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Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by bernardluccky(op): 6:25pm On Aug 02, 2025
Please I don't know if my girlfriend love me I have been dating her for 4 years now and we both live in same town in Edo for 2 years before she traveled to her uncle place in Delta but in that 2 years no kiss, no sex, she hardly hug me and we haven't meet in a private place that's just both of us together, no photo together
Anytime I ask her for kiss she will say is illegal.

Now she is asking me when are we going to see again I just said I don't know because I ask if we see is she going to kiss me she said no that kissing is illegal but I love her, I don't know what to do.

And she is angry because I said I don't know and saying I don't have plan for us to be together.
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by xtianchris(m): 6:48pm On Aug 02, 2025
We need more than 100 characters for your matter.
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Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by bernardluccky(op): 6:56pm On Aug 02, 2025
xtianchris:
We need more than 100 characters for your matter.
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How do you mean 😏? Can you elaborate pleaseeeeeeee
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Aug 02, 2025
bernardluccky:
Please I don't know if my girlfriend love me I have been dating her for 4 years now and we both live in same town in Edo for 2 years before she traveled to her uncle place in Delta but in that 2 years no kiss, no sex, she hardly hug me and we haven't meet in a private place that's just both of us together, no photo together
Anytime I ask her for kiss she will say is illegal.

Now she is asking me when are we going to see again I just said I don't know because I ask if we see is she going to kiss me she said no that kissing is illegal but I love her, I don't know what to do.

And she is angry because I said I don't know and saying I don't have plan for us to be together.
Is she SU? If she's a churchy rooted girl, then know that it's her principles

If she isn't. Please leave
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by brain54(m): 7:00pm On Aug 02, 2025
Lol at illegal kiss...

Normally without much thought I would have said "it's possible if you are dating yourself"

That's the first thought to my mind seriously.

But on deeper reflection is actually possible. What are are values? What are her reasons? Is she a Christian? You guys plan on getting married? Does she love you? Does she show love and seriousness to you apart from the no kiss and no sex thing?

These are questions you ought to think and find answers to ensure she isn't playing or exploiting you. Because you actually sound naive.

But even though rare nowadays they still exist people that believe in and are actually in a no sex or no kiss before marriage as in your case.

Just communicate with her and make sure you guys sort out the direction of where your relationship is headed. You are the man and more of the responsibility should fall on you in that regard.

If you feel you can't cope with the rule it's best you just quit instead of worrying yourself so much!
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by duduade(m): 7:03pm On Aug 02, 2025
A red piller on the prowl

How old are you first
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by bernardluccky(op): 7:09pm On Aug 02, 2025
duduade:
A red piller on the prowl

How old are you first
We are both 22 years old
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by nifemi25(m): 7:36pm On Aug 02, 2025
Don't be surprised, most mangos you thought wasn't ripe yet, someone is eating it with salt..
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by Diamond098454(f): 8:27pm On Aug 02, 2025
You don't need to ask a girl for a kiss it comes natural between the two persons involved
Re: Is It Possible For A Guy To Date For 4 Years Without Kiss? by EmmySparky(m): 9:33pm On Aug 02, 2025
I am guessing you have been giving her money steady… you know what you are
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