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"Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by Psgallery(op): 10:44am On Aug 03, 2025
I’m Looking for My Childhood Friend – Dera 💔

Hi everyone my name is Ezike Precious. I’ve held this in my heart for years, and I’m finally putting it out here, hoping the world can help me find a friend I never got the chance to say goodbye to.

Her name is Dera (maybe “Odera” or "Chidera" I’m not sure of the full name). I met her years ago at my uncle’s wedding in Imo State Nigeria. She came with her mom the night before the wedding and left the day after. We were only together for two days, but those were some of the happiest days of my childhood.

In just that short time, she became the best friend I ever had. She was smart, kind, full of life… the kind of friend that stays with you forever, even after they’re gone. But I never got to say goodbye.

I’ve searched for her ever since, holding on to the few memories we made and a photo of us together. She told me she lived in Lagos state Nigeria with her mom at the time. That’s all I know. Today, she should be somewhere between 20 and 25 years old.

I miss her. I never had another friend like her. If anyone here knows a Dera who fits this story, or if Dera herself ever sees this… please know that I never forgot you. I still hope to meet you again one day.

Attached are photos of her alone and us together. Please help share you never know who might recognize her.

Thank you so much. 💛

https://www./314873871910520/permalink/24370764289228142/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by columbus007(m): 11:09am On Aug 03, 2025
Wow, this is touching bro, maybe she must have been married according to the age you wrote down, she was kinda pretty.
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by Nobody: 11:27am On Aug 03, 2025
Psgallery:
I’m Looking for My Childhood Friend – Dera 💔

Hi everyone my name is Ezike Precious. I’ve held this in my heart for years, and I’m finally putting it out here, hoping the world can help me find a friend I never got the chance to say goodbye to.

Her name is Dera (maybe “Odera” or "Chidera" I’m not sure of the full name). I met her years ago at my uncle’s wedding in Imo State Nigeria. She came with her mom the night before the wedding and left the day after. We were only together for two days, but those were some of the happiest days of my childhood.

In just that short time, she became the best friend I ever had. She was smart, kind, full of life… the kind of friend that stays with you forever, even after they’re gone. But I never got to say goodbye.

I’ve searched for her ever since, holding on to the few memories we made and a photo of us together. She told me she lived in Lagos state Nigeria with her mom at the time. That’s all I know. Today, she should be somewhere between 20 and 25 years old.

I miss her. I never had another friend like her. If anyone here knows a Dera who fits this story, or if Dera herself ever sees this… please know that I never forgot you. I still hope to meet you again one day.

Attached are photos of her alone and us together. Please help share you never know who might recognize her.

Thank you so much. 💛

https://www./314873871910520/permalink/24370764289228142/?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v
how to contact you Incase I find her

You never ready
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by Samantha125(f): 12:09pm On Aug 03, 2025
Ask your uncle... I'm sure he knows her mother since they came to his wedding.
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by azpekuliar: 2:51pm On Aug 03, 2025
Forget that childhood friend. Even if you find her u tink say una go vibe as una be as kids. After 20-25 years? Dey play. Infact na the opposite go happen. U go come dey ask yourself why u even bothered.
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by ednut1(m): 9:36pm On Aug 03, 2025
Take it to TikTok
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by Thazard(m): 10:01pm On Aug 03, 2025
azpekuliar:
Forget that childhood friend. Even if you find her u tink say una go vibe as una be as kids. After 20-25 years? Dey play. Infact na the opposite go happen. U go come dey ask yourself why u even bothered.
True.

Same happened with me.
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by engrchykae(m): 6:06am On Aug 04, 2025
Thazard:
True.

Same happened with me.
somethings are better in memory
Re: "Please Help Me Find My Childhood Friend Dera, Met Her In Imo State Years Ago" by AndroBlaze: 6:17am On Aug 04, 2025
azpekuliar:
Forget that childhood friend. Even if you find her u tink say una go vibe as una be as kids. After 20-25 years? Dey play. Infact na the opposite go happen. U go come dey ask yourself why u even bothered.
And what if the opposite happens?? Abeg, you only live once and can die 100s of times if one is afraid, let the person try their luck.
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