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Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by alphonsojaybaz(op): 5:21am On Jul 28, 2025
A horrifying case of domestic violence has shaken the South African community of eMalahleni, Witbank, Mpumalanga, after a 22-year-old woman, Nompumelelo Gumede, was allegedly set on fire by her jealous boyfriend. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

The suspect, who is also the father of Nompumelelo’s two-year-old child, reportedly attacked her in a jealous rage, dousing both her and his own sister in petrol before locking them inside a room and setting it ablaze.

Domestic Violence Turns Deadly in Mpumalanga
According to reports, the suspect’s sister had tried to intervene and protect Nompumelelo from the escalating violence. Tragically, she too became a victim of the gruesome attack.

Both women sustained severe burn injuries and are currently being treated in intensive care, with their conditions described as critical.

Suspect Arrested – Court Appearance Scheduled
Authorities confirmed that the suspect was arrested shortly after the attack and will appear in court on Monday, July 28, 2025, to face charges of attempted murder and arson.

Calls for Justice and Stronger Protection for Women
The brutal incident has sparked outrage among gender-based violence (GBV) advocacy groups, who are now demanding swift justice and more proactive measures to safeguard women in domestic settings.

“This is yet another example of how unsafe women are, even in their own homes,” a local activist stated.

As Nompumelelo Gumede fights for her life in hospital, her family and community members are calling for urgent action and stronger laws to prevent such attacks in the future.
https://eyesoflagos.com/jealous-boyfriend-sets-girlfriend-and-sister-ablaze-in-south-africa-victim-in-icu/

Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by richmond500: 6:39am On Jul 28, 2025
They will now blame Nigeria or Zimbabwe for this
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Kizyte(m): 6:40am On Jul 28, 2025
A relationship is one area I've never ventured into.

You no own me, I no own you. Feel free to do whatever you like.

Prioritize making money and forget about women for now.
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Osiris12: 6:40am On Jul 28, 2025
South African men and violence against anything is like bread and butter
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by musazulyadain: 6:41am On Jul 28, 2025
Very sympathetic, we should avoid taking laws into our hands
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by debbydams(f): 6:41am On Jul 28, 2025
Jesus.. The heart of man


27 more characters needed
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by helinues: 6:48am On Jul 28, 2025
If you are dating someone who is too obsessed, controlling or too jealous, run away for your dear life

The relationship/marriage of a thing is not meant for everyone. Those who don't love themselves like this jealous boyfriend have no business in dating. If a girl left you, there are thousands of them around you
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Chikarata2020(m): 6:49am On Jul 28, 2025
The most violent men in Africa. Always in the news for killing and violence conduct, their women still love them despite all
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Hassanmaye(m): 6:55am On Jul 28, 2025
I don't know Why love drug addicts, toxic men, and stupid men, if you are nice to them you are weak, if you look after her and care for her, she take you for granted but she will be loyal to agberos and take there semen.
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Nackzy: 7:01am On Jul 28, 2025
This South African can be crazy sha, they hate foreigners and still hate themselves
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by MrIcredible: 7:04am On Jul 28, 2025
Wait to hear them complain that the boyfriend was influenced by a Nigerian or igbo boy.
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by wiseone28: 7:04am On Jul 28, 2025
I hope they won't blame it on Nigerian or Zimbabwean
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by BadEnglish(m): 7:07am On Jul 28, 2025
Nigerians are crazy, but u see South Africans, they are raven mad.
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by alanto: 7:08am On Jul 28, 2025
How can a man be so emotional and reckless at the same time? Pathetic.
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:08am On Jul 28, 2025
We all knew this would make first page because the man in involved isn't Nigerian.... grin grin grin

Similar threads where the culprits were Nigerian men were ignored by the concerned ones on this very thread grin grin

Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:11am On Jul 28, 2025
BadEnglish:
Nigerians are crazy, but u see South Africans, they are raven mad.
Have South Africans ever killed women in any other country like Nigerians have ?

Are South Africans known for violence and atrocities everywhere they go like Nigerians to the point that host communities want to chase them away?🤔
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:12am On Jul 28, 2025
wiseone28:
I hope they won't blame it on Nigerian or Zimbabwean
When the incidents on the screenshots happened, I hope you didn't blame xenophobia grin...and when you unlived 200 innocent lives in one night grin grin
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by helinues: 7:12am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
We all knew this would make first page because the man in involved isn't Nigerian.... grin grin grin

Similar threads where the culprits were Nigerian men were ignored by the concerned ones on this very thread grin grin
Respond to this thread first before pointing fingers. Or are you in support of what a teenager boyfriend did to her ex?
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:14am On Jul 28, 2025
Osiris12:
South African men and violence against anything is like bread and butter
The screenshot says a lot grin

And don't forget which country is the most insecure to the point that migrants and tourists avoid it wink

200 people can get killed in one night and life goes on as normal ? grin grin grin grin

Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Osiris12: 7:17am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
The screenshot says a lot grin

And don't forget which country is the most insecure to the point that migrants and tourists avoid it wink

200 people can get killed in one night and life goes on as normal ? grin grin grin grin
that’s naija under apc. Hehehehehehehehehehehehehe
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:18am On Jul 28, 2025
Nackzy:
This South African can be crazy sha, they hate foreigners and still hate themselves
LMAO grin. So some psycho attacking his girlfriend is now "South Africans "? grin

And you love foreigners more than you love your own children grin grin. Smart people ;and you wonder why Nigeria is the place to escape from for foreign lands grin
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:20am On Jul 28, 2025
Osiris12:
that’s naija under apc. Hehehehehehehehehehehehehe
LMAO. Is that supposed to be an excuse ? grin

Nigerian men are known for killing their succeful wives in both the UK and USA...who is responsible for that behavior....Queen Elizabeth? grin grin
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:21am On Jul 28, 2025
helinues:
Respond to this thread first before pointing fingers. Or are you in support of what a teenager boyfriend did to her ex?
Why would I support any violence against anyone ? shocked

Did you question why these incidents did not make first page ? grin

Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by wiseone28: 7:24am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
When the incidents on the screenshots happened, I hope you didn't blame xenophobia grin...and when you unlived 200 innocent lives in one night grin grin
We don't blame outsiders for crime committed by Nigerians unlike south Africa that always see themselves as blameless but foreigners evil.
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by helinues: 7:24am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
Why would I support any violence against anyone ? shocked

Did you question why these incidents did not make first page ? grin
Again, what's your whataboutism for? How many of domestic violence threads have made it to FP on this forum or you haven't read any? We have discussed those

Let's discuss this foreign weird news from South Africa. Should a 22 years old boy be having this kind of mentality when he should be busy with his education, career?
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f):
Chikarata2020:
The most violent men in Africa. Always in the news for killing and violence conduct, their women still love them despite all
You expect us to hate SA men who have done nothing but build us a good home because of a few psychos among them ? grin. You must be out of your damn mind.


Nigerian women should hate Nigerian men because lots of their counterparts are a global nuisance?

Shouldn't they be scared of you because you are capable of unliving 200 people in one night in the same village ? cheesy

Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by helinues: 7:27am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
You expect us to hate SA men who have done nothing but build us a good home because of a few psychos among them ? grin. You must be out if your damn mind.


Nigerian women should hate Nigerian men because lots of their counterparts are a global nuisance?

Shouldn't they be scared of you because you are capable of unliving 200 people in one night in the same village ? cheesy
Kenya and South Africa, no disrespecting, their men are not responsible in marriage, in relationships. All thanks to alcohol

I have been to those 2 countries, so this is from personal observed experience
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f): 7:28am On Jul 28, 2025
helinues:
Again, what's your whataboutism for? How many of domestic violence threads have made it to FP on this forum or you haven't read any? We have discussed those

Let's discuss this foreign weird news from South Africa. Should a 22 years old boy be having this kind of mentality when he should be busy with his education, career?
Maybe we should do a broad study about young violent men in relationships ,I will focus on the ones in SA, you should focus on the ones in your backyard and we can compare notes and compile a report...are you game ? grin
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by helinues: 7:29am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
Maybe we should do a broad study about young violent men in relationships ,I will focus on the ones in SA, you should focus on the ones in your backyard and we can compare notes and compile a report...are you game ? grin
Let's do it this way. If you don't want us to be posting the other side news from South Africa, please stop bringing the positive ones again to this forum as they would also stop making it to FP.

That should be fair enough
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Lionessza6(f):
helinues:
Kenya and South Africa, no disrespecting, their men are not responsible in marriage, in relationships. All thanks to alcohol

I have been to those 2 countries, so this from personal observed experience
LMAO....

Not disrespecting Nigerian men...but they are known.for violence against women globally from human trafficking, baby factories and the un-living of spouses they can't put under their control in the West. All thanks to inferiority complex,greed and naturally wicked-Ness wink
Re: Jealous Boyfriend Sets Girlfriend And Sister Ablaze In South Africa by Osiris12: 7:31am On Jul 28, 2025
Lionessza6:
LMAO. Is that supposed to be an excuse ? grin

Nigerian men are known for killing their succeful wives in both the UK and USA...who is responsible for that behavior....Queen Elizabeth? grin grin
those ones are on drugs. Naija men Dey take good care of women. We actually had very low divorce rate. But as apc don destroy the economy. I don’t know again o
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