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Mariangeles:
My hubby no bad naa. 😄
You sef, wetin you do her?

Leave that thing women too get wahala, but na patience I dey use.

Guy pls get matured, marriage is for better for worse talk it out, if it border u so much, dont ever take ur mater to 3rd party, lead her, suggest what u want to her and let u guyz discuss it, don't ever think of divorce in marriage, because there will be thousand reasons.

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

I don't understand... She can misplace her phone in the house then ask her husband to beep it for her. Trust me that woman eyes dey somewhere else.

Highly under-rated response...

Dzzzz:
You too save her name as Mercy-House…So when she sees it she go ask if na housegirl you wan call am.

Oga, divorce her if you want.
Don't seek anyone's advice or you'll regret it.
Do what you want and blame yourself alone.

Esthered:
Has NL made you a defacto red piller? How do you come up with responses that gives aura for aura?

Just type what they love to say na.
Very easy...😂😂😂

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Bro haba ! @least you don marry no be 1week you suppose don know women can be very petty esp. when diss dey, if she save your name as Monkey nko you beta ask other men howfar 🤣🤣🤣

except you get another reason you no talk ... Mr dele airtel be calming down

Nonexisting1:
This is not the right question to ask the gentleman. Ask him what caused the quarrel not if he cheated. What if the wife started the quarrel and still be emotionally manipulating him to see if he will give in to her demands. She changed his name in her phone knowing fully well he would see it. That smells like one of their antics.

Buh how is dele airtel a problem, no be abuse or insult now, who im papa or mama xtain "baby"
abi we just dey do nonsense 50yrs old man go wan make 19yr old girl call am baby

nunsense & agba' yas

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

u are thinking of parting ways because of how she stored ur number or because of other unresolved issues?

U can store her name as sikira or hannah or mummy joy assuming u have a child called joy until further notice.

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

If you are not struggling wey money dey just free her no part ways ....but make sure henceforth you enjoy your life to the fullest and do not care about a wife or something but make sure u provide what they need ....and don't forget to observe her from a distance ..

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

He shouldn't handle his wife's phone and his wife shouldn't handle his phone as well, right? No take this mentality enter marriage o, don't give room for 100% privacy in marriage dear friend

Sonnobax15:

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts

So, make husband and wife dey cheat dey go under each other's nose is a better alternative? Hehe!

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Laughing.
Talk to her, be the initiator of heartfelt dialogue. Communication is the key, express your feelings and hear what she too has to say.

Sonnobax15:

Was chatting on Whatsapp just two days ago when my banny walked in and asked me who I was chatting with, cuz the way I focused on my phone wasn't it at all.....she tried to collect the phone from me but I refused and the next thing,she kept malice with me all through the rest of that day . But I no really send her papa

I knew hell would have been let lose if I had given her the phone cuz what I was doing at that moment was very close to cheating even tho I was only kinda playing around

She tried to claim right,that I was hiding something away from her by not giving her my phone to see who I was chatting with,but I held my ground . Then I asked her,have I ever checked or asked to check your phone before,even tho I know you will never be innocent? . She couldn't give me a reply....and that was what brought calmness upon her nerves.

Op,the truth is that, checking each other's phones especially couples or would-be couples is a nice thing,but it's only advisable to those who have strong hearts

I wonder couples private parts and phones which one is more private

Myrepublic:
Dele my guy No part ways jare.

The next one you go meet fit save ur name as meeeh. Oga fix ur home,make ur marriage work.

U nailed jor!!!!

For her to go that far mean say she no love you that much and you are not that important to her. You better quit now when there is still time.


She no get respect for you. Simple

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Me reading this and laughing because one of my hubby's phone number is saved as

Nickname(a shortened form of his name) airtel

The same Airtel ni gan

I honestly can't believe divorce is the first thing that came to your mind

If the misunderstanding you guys had is still paining her , sort the matter out o jare.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

mvmu

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

What sort of SIMP statement is this?

So he shouldn't know his his wife thinks of him. That is like the proverbial ostrich that buries his head in the sand so as not seen danger.

It is better to know her thoughts so as to know if to keep her or kick her to the cubs

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

Phones are more private than "private parts" these days yeah? How times have changed.

muyico:
So you checking your wife phone?? Oun oju wa, loju ri, stay away from your wife phone!

good advice as per previous generations, but in this dispensation..only a fuul gives this advice sir

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Because of how your name is saved, you want to part ways. Are you being serious right now

crestedaguiyi:
My dear read your Bible and take a position.

Everything we need in this life is wrapped up in the word of God.

You already got the trouble, manage it

Afi suru

OlawaleBammie:
good advice as per previous generations, but in this dispensation..only a fuul gives this advice sir

That heartbreak you're looking for

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Dele plumber

Why are you disturbing yourself over trivia issue?
Women's mind are too flexible, even a she-goat get mind pass them.
Though nothing can please a woman but try as much as possible to always tolerate her and always make her happy, then you will see the best of her.
Since I stopped expecting my wife to behave reasonable, I started having peace of mind, nothing she can do that can annoy me because I don't expect her to behave well.
My marriage is almost 20 good years now and I'm happy and relax, compared to when we married newly.
Lastly, don't check her phone again and respect her privacy.
I can bet my life over this, there's no perfect woman in this world, the next may be worst.
You are too young to die.

When you brighten up , she will hold your hands and change it while you guys laugh it off....

Everything shouldn't be Military nah.....make the house lovely for her...

Myrepublic:
Dele my guy No part ways jare.

The next one you go meet fit save ur name as meeeh. Oga fix ur home,make ur marriage work.

Some people are not fixable especially when their mind is already away from you anything you do from thence irritates them.

The one and only time I checked his phone, years ago, my eyes saw my ears. Three days I was speechless. After that day I had to force myself to let go and ignore and he doesn't know that I snooped into his phone till date. 🙄

Since that time I learned to leave his phone alone even though I still have his password. He doesn't touch mine, I don't touch his. There is peace and harmony and it will remain that way biko.

You people that are busy checking phone upandan, continue. You will still find what you are looking for since you obviously don't value your mental health.

Myrepublic:
Dele my guy No part ways jare.

The next one you go meet fit save ur name as meeeh. Oga fix ur home,make ur marriage work.

Or GOAT

influenz:
My wife and I had some misunderstanding that resulted in heated arguments.

With the intervention of some elders, the issue was sort of resolved. However, weeks later, I observed that my wife changed the way she saved my number on her phone from "Hubby" to "Dele - Airtel" (not real name, but something like this - assuming I worked in Airtel).

I am thinking of parting ways with her, but children are involved.

Don’t part ways, consider your kids please.

Samuel MTN, focus on your mental health. Stop finding heart attacks by yourself.