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Michelle70:
not really, most people ghost their friends when they are going through a lot.
His friend might be suffering from depression abroad

FaAbData:
He started going through depression from the first day he got their?

He was in depression that's why he did inform him that he was planning to travel until a day before?

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

Kobojunkie:
I myself experienced what you described but it had absolutely to do with money spent; Rather it had to do with the fact that one literally had to uproot and abandon ones life in one place in other to relocate and start over in the other place that got to me.

For years,I didn't have anything to say to anyone who called so I basically stopped picking up an d pretending all was well with me psychologically after the move.

eepeepook:
Abroad life no easy. The man will reach out eventually. My then girlfriend who I supported through the process of japa cut me off four months after relocation. Six years later, no word from the woman. I don replace am since. I no dey waste time.

arantess:
😂

But e dey post WhatsApp status abi?

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

MufasaLion:
Stop justifying bad behavior.

You sheltered someone for 9 months without asking for a penny but he didn't deem it fit to inform you of his travel plans until a day before?

Someone that is traveling would have been preparing for months! It' takes nothing less than 6/7 months to start travel process. He should have informed the guy probably immediately he got his visa not a day before his flight.

You people just like to be ungrateful! If he didn't trust his host enough with his safety, he wouldn't have stayed with him for 9 months! He was just being ungrateful!

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.


https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]He should not be too quick to judge the guy provided he did not treat him badly while they were living together.

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.



https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]You don't know his present condition or even if he is still alive even though I know some people can be that way.

Firebox123:
which one is that you're feel betrayed

Did you even know maybe you're better than him that live in USA

Maybe your friend is suffering in USA like that you don't even know

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

HEAVEN4444:
➜now you have fully settled and go to Sheridan and Pratt Giordano's pizza beside Loyola university to eat deep dish pizza and don't miss home anymore 👀👀🤣🤣

Kobojunkie:
Huh?

anslemarinze52:
That bro de lie, nothing anyone wan tell me.

Cause no way you’ll treat your friend right and he leaves for another country and you’ll still come to the internet to make him look like the bad person.

It’s either his lying about treating his friend nicely or he just cooked up the story for engagement!.

Nefort:
➜At least let the friend acknowledge the good things that was done for him and not entirely focusing on that bad side.
➜If your friend told you to delay your arrival at home because of a woman or he expects you to mop, I wouldn't really say it is bad treatment. It's only the inconvenience you have to endure for not having your own place.

Michelle70:
I doubt the OP is saying the truth about that line.
There is no way he won't tell him and let's not judge, their relationship may not be too good while they were together.

I'm just saying sha

Kalulu44:
Yes that one dey but him not telling his host about his traveling plans till a day before leaving shows he has something in mind and which is now showing by excommunicating him

toprealman:
➜Give it time. Let’s say you are still growing up…life is full of all sorts. That story is not fabricated.

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

FaAbData:
➜Yeah, maybe. But no matter what at least he housed you for a while. The only legit reason to sudden start ghosting a friend is when they're becoming a burden or nuisance. Maybe ops story isn't complete

HEAVEN4444:
so are you better now ?

Kobojunkie:
I dealt with my psychological issues, called many people back eventually to explain what had happened. The end!

HEAVEN4444:
That's great. So OP need to be calming down. Let his buddy get out of depression first 😆

toprealman:
Give it time. Let’s say you are still growing up…life is full of all sorts. That story is not fabricated.

Kobojunkie:
OP did not say that his friend never thanked him for his kindness.

2. Of course! It is common courtesy to clean up when you are living with anyone else. But what if the person you are living with instead decided you were a slave who needed to be ordered around instead?

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

MufasaLion:
Stop justifying bad behavior.

You sheltered someone for 9 months without asking for a penny but he didn't deem it fit to inform you of his travel plans until a day before?

Someone that is traveling would have been preparing for months! It' takes nothing less than 6/7 months to start travel process. He should have informed the guy probably immediately he got his visa not a day before his flight.

You people just like to be ungrateful! If he didn't trust his host enough with his safety, he wouldn't have stayed with him for 9 months! He was just being ungrateful!