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Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.



https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]I believe when things get better for him and he remembers you.... you will be good enough to tell us here...

Babatundehy:
➜Beggars cannot be choosers, you were definitely an inconvenience he tolerated, he didn't think of you before getting that apartment, he got it for himself, you needed a place and he let you in. Mopping, sweeping and even cooking, are things you should have done happily, that is just you earning your keep, forget your age, that is nothing, age doesn't pay rent.
Telling you to hang around some place because his babe is at the house isn't him being bad, would you have preferred he got an hotel room for that? You were the homeless one, not him. More people need to learn to appreciate people when they're being kind, lessen the inconvenience they pose by every means possible, I'm glad you remain grateful to him, what you went through is nothing compared to having no one, homelessness.

Kobojunkie:
1. Nonsense! Every human being on this planet uses others. We all use each other in one way or anothr. Babies use parents to develop their place in this world, and parents use babies to grow their families. Friends use friends for emotional and mental strength... There is nothing bad about that. So stop trying to guilt the other with what are lies! 🙄🙄🙄

2. Nonsense! It isn't wrong to use people. We are meant to explore symbiotic relationships with others as opposed to parasitic relationships. 🙄🙄🙄

maasoap:
➜The only nonsense I could see here is the bolded part of your comment. Going by your comments and contributions to topics here, I wouldn't want to be anywhere near you, honestly speaking.

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

crossbreedwears:
There is nothing like having your own apartment no matter how small it is. It comes with a lot peace of mind

Ezeama400:
No, it’s not betrayal. Many people that relocated abroad don’t find it easy at early 1-5years after relocating.. To Start life afresh can drain one mentally

So many many things to sort out especially bills and debts.You don’t expect people to to sleep online replying your chat all the time when no serious issue is bn discussed ..

So many Nigerians always accuse people that migrated out of the country of having pride by not getting in touch with them the way they used to, without considering what that person is passing through

Ezeama400:
➜No, it’s not betrayal. Many people that relocated abroad don’t find it easy at early 1-5years after relocating.. To Start life afresh can drain one mentally
➜So many many things to sort out especially bills and debts.You don’t expect people to to sleep online replying your chat all the time when no serious issue is bn discussed .. So many Nigerians always accuse people that migrated out of the country of having pride by not getting in touch with them the way they used to, without considering what that person is passing through

Kobojunkie:
This is terrible reasoning!

Asuun:
“Not even enemies move like that” — Man recounts how a friend he sheltered for 9 months ghosted him after relocating abroad without a word 🥲✈️

Maliq said he never expected betrayal from someone he fed and housed during tough times. Three years later, he’s still processing the silence.



https://x.com/MasterMaliq/status/1951754152532468046?t=hWo9loDCp0Mt6AqRjcPC2A&s=19[/quote]Abroad is not straightforward like Nigeria . You don’t know what he is passing through

Asuun:
Possible Reason

While he squatted same friend, he would have also mistreated him badly and he had to endure the mistreatment. Some friends are terrible. When u start cohabiting with them, that's when you will know their true colors. I am speaking from experience. I was once squatted by a friend for two months and I saw Shege Banza in his house. He would text me to delay my coming home from work because he is Knacking a woman at home. Sometimes he will even preinform me to look for somewhere else to pass the night since his woman would be coming to sleep over for two or three days.
Na me go sweep, mop and fetch water. And I'm even five years older than him o. The day I finally got my own place, I had a relief. But I remain grateful to him.
It's well

Firebox123:
which one is that you're feel betrayed

Did you even know maybe you're better than him that live in USA

Maybe your friend is suffering in USA like that you don't even know

chi4ik4:
People are simply ungrateful. During my university days, I was the class rep, there was this big boy who never come to school, I wrote all the test, assignments and some of the exams for him. I made sure he never had any problem with any lecturer. Note: I never allowed him to pay me a dime as I did everything with all my heart. The guy never picked my calls till date after graduation because I was a poor guy. Thank God today that I'm an employer of the labour with over 25 staff. People are just wicked.

nightsaint:
The answer is simple: you are a memory he would rather forget; a period in his life he does not want to relive . Take heart, bro. That is the price you pay for helping someone in need. Sometimes, the person you helped never wants to remember the time in their life when they were vulnerable.

Fearurcreeator:
I have a friend like that then i took in then , it been 10years now he traveled,pim i no hear from him . I never maltreated him in anyway. Still didn't hear from him. I will still do it again if am capacitated. Anyhow anyone behave i dont mind. I go just do my own

Asuun:
That's the best way to handle human beings I swear. Help them but never ever expect anything from them. No even send Dem. God will reward us all.

Asuun:
Exactly bro.
I've seen shege in the hands of people

crossbreedwears:
Yea. I noticed you email me and i dont know how to access it

Asuun:
Lol.. you're funny. Just tell me u don't want to respond instead of coming up with this.

crossbreedwears:
I swear, i clicked on it and it took me to my gmail and can't find your mail. Let me check again

Asuun:
Try check well

Kobojunkie:
I definitely can't tolerate any of what you are allowing there. I can't even tolerate such from my kids, let alone friends who are adults and should know better.

Kobojunkie:
Are you OK doing 90% of the chores and 95% of the feeding for your friends? If yes, then go for it. Not everyone would be happy with such an arrangement.

SKINDOGGY:
➜I'm no longer ok with it, I have stopped. The main culprit dy comot my house this new week,

Asuun:
Try check well

crossbreedwears:
Still nothing. What's the mail all about?