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What is "bethroathed"?




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Mut4y:
Please I have a question, considering culture in various parts of Nigeria and experience anyone on this forum might have or must have heard, I want to get to know somethings.

If a lady is about to be bethroathed to guy or a man, probably from childhood, is there in any way, any spiritual steps involved, like something being done spiritually or traditionally?

And if take for instance, the lady isn't aware of any of this arrangement till when she's now old enough, and in a relationship that'll definitely lead to marriage and family now presents the bethroated to her just like that and she doesn't want to go ahead with the arranged marriage with the bethroathed because she doesn't love or know much about the person, is there going to be any spiritual consequences for such action and does it mean nothing can be done to reverse the arrangement?

And if you have an idea of process involved for someone to be bethroathed to another person let me know please (I'm talking about arranged marriage from years back without the knowledge of the party involved)

Please, if you have any experience to share about this, I'll be glad to hear and learn from it, this is very important to me please, thank you in advance.

Oga, free that babe.......shes the one using betrothal excuse to make you think she has no choice than to marry the man....

Besides, U are not ready....u no get raba...
She's choosing a financially ready option and doesn't want to look like the villain that dumped you for money....

She's doing u a favour....see it as blessing

U go dey already las las