₦airaland Forum

helinues:
Let's do it this way. If you don't want us to be posting the other side news from South Africa, please stop bringing the positive ones again to this forum as they would also stop making it to FP.

That should be fair enough

Show me a Nigerian that has posted positive news from SA on this forum?

Lionessza6:
LMAO....

Not respecting Nigerian men...but they are known.for violence against women globally from human trafficking, baby factories and the un-living of spouses they can't put under their control in the West. All thanks to inferiority complex,greed and naturally wicked-Ness

Wow, so they have all these traits yet the foreigners including the South African women are rushing their men. How about the caring and responsible part?

Osiris12:
those ones are on drugs. Naija men Dey take good care of women. We actually have very low divorce rate. But as apc don destroy the economy. I don’t know again o

LMAO. More excuses
And we can say the same here ...these ones are under substance abuse and are frustrated by the slow down of the economy

Religious countries have low divorce rates Mr,and it has nothing to do with the men being good people . The women are shamed and ostracized for leaving their abusers and they are often not allowed opportunities to fend for themselves

Lionessza6:
LMAO. More excuses
And we can say the same here ...these ones are under substance abuse and are frustrated by the slow down of the economy

Religious countries have low divorce rates Mr,and it has nothing to do with the men being good people . The women are shamed and ostracized for leaving their abusers and they are often not allowed opportunities to fend for themselves

it’s not really about religion. It’s about respect for mothers. Boys are being taught from birth. They tend to transfer that affection to their wives as well.

Try date a naija boy. I’m talking about a proper naija boy and not these data boys, stipend grabbers and 30k monthly hustlers supporting their oppressors 🤣🤣🤣

helinues:
Wow, so they have all these traits yet the foreigners including the South African women are rushing their men. How about the caring and responsible part?

This is all in your head...you hype your selves to cover the Inferiority complex. There are no foreign women rushing you,but there are some of you married to foreign women...and by the way there Nigerian women married to other nationals as well but you'll hardly see them make noise about it . You are responsible for Nigeria being the poverty capital of the world so claiming studs of the world is just a way to cover your shortcomings . Why are other men from wealthier nations who are married to foreign women not putting down their own women? Why is it only you ?

Osiris12:
it’s not really about religion. It’s about respect for mothers. Boys are being taught from birth. They tend to transfer that affection to their wives as well.

Try date a naija boy. I’m talking about a proper naija boy and not these data boys, stipend grabbers and 30k monthly hustlers supporting their oppressors 🤣🤣🤣

LMAO. That's a universal thing not a Nigerian thing

But I stand by my point ....give Nigerian women the same freedom they enjoy in the West and we will see how they'll tolerate you when there's no societal pressure to do so

Look at the ones in the Uk

Lionessza6:
This is all in your head...you hype your selves to cover the Inferiority complex. There are no foreign women rushing you,but there are some of you married to foreign women...and by the way there Nigerian women married to other nationals as well but you'll hardly see them make noise about it . You are responsible for Nigeria being the poverty capital of the world so claiming studs of the world is just a way to cover your shortcomings . Why are other men from wealthier nations who are married to foreign women not putting down their own women? Why is it only you ?

You too like ejo wewe. You guys don't even know how to argue or prove your points. That is mutual amongst the South Africans. I asked you a simple question, you didn't even bother to answer it but instead writing a book.

Eish

Lionessza6:
LMAO. That's a universal thing not a Nigerian thing

But I stand by my point ....give Nigerian women the same freedom they enjoy in the West and we will see how they'll tolerate you when there's no societal pressure to do so

Look at the ones in the Uk

you stubborn. No be small. I like you. You smart

helinues:
You too like ejo wewe. You guys don't even know how to argue or prove your points. That is mutual amongst the South Africans. I asked you a simple question, you didn't even bother to answer it but instead writing a book.

Eish

LMAO are you upset that I didn't massage your Nigerian fragile ego?

Osiris12:
you stubborn. No be small. I like you. You smart

You tried though, I give you that, I didn't think you'd last this long without personal insults

wiseone28:
We don't blame outsiders for crime committed by Nigerians unlike south Africa that always see themselves as blameless but foreigners evil.

Show me a South African that has blamed a foreigner for something that he or she did.....just one incident

richmond500:
They will now blame Nigeria or Zimbabwe for this

Na lie!
Don't use this as an excuse.

Some Nigerians from a particular section of the country are truly constituting nuisance in South Africa.
I have lived in South Africa and I know what is happening there.

Chikarata2020:
The most violent men in Africa. Always in the news for killing and violence conduct, their women still love them despite all

Na lie!

South Africans are not the most violent men. They are more tolerant than our b lodas.

alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/jealous-boyfriend-sets-girlfriend-and-sister-ablaze-in-south-africa-victim-in-icu/

Who should we blame? (A) Woman (B) Man (C) Devil . By the way, can somebody explain the meaning of fish brain...and why some people are being refered to as fish brain...?

Nackzy:
This South African can be crazy sha, they hate foreigners and still hate themselves

So when you hack 3-year-olds with machetes for their organs, what's the excuse there?

News like these are rampant from South Africa. You don't even need to check the country in some cases.

Shame on all of you here. Humans are the same everywhere. Prone to disappointments, frustration and anger. How you choose to express such negative emotions depends on a whole lot of factors - laws of the society, personal self control and intensity of the emotions at play. So wether in South Africa or Afghanistan or Kazakhstan, humans are the same everywhere.

The boy loved her deeply and couldn't let her go (cheat) perhaps because of all that he had invested emotionally and financially and chose to do something drastic in a fleet of rage. Perhaps to prove that he's not weak and a "simp". That's all.....

weak insecure men destroying themselves with others instead of walking away from the mess.

This could have been a fight over Access to his child . Men, if your woman deny you access to your child/children please walk away . Let them call u deadbeat father and all sort of names. Don't get to emotional about it and end up causing more problem for yourself. Now the foolish guy is going to spend the rest of his life in jail.

Issues40:
Shame on all of you here. Humans are the same everywhere. Prone to disappointments, frustration and anger. How you choose to express such negative emotions depends on a whole lot of factors - laws of the society, personal self control and intensity of the emotions at play. So wether in South Africa or Afghanistan or Kazakhstan, humans are the same everywhere.

The boy loved her deeply and couldn't let her go (cheat) perhaps because of all that he had invested emotionally and financially and chose to do something drastic in a fleet of rage. Perhaps to prove that he's not weak and a "simp". That's all.....

Explain boy love and girl love, and enumerate or vividly describe the differences between girl love and boy love...?

If this was naija, those victims would have been long dead by now. Evil doctors and nurses with non existent affordable healthcare would have sent them to the underworld. Ordinary Oxygen šef naija hospitals can't provide na emergency care machines Dem fit provide?

End time jealous boyfriend

God forbid BAT thing

Later they will say Nigerians are taking their women

blingxx:
Later they will say Nigerians are taking their women

Always eager to wear a cape when it comes to women elsewhere, yet you can't save the ones in your backyard from Nigerian monsters

And have you ever met aSA man who claimed you were taking their women ? I'm curious 🤔

Exceed15:
This could have been a fight over Access to his child . Men, if your woman deny you access to your child/children please walk away . Let them call u deadbeat father and all sort of names. Don't get to emotional about it and end up causing more problem for yourself. Now the foolish guy is going to spend the rest of his life in jail.

Don't make excuses for a foolish man....there are courts all over South Africa that deal with custody issues if this was about the child. There is no court in SA that would deny him a relationship with his child unless if he was a child molester .

Dougad:
News like these are rampant from South Africa. You don't even need to check the country in some cases.

This is what I say when I see a body of a woman without limbs or head coming from an African country....I don't even bother looking for the name of that country I know it's most likely Nigeria . Or when a whole village is almost burnt down to ashes over night with women,children, men and their animals.....no need to look up the name

Lionessza6:
LMAO. More excuses
And we can say the same here ...these ones are under substance abuse and are frustrated by the slow down of the economy

Religious countries have low divorce rates Mr,and it has nothing to do with the men being good people . The women are shamed and ostracized for leaving their abusers and they are often not allowed opportunities to fend for themselves

Why do they always think that divorce rates are always linked to men being horrible to their wives? there can't be other reasons than this warped reality they have made up in their heads?

Don't people just naturally just fall out of love with each other and agree to part ways without any drama?

There are to many circumstances that lead to divorce,it's not about abuse all the time.

Lionessza6:
LMAO. More excuses
And we can say the same here ...these ones are under substance abuse and are frustrated by the slow down of the economy

Religious countries have low divorce rates Mr,and it has nothing to do with the men being good people . The women are shamed and ostracized for leaving their abusers and they are often not allowed opportunities to fend for themselves

Is it possible for men and women to not get close to each other...? Can you tell me why boy/men are having girlfriend and girl/women having boyfriend...?

JaceBlaze:
Why do they always think that divorce rates are always linked to men being horrible to their wives? there can't be other reasons than this warped reality they have made up in their heads?

Don't people just naturally just fall out of love with each other and agree to part ways without any drama?

There are to many circumstances that lead to divorce,it's not about abuse all the time.

Please explain what love is and why people falls in love... I read what you wrote about people fallen out of love...

JaceBlaze:
Why do they always think that divorce rates are always linked to men being horrible to their wives? there can't be other reasons than this warped reality they have made up in their heads?

Don't people just naturally just fall out of love with each other and agree to part ways without any drama?

There are to many circumstances that lead to divorce,it's not about abuse all the time.

Narrow-mindedness and lack of exposure to anything outside of religion is their problem . They seem to think being married means happy... . Or being single or divorced makes one miserable...little do they know that others choose to be single and others are in marriages that are hanging by a thread .

And they have a habit of blaming one party when relationships fail ; when it involved a Nigerian man....the woman will definitely be at fault in their eyes . But when it's a foreign man especially another African ...then the men there are a problem and the women are faultless angels .

Issues40:
Shame on all of you here. Humans are the same everywhere. Prone to disappointments, frustration and anger. How you choose to express such negative emotions depends on a whole lot of factors - laws of the society, personal self control and intensity of the emotions at play. So wether in South Africa or Afghanistan or Kazakhstan, humans are the same everywhere.

The boy loved her deeply and couldn't let her go (cheat) perhaps because of all that he had invested emotionally and financially and chose to do something drastic in a fleet of rage. Perhaps to prove that he's not weak and a "simp". That's all.....

Trust me. We expect this as South Africans. They dig negative news about us, to insult and grandstand.. We're used to it at this point