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A friend lost his job and had nowhere to go, so I took him in. Fed him, housed him, for 9 months.

One night, he said his flight was the next morning. Just like that. Thanked me for everything and left.

I went to work the next day, tried calling him, line wasn't going through. A week later, he finally picked up. Said he was fine, he’d arrived in the US.

That was 3 years ago.
No calls. No messages. Nothing.

I’ve never felt betrayal in my life like I felt that day. Not even enemies move like that.

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.

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MufasaLion:
That was bad of his friend. Accommodation or shelter is among the 3 basics needs of humans. Well,nobody owe you the necessity to inform you if their travel plans but however, courtesy demands he could have told you before he traveled.

You've learnt your lesson. It's sad anyways.

Asuun:
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While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief.

Asuun:
Please re-read the post.
Did he say he was not informed about his friend's trip? He was informed, but very late. It wasn't like he left without informing his host

Skyfornia:
Even at that, you should be grateful

MufasaLion:
Stop justifying bad behavior.

You sheltered someone for 9 months without asking for a penny but he didn't deem it fit to inform you of his travel plans until a day before?

Someone that is traveling would have been preparing for months! It' takes nothing less than 6/7 months to start travel process. He should have informed the guy probably immediately he got his visa not a day before his flight.

You people just like to be ungrateful! If he didn't trust his host enough with his safety, he wouldn't have stayed with him for 9 months! He was just being ungrateful!

Skyfornia:
Even at that, you should be grateful

Ezeama400:
No, it’s not betrayal. Many people that relocated abroad don’t find it easy at early 1-5 years

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.



https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]Did you call or text n he didn't respond. You are guilty as well

Firebox123:
which one is that you're feel betrayed

Did you even know maybe you're better than him that live in USA

Maybe your friend is suffering in USA like that you don't even know

Natbrowny:
U knw whether ur friend don kpai

Do u know if things hasn't gelled yet

To be successful no by American visa atyms

Wat if he's living in the slum with no phone

U helped him doesn't mean he'll help u bak.
Its life.

eepeepook:
Abroad life no easy. The man will reach out eventually. My then girlfriend who I supported through the process of japa cut me off four months after relocation. Six years later, no word from the woman. I don replace am since. I no dey waste time.

Firebox123:
which one is that you're feel betrayed

Did you even know maybe you're better than him that live in USA

Maybe your friend is suffering in USA like that you don't even know

fuckingAyaya:
Check if he's still alive first

Ezeama400:
No, it’s not betrayal. Many people that relocated abroad don’t find it easy at early 1-5years after relocating.. Start life afresh can drain one mentally

So many many things to sort out. You don’t expect people to to sleep online replying your chat when no serious issue is bn discussed

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.



https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]Calm down he will eventually get in touch. Just calm down though it is kinda bad on his part not to say the occasional Hello on many Media available in this age and time.

And if he did not get in touch ever, just move on. It happen sometimes like that.