Going by the recent investigations and controversies surrounding the death of Mohbad, Tosyne2much brings to you 10 life lessons that could be drawn the whole thing
1. Mohbad was careless with his own life
This is a fact we can't sweep under the carpet. He lived a careless and reckless life, he was nonchalant with his health and the addiction of drugs messed up his mental health. If he lived his life the opposite way, his life would probably not have ended that way
2. Never marry a woman that belongs to the street
Wumi is bigger than Mohbad in the street. She's quarrelsome, troublesome and manipulative that her own father-in-law as well as some of Mohbad's friends are doubting the paternity of the baby. Paternity fraud accusation is the worse accusation that can ever happen to a woman
3. Sometimes, it's better to walk alone
Having good social connection is beneficial for mental, career, business and financial growth if you don't have a good people to walk it, it's better to walk alone rather than hanging around snitches, traitors and backstabbers
4. Always hold your parents in high regard
Whether your in-laws would respect you or not, everything lies in the hands of your spouse. Mohbad's wife has no atom of respect or regard for father-in-law and this was probably due to the way Mohbad actually presented his own father before her
5. Never disregard the advice of your parents
There are times when could be blinded by love or lust but your parents are always there to wake you up from your slumber or illusion. If Mohbad had spent more time to know study both Wumi and her family, he probably would have discovered some red flags
6. Some women are supporters of evil
Wumi might not be the only that actually kill Mohbad but she's a bad wife yet there are a lot of brok'en and frust'rated women out there still supporting, painting her innocent and seeking justice for her
7. A good friend is better than a bad sibling
Parental separation is bad and the worse thing that can ever happen to someone is to come from a disunited family which could be seen in the life of Mohbad. Even the family can't come together to avenge the death of their own child
8. Marriage requires maturity
Mohbad lacked the mental and emotional capacity that are needed in marriage. Wumi was too clingy and and where Mohbad got it wrong was that he should have set some boundaries. No mature man will allow his wife, a nursing mother to be following him around to clubs, shows, parties and hotels
9. People only show you fake love when you're dead
When this guy was alive no one cared about him but the moment he died, friends, influencers and celebrities suddenly became a lover of Mohbad. In fact, some people even love Mohbad more than the way his own biological father does
10. A lot of Nigerians are easily deceived
Wumi is a very cunning and manipulative woman that deceived many Nigerians and many fell for her antics. She made it look like Mohbad died as a result of murder and tried to pin on Naira Marley. At some point, she turned the narratives and made it look like Mohbad's father was responsible for the death of his own son
I drop my pen at this juncture
Written by: Tosyne2much It's been a long time Nairalanders! How are you all? |