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| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Neduzze5(m): 2:16pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Prec1ous:I loved reading this. Thank you so much. Quick question: Is it possible to focus on three things at once and push them everyday? |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Prec1ous(op): 2:17pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
ElevationD:The article is talking about a person that has everything but trying to everything then they give up and it feels like they are lazy. What they lack is actually focus! Focus on one thing and not many things just because you can do them. You get |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Neduzze5(m): 2:18pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
campbelljosh:Start from somewhere. What's your idea and what do you need to get it done? |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by GboyegaD(m): 2:18pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
I need to bookmark this page. I need revisit it from time to time. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Prec1ous(op): 2:19pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
doncartel:I like you. You just choose the easy way out. But we are not indians. And because you are re-incarnated to suffer, must you remain so? Think about it. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Prec1ous(op): 2:20pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
MichaelSokoto:We all did. By allowing emotions and sentiments get the best of us. That is why we need more focus. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Prec1ous(op): 2:21pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Morenikeji090:I concur! |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by ElevationD: 2:36pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Prec1ous:That’s exactly what I responded to. Take your time to read the post and make comment. I gave the example of some people whose fathers leave with properties, but are not able to manage the properties. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Prec1ous(op): 2:37pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Neduzze5:Yes, absolutely You have to implement proper time management here. The problem is that people cannot manage time. If you are learning coding, learning french and weeding your farm. If you spend 1 hour weeding your farm, you will be too tired to program or learn french. If you spend 1 hour programming, you can hit a bug that annoys you and you will do nothing for that day again. Instead, pause the others and focus on one till the end. Most times, if you finish one, the success will make you forget the others. Cheers! |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by CyracksMrBlogger(m): 2:38pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Story of my life. After reading this, I have now made my decision to be focused on growing my YouTube channel and remain consistent |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Prec1ous(op): 2:49pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
CyracksMrBlogger:Just one thing. Shiny object syndrome is killing. Focus on that youtube, even if someone says they made 2billion from blogging, ignore and focus. Unless they will show you their exact secret sauce. Focus on your channel atleast a month. That way you can even tell if it will succeed or not |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by doncartel: 2:55pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Prec1ous:I also like you. But it’s all about karma. Those enjoying life as corrupt politicians today will still come back to experience life as poor masses. Men beating women, white people oppressing black people, tall people mocking short people, humans eating animals etc. It’s fair enough. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by kay29000(m): 3:10pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
This is very powerful. Thanks for this write-up. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Morenikeji090(m): 3:11pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Good that you did… we all learn everyday and nobody knows it all… Prec1ous: |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Treasure17(m): 3:15pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
I open socials after render services and a reasonable amount have dropped into my account. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Kobojunkie: 3:39pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Prec1ous:BBcode is not the matter here. It is the suggestion that laziness is not a real thing that I was drawn to; such a claim should not be traded whether it resonates or not. ![]() |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Love800(m): 4:19pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Yea, both of you spoke well. To be frank, the two(motivation and system) is needed. Without motivation, you can't achieve your dream, and without a system(path) your motivation is useless. I have come to conclusion that many people are living without a vision. Vision is completely different from motivation and system. Vision is the first step, but many Nigerians dont see their vision because they they spend their time following the crowd. Morenikeji090: |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Love800(m): 4:27pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
To me, its possible to focus on multiple things. Am a multipurpose person and tend to achieve all that i aim for. But doing two or more things at a time is very brutal and ghastly. Very draining. It takes a powerful mental, determined and discipline person to do dis. Anyway, just stick to what the OP said. The guy is right. You can multitask, but do it one at a time. After achieving one goal then you can aim for the other. Just be consistent, don't stop moving! Neduzze5: |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by idahsy(m): 5:24pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Thank you mister u really make my day |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by 2busy: 7:27pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
Prec1ous:Thanks for this piece. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by barbadoz1610(m): 7:29pm On Aug 04, 2025 |
As good as this masterpiece found useful, one more factor needed to be consolidates with it. That's ==> "Prayer" We should not quick to forget God's factor, which comes through in the place of fervently in Prayer. I love this part of the write up, identify the season you are. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by emmanbol: 3:35am On Aug 05, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:My dear, I read this and it is making good impact within me whether it was aided with chatgpt or not. It is a good writeup |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by emmanbol: 3:35am On Aug 05, 2025 |
99thEnemy:My dear, I read this and it is making good impact within me whether it was aided with chatgpt or not. It is a good writeup.. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by emmanbol: 4:27am On Aug 05, 2025 |
barbadoz1610:While ur suggestion is good, I wanna ask: Does Elon Musk, Bill Gate, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg prayer fervently? If they don't do, then it is not really a must do. Note I believe in prayers and pray too. |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by 99thEnemy(m): 8:14am On Aug 05, 2025 |
emmanbol:You misunderstood me. I wasn't discouraging its use. In fact, AI helps in expressing ideas more clearly, and platforms like LinkedIn even promote such tools. I just meant that LLM written content usually carries certain recognizable patterns For example, the em dash used for punctuation. There's no dedicated key for it on most devices, and inserting it manually is a bit tedious, whether on phone, tablet, or PC. Hope it’s clear I wasn’t mocking its use. As long as the core idea is yours, using AI to refine it is absolutely fine.
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| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by Kobojunkie: 2:46pm On Aug 05, 2025 |
emmanbol:. I am not surprised. Or do I need to be? ![]() |
| Re: You Are Not Lazy, You Are Just Unfocused by campbelljosh(m): 12:17am On Aug 07, 2025 |
I have vast knowledge about cleaning jobs except for medical field. Hence why i decided to venture into car wash business. No fund to acquire my desired equipments. A new standard pressure machine now is nothing less than 500k. Neduzze5: |
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