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I have been working for a Chinese company for 10 years, the salary fluctuates, goes up at times, then comes down. Currently I am earning 150k. Just clocked 40 and decided I face make a drastic change . Bought a bike to join the okada riding business. People are saying it is very unbefitting and mocking me, I have a degree in industrial engineering from Unibadan. But I put that in the shelves and need to pay bills. I have a daughter to cater for. My ex wife eloped to America to remarry a Nigerian working in the U.S Marines. I am just like starting over again.
I took this drastic measure quite late, I advice any youngster in a job with no apparent growth potential, to device an escape route as soon as possible so as not to waste irrecoverable years.

Hungerbad. Hungerbad.
Still, you tried. It isn't beans.

CodeTemplarr:
You did well but could have done even better by planning a more robust escape plan like certification or more educatiion.
Still, you tried. It isn't beans.

I totally agree with you. I still set my eyes on further education but first need to settle reoccurring bills.

You're courageous, not a failure. Choosing to ride okada to care for your daughter shows responsibility and strength — don't let mockery discourage you.

1. Hold your head high – Survival is honorable. You're doing what many can't.
2. Okada is not the end – Use it as a stepping stone. Consider logistics work, online learning, or small business as next moves.
3. Reconnect with your skills – Your engineering degree and experience can still open doors if you gradually upskill or pivot.
4. Join the right community – Surround yourself with builders, not mockers. Look for support groups, training, or business networks.
5. Set a clear exit plan – Give yourself a timeline to transition from okada into something better.

You didn’t start late — you started. And that’s what matters most. Your comeback has already begun. Keep going.

Grateman123:
I have been working for a Chinese company for 10 years, the salary fluctuates, goes up at times, then comes down. Currently I am earning 150k. Just clocked 40 and decided I face make a drastic change . Bought a bike to join the okada riding business. People are saying it is very unbefitting and mocking me, I have a degree in industrial engineering from Unibadan. But I put that in the shelves and need to pay bills. I have a daughter to cater for. My ex wife eloped to America to remarry a Nigerian working in the U.S Marines. I am just like starting over again.
I took this drastic measure quite late, I advice any youngster in a job with no apparent growth potential, to device an escape route as soon as possible so as not to waste irrecoverable years.

AngelSlay:
You're courageous, not a failure. Choosing to ride okada to care for your daughter shows responsibility and strength — don't let mockery discourage you.

1. Hold your head high – Survival is honorable. You're doing what many can't.
2. Okada is not the end – Use it as a stepping stone. Consider logistics work, online learning, or small business as next moves.
3. Reconnect with your skills – Your engineering degree and experience can still open doors if you gradually upskill or pivot.
4. Join the right community – Surround yourself with builders, not mockers. Look for support groups, training, or business networks.
5. Set a clear exit plan – Give yourself a timeline to transition from okada into something better.

You didn’t start late — you started. And that’s what matters most. Your comeback has already begun. Keep going.

This is quite uplifting. Thanks so very much for the kind words.

It is well with you. I will advise that you use the bike to do delivery instead. You can register on bolt and Uber. Much more profitable.

Capitan01:
It is well with you. I will advise that you use the bike to do delivery instead. You can register on bolt and Uber. Much more profitable.

I'll give it a try . Thank you

Your courage and humility will yield a greater ROI for you in the future.

Hahjascho:
You’re courage and humility will yield a greater ROI for you in the future.

Amen. Thanks Bro