet. I pray I find a man who will agree to this terms and conditions. Please help me if you know anyone that can accept me with what you suggested. Thank you so much for your concern.

DAramis:
Focus on companionship and leave child bearing because age is no longer on your side.

You can go surrogate route or adopt a baby if you want.

My one cent advice

Ok Sir I hope I find someone because I think it companionship I need like you said. Then we can look for how to go about having children. Thank you so much I really appreciate.

columbus007:
But I tire for you oo, why can't you get married and have so many children as you want God already created you a womb, common go and get it.

Yes? I believe and May God do it for me as you've spoken. Do you have anyone you can recommend for me that can accept me and do all this things you've said? Please I'm available.

Double0h7:
Mercychen! I’m so glad you’re still alive. Where are you living now? Hopefully you were able to get yourself together.

Thank God for life. I'm stuck with that my sister i told you people when I had blood shortage my money for accommodation was used for hospital bill's and transfusion of blood. See since then I've been stuck with her because Money to get a place of my own even though she's asked me to leave but I pray silently everyday for help to locate me before it's too late. I hope not.

Belltrump:
Are you sure it is a man you need. Or you need things you think a man CAN give,like support,love , encouragement , money.
Please honey rethink your wish and look around you and within you ,you would see that what you need in a man you might be getting from your siblings kids, family , friends, neighbors ,church .etc,
No go add wahala to your existing problem honey.

Yes exactly all you've said is what I need. Do you have any one who is interested and can do all that for me? Please I'm available.

DivinegiftofGod:
Yes? I believe and May God do it for me as you've spoken. Do you have anyone you can recommend for me that can accept me and do all this things you've said? Please I'm available.

where are you based?

columbus007:
where are you based?

I'm based in Lagos Nigeria.

DivinegiftofGod:
I'm based in Lagos Nigeria.

and what's your tribe? Sorry that I am asking.

columbus007:
and what's your tribe? Sorry that I am asking.

I'm Igbo from Abia State. It's okay dear. Ask anything you feel like asking. I'm cool.
Thanks for this please keep them coming me I'm grateful

DivinegiftofGod:
I'm Igbo from Abia State. It's okay dear. Ask anything you feel like asking. I'm cool.
Thanks for this please keep them coming me I'm grateful

now just be brave and be woman enough for any man, don't subject your self to nothing, you are a wombman that's what God has made you to be, don't limit your self, you only got sick which I think it's normal for everyone. Do you know how many sickness and pains alot of people go through, I tell you, if you hear it, you will the course to be jumping up and down, that yours is I minor issue.

DivinegiftofGod:
I'm Igbo from Abia State. It's okay dear. Ask anything you feel like asking. I'm cool.
Thanks for this please keep them coming me I'm grateful

am typing fast because I am in the office, but find the time to read through again okay.

columbus007:
now just be brave and be woman enough for any man, don't subject your self to nothing, you are a wombman that's what God has made you to be, don't limit your self, you only got sick which I think it's normal for everyone. Do you know how many sickness and pains alot of people go through, I tell you, if you hear it, you will the course to be jumping up and down, that yours is I minor issue.

Okay I've heard you. I won't limit myself. I'm grateful to God that it's not more than this. God bless you for taking time out to reply me