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What exactly r they preaching

harmargedon:
marriage isn't designed for humans, we're only forcing it on ourselves

I do not really understand.
Can you clarify?

Pastors can be genuinely good, deeply Spiritual individuals and still fall short when it comes to understanding marriage.

I recently came to appreciate Pastor Paul Enenche as one of the most respected pastors in Nigeria. While I don’t fully align with his, or most pastors' teachings on relationships and marriage, I deeply admire his integrity. He appears to be one of the few who have not been compromised or swayed by external influence.

In today's climate, how many pastors are still willing to boldly speak out against the failures and injustices in our nation?

immaculatesense:
I do not really understand.
Can you clarify?

when you compare what we call marriage to what animals that truly get married you'll see that we are just forcing it on ourselves. Pigeons are a good example, you remember how they used Pigeons for conveying messages in the old times. How did they do it, a party holds the other couple(female or male), then whoever needs to send a message attaches it to the pigeon then releases it. The pigeon will fly to wherever its partner is.
Pigeons will never mate another until if eventually it's partner dies. Its till death do them part.

But for humans, marriage was created for peace sake. Imagine dating a girl and another man starts asking her out, you'll be devastated right, and if you were to be in power, it would result to war. So paying bride price and owning her is a way to telling other men she's taken. But after that what happens, you start getting attracted to other ladies 'yes' that shows the marriage isn't for you. So you marry the second, third, fifth, till as much as your age permits.
If humans can understand like other animals, chickens and goats, we would just copulate for kids sake only.

eagleonearth:
where is it written?

I will like to also read about it.

1 Corinthians 7:28

harmargedon:
when you compare what we call marriage to what animals that truly get married you'll see that we are just forcing it on ourselves. Pigeons are a good example, you remember how they used Pigeons for conveying messages in the old times. How did they do it, a party holds the other couple(female or male), then whoever needs to send a message attaches it to the pigeon then releases it. The pigeon will fly to wherever its partner is.
Pigeons will never mate another until if eventually it's partner dies. Its till death do them part.

But for humans, marriage was created for peace sake. Imagine dating a girl and another man starts asking her out, you'll be devastated right, and if you were to be in power, it would result to war. So paying bride price and owning her is a way to telling other men she's taken. But after that what happens, you start getting attracted to other ladies 'yes' that shows the marriage isn't for you. So you marry the second, third, fifth, till as much as your age permits.
If humans can understand like other animals, chickens and goats, we would just copulate for kids sake only.

I am trying to understand but some points are still missing.
Should we copulate with any woman like animals? Is that what you mean by marriage being forced on us?
What about education? Was it also forced on us because animals do not get educated?
What about clothing?
What about cook food and not eating it raw?
A lot of questions begs answers.
SHOULD WE KEEP LIVING JUST LIKE THE ANIMALS ARE DOING?

immaculatesense:
I am trying to understand but some points are still missing.
Should we copulate with any woman like animals? Is that what you mean by marriage being forced on us?
What about education? Was it also forced on us because animals do not get educated?
What about clothing?
What about cook food and not eating it raw?
A lot of questions begs answers.
SHOULD WE KEEP LIVING JUST LIKE THE ANIMALS ARE DOING?

come on bro, everyone can cook for themselves. It's not a woman's thing.
Aren't we animals too?

harmargedon:
come on bro, everyone can cook for themselves. It's not a woman's thing.
Aren't we animals too?

My dad can't turn Semo. He needed the help of my mum.
I think this topic is on the 'Christianity' segment and not science.
I hope you grab/connect the dots I left unconnected.

immaculatesense:
My dad can't turn Semo. He needed the help of my mum.
I think this topic is on the 'Christianity' segment and not science.
I hope you grab/connect the dots I left unconnected.

, before Christianity humans existed. We study humans not religion.

harmargedon:
, before Christianity humans existed. We study humans not religion.

Did we have to study animals and live like them?

immaculatesense:
Did we have to study animals and live like them?

we're all animals, what makes you think you're unique?, and FYI, we cannot stop living like them.

harmargedon:
we're all animals, what makes you think you're unique?, and FYI, we cannot stop living like them.

The fact that we are chatting like this doesn't make us more unique compared to goats. Don't you think so?

immaculatesense:
The fact that we are chatting like this doesn't make us more unique compared to goats. Don't you think so?

and you think they don't have their way of communication too?.