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Facts
Marriage is overrated
Marriage does not guarantee Happiness
Marriage is not for everybody
Marriage is not a benchmark for Success.

A broken marriage does not mean you have failed in life.
A broken marriage does not mean the end of your happiness.

You can navigate your path in life and be happy as a single man or woman.

Mummy G. I is the fault.
The pastors will never take blame and responsibility

Thought Ighodalo lost his wife

Marriage is a complicated institution

NOBODY'S HOLY PASS MY BROTHERS & SISTERS , ask TUFACE e get a lot to yarn!
MATRIMONY is now off hook of HOLY or UNHOLY, no person change religion due to marriage to WEALTHY MAN, who's religion says "MẸ" that is more than one is allowed, is that HOLY?

Merlissa:
Marriage they say

For Better or For Worse..

Well what we have today are "UNIMAGINABLE" which was not in ur aforementioned QOUTE, on this fact,I GRANT THEM "HAPPY DIVORCE" .
I am a victim, u wont wish fr BETTER, FOR WORSE, FOR UNIMAGINABLE
You do or you no do na your hand e dey

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/holy-matrimony-gone-wrong-4-nigerian-pastors-whose-marriages-crashed-what-really-happened/

The only common factor here is ADULTERY and nothing else.

Fiscus105:
Marriage needs full understanding & compromise between two grown up adults. The most reason why marriages are collapsing is lack of compromise. Not money or even infidelity from man's side as many people hinge upon.

Compromise will make you see your partner as ur son/daughter when dealing with each other, we all know how we compromise our comfort to make our kids better in future, if we can put 1/2 of such energy in it, 70% of marriages that packing up would remain intact.

Nice submissions from you. You got it all right. No individual is compatible with anyone. Even a brother or a sister can't be compatible with his or her sibling(s). So, tolerance/compromise is key for any marriage to survive.

AntiChristian:
Jesus was never married!

Even Paul too!

How many disciples got married? Not up to 3 out of the twelve!

I don't think Christians are supposed to get married!

and a Christian possibly gave birth to you if I'm not mistaken.

MVLOX:
This reminds me of the scripture that says those who wish to marry will pass through a lot of tribulations. Unfortunately nobody is free from this tribulations not even big men of God or well know pastors

where is it written?

I will like to also read about it.

spencekat:
Nice submissions from you. You got it all right. No individual is compatible with anyone. Even a brother or a sister can't be compatible with his or her sibling(s). So, tolerance/compromise is key for any marriage to survive.

what are you even saying? Amos 3:3 says and I quote: can two walk together unless they agree? Compatibility can come in the form of faith, belief, creed, diet, game, sex, interests and many more. While you might not be compatible with your sibling, it is highly essential that you marry a compatible spouse to avoiding walking a lonely road in marriage.

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/holy-matrimony-gone-wrong-4-nigerian-pastors-whose-marriages-crashed-what-really-happened/

Why didn't Jesus marry? He knew it would distort, discombobulate, scatter his mission. Jesus was very SMART even if it wasn't written.

Jesus thought us simple prayer, which is the Lord's prayer. SMART JESUS!

Those who know their God shall be strong and do exploit, even in their marital tenacity

I think it's right time that men should start marrying more than one wife, if one goes the remaining ones stay.
I hope Bible support polygamy

Whoever sat down to give us this nice article demands accolade from me...

Nice one! Bravo! Obrigado! Gracia!

Nobleou:
Whoever sat down to give us this nice article demands accolade from me...

Nice one! Bravo! Obrigado! Gracia!

And some Oversabis are saying the Article is mischievous.

Marriage is not easy, even our creator knows... But the happiness of having a family is cool and may the grace of our creator be with our marriage, family IJN

If these "Men of god" couldn't get it right,
what hope those the average ordinary man who is raw dogging life without divine direction have?

How pastor Chris' marriage collapsed is still a wonder to me....🤔

Everything seemed to going be fine with his ministry until suddenly, his wife called it quits with him.

Marriage though a blessing, isn't mandatory to make heaven. Infact, many men of God have gone to hell because of their negative/rebellious wives.

That's why Jesus said some choose to forgo marriage just to make heaven.

(Matthew 19:12)

Why is it that it is always topics that tend to bash Christianity seun and the mods bring to front-page on Sundays.

Why? Every Sunday always one controversial or faith diminishing topic.

Charly Boy's Marriage Of Over 38 Years is Still Very Much intact ,

Lesson "Don't Judge a Book By It Cover"

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/holy-matrimony-gone-wrong-4-nigerian-pastors-whose-marriages-crashed-what-really-happened/

They allowed their egos take the take instead of submitting to and allowing God to take control over their marriages.
Everything about a true Christian, comes through with a test.
We all are properly built when we pass our tests, both spiritually and physically.

Marriage is built in divine partnership. If u haven't gotten ur divine partner u will disagree to divorce. Marriage is first made in heaven before experiencing it on earth. Also marriage should be guilded around close proximity of locality to succeed not inter tribal. Also if u married non rip then u have have tolerance to live well

Alot of people still married are just keeping quiet. Most marriages are not working at all. These things happen because most people married the wrong persons.
Not that the person are bad but they are simply no compatible. While we insist on genotype, hepatitis, hiv test etc, let us also ask sensitive questions.
You must be compatible in:
Communication
Finance and
Sex
Very summarized example, you have a very high IQ you go for a partner whose IQ is very low. How do u communicate? Both cannot gist comfortably.
Also, you marry a partner who is either stingy, or poor and in some cases both. Note: I didn't say broke.
Lastly, I like sex, you hate sex and we marry. What a dangerous combination.
Some get 2/3, these couples can manage the relationship if they are matured. 1/3, you would need Veeky James to sew the garment of endurance for you in that marriage. 0/3, 90% of this kind end in devoice.
Don't just see a good man or woman and jump to marry. Check these things. They may be good for others but bad for you. It impossible to see couples with 3/3 that struggle or end in devoice. Changing partners is not even the solution until u know this.

LordIsaac:
It's the "when it was my turn..." for me.

Lol. Didn’t even sound like a pastor

Nairalandddd.. e don complete 40 Abi lol

Pastors should not marry.
Are they not supposed to be married to Jesus?

LordIsaac:
It's the "when it was my turn..." for me.

My Brian had a quick reboot, WTF....
His turn like how ?? 😁😁😁

Remainder 😫
Please take a moment to write a quality post with at least 40 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone.

ogaemma:
Facts
Marriage is overrated
Marriage does not guarantee Happiness
Marriage is not for everybody
Marriage is not a benchmark for Success.

A broken marriage does not mean you have failed in life.
A broken marriage does not mean the end of your happiness.

You can navigate your path in life and be happy as a single man or woman.

Simplify put:
Marriage is like the popular virtual bet.
#gambling

judewrites:
How pastor Chris' marriage collapsed is still a wonder to me....🤔

Everything seemed to going be fine with his ministry until suddenly, his wife called it quits with him.

Marriage though a blessing, isn't mandatory to make heaven. Infact, many men of God have gone to hell because of their negative/rebellious wives.

That's why Jesus said some choose to forgo marriage just to make heaven.

(Matthew 19:12)

Those are allegories ..the 'heaven' there means a certain freedom or peace that comes with a stress free life.

1 cor 7:28
But if you do marry, you have not sinned; and if a virgin marries, she has not sinned. But those who marry will face many troubles in this life, and I want to spare you this.

psychologist:
Marriage is not a do or die affair

Better to be separated and stay true to God than staying in a toxic marriage that won’t glorify God at the end of the day

Kudos to pastor Chris and Anita, no drama

We must also understand that marriage as an institution requires man to make it work and not God, And yes God has given us the ability to

No drama, all her pictures disappeared from church books and social media immediately the news broke out...