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Make you no kill yourself before your time oo.

RevenuesBoost:
I spoke about this last week with hubby.

Hubby asked, why do women in most cases live longer than men.
I answered, the woman exercises herself from morning till evening.

He asked how, I said, I'm an example.

If I am not working online, I'm cooking or sweeping or doing the dishes or laundry or cleaning the house or baby-sitting.
It's always from one work to the other.

A man doesn't do much exercises.
Most men that exercise, have young looks and live longer.

It's NOT necessarily about Exercise.

Most Elderly women of 65-70, They start taking medications seriously and take Church/God seriously.

But the Men, they keep Useless company with Drunkards, sit Idly all day.
Before u know it, they either fucck an underaged Girl or somebody's wife.

At that point, many of them lose focus on the Essence of life, unlike Women.

May God keep is till old age too.While God keep u safe,take good care of yourself. Avoid drinking mixtures,drugs etc.

Wisdom encrypted.

Jamieb:
You lack critical reasoning . That's not what he's trying to say

In essence men should run away from their responsibilities because it will make them live longer. Lol 😂.

Marvyx:
Bro I literally thought about this today. A man dropped dead in the office building I work in. He had 6 children, wasn't up to 45. High blood pressure like we were told.

I honestly don't know what men gain from marriage if they can't even live long enough on earth.

From what u Have posted, Dude married TOO EARLY and Marriage Responsibility killed him.

When you tell Pple that it is Wrong to marry in your 20's when you re still struggling Financially,
They will be Arguing.

RevenuesBoost:
I spoke about this last week with hubby.

Hubby asked, why do women in most cases live longer than men.
I answered, the woman exercises herself from morning till evening.

He asked how, I said, I'm an example.

If I am not working online, I'm cooking or sweeping or doing the dishes or laundry or cleaning the house or baby-sitting.
It's always from one work to the other.

A man doesn't do much exercises.
Most men that exercises, have young looks and live longer.

You're right! Typical example is driving all the time, and not brothered to trek sometimes. Health talk was held in my church a couple of months ago, and men were advised to learn to do things themselves; things like washing their car, boxers and even clothes that it's an exercise. Finally a man shouldn't be eating swallow late in the night, and ensure frequent BP check-up. May God help we men!!!

Divoc19:
Mums are always younger.
Have you checked it from this angle yet?

Some fathers take 15 years

There is this too

Scary, God forbid. I must live my God ordained age complete in good health and sound mind.


I am enjoying these threads about fathers and husbands.

It's refreshing reading from different people's opinion.



How do you think married men can live longer, please share you views, thanks guys

Softmirror:
What are you trying to say? That we shouldn't care for our parents in their old age?!

Apply your sense and you'll understand the question.
The way some of una dey think dey disgusting

Olamideayomide:
Food for though for Nigerian men.

Take care of yourself likewise the family too.
Too much responsibilities dey kill men o

Women nowadays also take responsibilities in their families.. nowadays a lot of women are working, hustling, doing trade and business..go to the market you will see a lot of women selling and hustling there to assist their husband in the upkeep of the family and children..they even carry pregnancy for 9 months and still work and hustle..gone are those days were women were housewives...men also are also trying

How did we start breeding complainers for goodness sake?

Truly, buhari was right. Nigerian youths are lazy

MrIcredible:
Apply your sense and you'll understand the question.
The way some of una dey think dey disgusting

Ok

Celestialsword:
men should take care of themselves, because many men struggled and laboured for the family upkeep and they didn't get the rewards

They were stressed up and most of them died before their wives.

When the man has passed on, those he left behind will still survive and become somebody in life.

The Irony of it all ,is that it's the woman that now enjoy the fruits of the man's labour.

So,men should wise up and always take care of yourself, when the load is too heavy, please drop it.

Hmmm, this is deep

Thank God my Papa and Mama are both alive and above 80s, I pray they both live to celebrate their 90th birthdays soon

Nonexisting1:
You didn't have to explain all that to the agbado agent. They always rush to comment without reading and understanding.

Good thread like this you just invaded it with politics.

Nonsense post

Celestialsword:
Elumelu's mom is 97years
Otedola's mom is 103years
Jonathan's mom is 88years
Saraki's mom is 99years
Dangote's mom is 90years

Where are their father's, Long gone in most cases.

Food for thought

Treat yourself well, they will survive without you

Celestialsword:
Elumelu's mom is 97years
Otedola's mom is 103years
Jonathan's mom is 88years
Saraki's mom is 99years
Dangote's mom is 90years

Where are their father's, Long gone in most cases.

Food for thought

Treat yourself well, they will survive without you

How many wives did the fathers have?

This mothers are what number in the harem

The mindset of Nigerian males is terrible. We believe we have to disturb our minds with worst case scenarios even in times of peace. We believe men should not sleep longer than four hours and should consume beer at least thrice weekly. Exercise? Why should I suffer myself? It will make my bones weak in future. The body should be allowed to enjoy things in excess. Wait o, how did I catch diabetes? High blood pressure was in my line? Kai! Sha, na to die on top kpekus then. Where is that sexual enhancer? If I fall ill, agbo is more than enough. If it fails, big stout will suffice.

Celestialsword:
men should take care of themselves, because many men struggled and laboured for the family upkeep and they didn't get the rewards

They were stressed up and most of them died before their wives.

When the man has passed on, those he left behind will still survive and become somebody in life.

The Irony of it all ,is that it's the woman that now enjoy the fruits of the man's labour.

So,men should wise up and always take care of yourself, when the load is too heavy, please drop it.

I wish it was this simple. Sorry, a man can't switch off. Some things are inevitable. Some problems have no solution.

ozo13 from Nairaland:

"men should take care of themselves, because many men struggled and laboured for the family upkeep and they didn't get the rewards

They were stressed up and most of them died before their wives.

When the man has passed on, those he left behind will still survive and become somebody in life.

The Irony of it all ,is that it's the woman that now enjoy the fruits of the man's labour.

So,men should wise up and always take care of yourself, when the load is too heavy, please drop it. ...when the load is too heavy, please drop it. Nice one"

https://www.nairaland.com/8481697/where-fathers#136264618

Softmirror:
What are you trying to say? That we shouldn't care for our parents in their old age?!

. Have sense and understand what he wrote ..

Moreze:
. Have sense and understand what he wrote ..

Okay

Nehyooh:
You're right! Typical example is driving all the time, and not brothered to trek sometimes. Health talk was held in my church a couple of months ago, and men were advised to learn to do things themselves; things like washing their car, boxers and even clothes that it's an exercise. Finally a man shouldn't be eating swallow late in the night, and ensure frequent BP check-up. May God help we men!!!

You're right.
This is what most men don't want to hear.

Celestialsword:
Elumelu's mom is 97years
Otedola's mom is 103years
Jonathan's mom is 88years
Saraki's mom is 99years
Dangote's mom is 90years

Where are their father's, Long gone in most cases.

Food for thought

Treat yourself well, they will survive without you

Their fathers where older and chronologically had to go before the youngeewives.

Softmirror:
In essence men should run away from their responsibilities because it will make them live longer. Lol 😂.

Mostly irresponsible men live long than responsible men

The men are most likely 5 to 20 years older than their wives, so what do you expect.

You should have put Yusuf and Aisha picture and then ask where is Buhari? As if Aisha and Buhari are age mates

Softmirror:
What are you trying to say? That we shouldn't care for our parents in their old age?!

This your comment reeks of what I can not say. If you don't understand something, you ask for clarification before jumping into conclusion. There's no ambiguity in what the guy has posted but your own thought process is quite laughable. "Fathers, take good care of yourself as much as you can, so you too can enjoy good and long life like the mothers". It's that simple!

Na wa o! My people and comprehension!

helinues:
Don't be a wrist watch working for the family always. Make sure to take time and enjoy yourself

Simple.

I wish I can show this to one archaic thinking young man wey I sabi

Celestialsword:
Elumelu's mom is 97years
Otedola's mom is 103years
Jonathan's mom is 88years
Saraki's mom is 99years
Dangote's mom is 90years

Where are their father's, Long gone in most cases.

Food for thought

Treat yourself well, they will survive without you

IBB is 83 years old, his wife died at 61
OBJ is 88 years old his wife died at 59
WF Kumuyi is 84 years old, his wife died in her early 60s
Victor Attah is 86 years old wife also died in her late 60s..
Would it make sense to have a food for thought like:
Ladies treat yourself well, men will survive and remarry when you are gone!

Celestialsword:
Elumelu's mom is 97years
Otedola's mom is 103years
Jonathan's mom is 88years
Saraki's mom is 99years
Dangote's mom is 90years

Where are their father's, Long gone in most cases.

Food for thought

Treat yourself well, they will survive without you

What is the years between their Fathers and Mothers?

How old were their Fathers when they married their Mothers?

You don't expect a 32 years old man that married a 23 year old to live longer than the woman, do you?

The story no complete, give us their Fathers age too, then we can compare.

helinues:
Don't be a wrist watch working for the family always. Make sure to take time and enjoy yourself

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