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alphonsojaybaz:
https://eyesoflagos.com/jealous-boyfriend-sets-girlfriend-and-sister-ablaze-in-south-africa-victim-in-icu/

Share this to your friends and family, etc; so that they would not have boyfriend and girlfriend again... If you still have boyfriend or girlfriend let alone husband and wife after reading this, then you are your own enemy...

I knew she’s pretty

Kizyte:
A relationship is one area I've never ventured into.

You no own me, I no own you. Feel free to do whatever you like.

Prioritize making money and forget about women for now.

No, l will call all your family members today, you must enter a Relationship today or l will tell all your Family members to disown you forever and you will be Banished from entering your village for 700 years, Plus you must buy 70,000 cows 🐄 to appease all the village elders before you are forgiven, so you must start a Relationship today ooooooo

AngelicBeing:
No, l will call all your family members today, you must enter a Relationship today or l will tell all your Family members to disown you forever and you will be Banished from entering your village for 700 years, Plus you must buy 70,000 cows 🐄 to appease all the village elders before you are forgiven, so you must start a Relationship today ooooooo

LOL!

Lionessza6:
Narrow-mindedness and lack of exposure to anything outside of religion is their problem . They seem to think being married means happy... . Or being single or divorced makes one miserable...little do they know that others choose to be single and others are in marriages that are hanging by a thread .

And they have a habit of blaming one party when relationships fail ; when it involved a Nigerian man....the woman will definitely be at fault in their eyes . But when it's a foreign man especially another African ...then the men there are a problem and the women are faultless angels .

True,some people are still in marriage but not for the reasons narrow-minded people assume.Some people stay with their partners for the sake of kids,and some women don't financially have it together so they stay in relationships for resources even though they don't love their husbands anymore..being married does not equate to being happy.


Ohh god especially when it comes to SA men,1st page is already flooded with them talking about how evil we are but not song long there was a thread in here about a Nigerian female student who was chopped to pieces by her Nigerian boyfriend but we never flooded the thread with imsults.

That is so awful. Capital punishment was abolished in South Africa several years ago. It needs a reintroduction for crimes like this. Send the monster to hell where he belongs.

Emmanuel30a:
Please explain what love is and why people falls in love... I read what you wrote about people fallen out of love...

Dude I am not Shakespeare,I am not here to define and write poems about love and what it is.

I was just addressing the this fallacy that whenever women become unhappy in relationships and want out then it automatically means the blame falls squarely on the man.Sure we do have men who abuse their women but that does not mean it's what contribute to the high rate of divorce.In fact I am willing to bet in most cases it was something deeper than that,or just simply two people who just mentally and sexually drifted apart and saw it was best to call it quits.

Lionessza6:
Show me a Nigerian that has posted positive news from SA on this forum?

Me

Lionessza6:
Show me a Nigerian that has posted positive news from SA on this forum?

SA weren't human being! Still under siege

South African men and killing there women be like 5 and 6. R.IP

Lionessza6:
Show me a South African that has blamed a foreigner for something that he or she did.....just one incident

Madam go to X it's everywhere.. this going back and forth thing is tiring. I need to make money no time for argument.

I no sure say e get any country wey wacko like southy

wiseone28:
Madam go to X it's everywhere.. this going back and forth thing is tiring. I need to make money no time for argument.

LMAO

Show me a screenshot atleast ....yes,I know you want to make those billions in a few minutes...but borrow me a few seconds just like you just did now by replying to me and prove your point

helinues:
If you are dating someone who is too obsessed, controlling or too jealous, run away for your dear life

The relationship/marriage of a thing is not meant for everyone. Those who don't love themselves like this jealous boyfriend have no business in dating. If a girl left you, there are thousands of them around you

if dem tell me say something reasonable fit commot from your head,I go doubt am but on this,I agree with you

ovawise5050:
I no sure say e get any country wey wacko like southy

How about the one where 200 people can get killed overnight in one village and no arrest weeks after ? is that wacko enough for you ?

shanicebabey:
South African men and killing there women be like 5 and 6. R.IP

Reminds me of Nigerian men who are capable of wiping out an entire village over night ; women ,kids and pets 🙄

And their love for their women's guts and limbs

muyico:
SA weren't human being! Still under siege

Like you're under siege from money ritualists,terrorists, armed robbers ,kidnappers and women abusers?

ghettochild:
Me

Show me that thread abeg

Lionessza6:


Like you're under siege from money ritualists,terrorists, armed robbers ,kidnappers and women abusers?

xenophobia run in your vein

NotOfThisWorld:
That is so awful. Capital punishment was abolished in South Africa several years ago. It needs a reintroduction for crimes like this. Send the monster to hell where he belongs.

I do agree with you .but I'm also curious if capital punishment has helped curb violent crime in Nigeria?

muyico:
xenophobia run in your vein

And Hypocrisy runs in yours ?

shanicebabey:
South African men and killing there women be like 5 and 6. R.IP

You and ritual killing your women for their lady parts 🤷‍♂️ Are what? 2 and 3?

JaceBlaze:
True,some people are still in marriage but not for the reasons narrow-minded people assume.Some people stay with their partners for the sake of kids,and some women don't financially have it together so they stay in relationships for resources even though they don't love their husbands anymore..being married does not equate to being happy.


Ohh god especially when it comes to SA men,1st page is already flooded with them talking about how evil we are but not song long there was a thread in here about a Nigerian female student who was chopped to pieces by her Nigerian boyfriend but we never flooded the thread with imsults.

Exactly!!

They could careless about dead Nigerians and especially women these ones . That's a norm over there . They like to grandstand and act all caring when something like this happens in far away lands....but on a daily basis ,we are seeing limb-less children and women in Nigeria and young girls( child maids )doused with petrol by their *masters* . 48 people have just been massacred by Nigerian men but all you see on that thread is the same Nigerian men blaming Tinubu in Aso Rock

Lionessza6:
This is what I say when I see a body of a woman without limbs or head coming from an African country....I don't even bother looking for the name of that country I know it's most likely Nigeria . Or when a whole village is almost burnt down to ashes over night with women,children, men and their animals.....no need to look up the name

On seeing your mention, I quickly typed 'woman killed boyfriend,' and scurried to the News section. Of the 10 reports in the first page, 4 were about the Ugandan olympian who was murdered by her boyfriend. The remaining 6 were distinct femicide cases emerging from S.Africa. Don't fool yourself.

Dougad:
On seeing your mention, I quickly typed 'woman killed boyfriend,' and scurried to the News section. Of the 10 reports in the first page, 4 were about the Ugandan olympian who was murdered by her boyfriend. The remaining 6 were distinct femicide cases emerging from S.Africa. Don't fool yourself.

Yes ,you typed this on nairaland, no? .
What did you expect to see,cases where Nigerian men are the culprits ? . That's why I said those don't normally make first page because the international condemners don't really have energy for the monsters in their backyard .
That's why there's more outrage when a Nigerian is killed in another country than 200 Nigerians killed I'm one night

It's called selective outrage .


But if I went on Google and typed " a headless woman found on the streets " or " woman killed by boyfriend for money rituals " we both know which country will dominate the search engine with gory pictures

Lionessza6:
Yes ,you typed this on nairaland, no? .
What did you expect to see,cases where Nigerian men are the culprits ? . That's why I said those don't normally make first page because the international condemners don't really have energy for the monsters in their backyard .
That's why there's more outrage when a Nigerian is killed in another country than 200 Nigerians killed I'm one night

It's called selective outrage .


But if I went on Google and typed " a headless woman found on the streets " or " woman killed by boyfriend for money rituals " we both know which country will dominate the search engine with gory pictures

Yup, 100%

Lionessza6:
Exactly!!

They could careless about dead Nigerians and especially women these ones . That's a norm over there . They like to grandstand and act all caring when something like this happens in far away lands....but on a daily basis ,we are seeing limb-less children and women in Nigeria and young girls( child maids )doused with petrol by their *masters* . 48 people have just been massacred by Nigerian men but all you see on that thread is the same Nigerian men blaming Tinubu in Aso Rock

They feel so pressed about crimes of passion in South Africa but they couldn't go and rescue their 200 school girls who were abducted by Boko Haram,even when the international media shone a light on the case and these cowards still failed to go and fetch their daughters.

Could someone tell where do these hypocritical cowards get this gall?

Lionessza6:
Don't make excuses for a foolish man....there are courts all over South Africa that deal with custody issues if this was about the child. There is no court in SA that would deny him a relationship with his child unless if he was a child molester .

I called him foolish first so I m not making excuses for him. Even going to court for child custody is emotionally & psychologically draining. Walking away is the best . No need for drama that will make you do a regrettable act.

Hassanmaye:
I don't know Why love drug addicts, toxic men, and stupid men, if you are nice to them you are weak, if you look after her and care for her, she take you for granted but she will be loyal to agberos and take there semen.

I wonder why this life is so unbalanced like this.
Be nice and caring to most of them,they will see you as a weakling and take you for granted.
But you see them begging to stay in an abusive and toxic relationship as if their lives depend on it.
What an irony of life!!

Lionessza6:
LMAO

Show me a screenshot atleast ....yes,I know you want to make those billions in a few minutes...but borrow me a few seconds just like you just did now by replying to me and prove your point

Don't worry i will