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What Can She Do? by bulunton(op): 11:57pm On Aug 07, 2025*

Unfortunately the story owner wants me to take down her story. Case hereby closed. Thank you contributors.

Re: What Can She Do? by shortgun(m): 12:20am On Aug 08, 2025

bulunton:
This lady will be 9years married this year but her mil tagged her a witch at many instances to the extent her brother in laws told her girlfriend the lady is a witch and the girl went behind to let the lady know what they said behind her. The lady is very pained and questions why her husband supports his family to call her such because he never responds nor reacts but rather gets so cordial with the same brother spreading his wife in public and he says nothing. Though this husband has been supportive of the wife and provided for her but it pains her she feels defeated. This gets her really angry sometimes. Pls advise her.

@bolded shows that the man truly loves and cares for his wife.
The rivalry and jealousy between mil and wife have existed for thousands of years.
The ironic part is that this rivalry is not rooted in love for the man but in a struggle for control...each woman wanting to be the most influential figure in his life.
Most reasonable husbands see these conflicts as petty and will always choose not to take sides.
To maintain peace and balance in the family, it's usually in their best interest to remain neutral

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Re: What Can She Do? by Kobojunkie: 12:27am On Aug 08, 2025

bulunton:
This lady will be 9years married this year but her mil tagged her a witch at many instances to the extent her brother in laws told her girlfriend the lady is a witch and the girl went behind to let the lady know what they said behind her. The lady is very pained and questions why her husband supports his family to call her such because he never responds nor reacts but rather gets so cordial with the same brother spreading his wife in public and he says nothing. Though this husband has been supportive of the wife and provided for her but it pains her she feels defeated. This gets her really angry sometimes. Pls advise her.

Depends ! Ask her what she wants out of the marriage at this point.

Re: What Can She Do? by Foodqueen(f): 2:59am On Aug 08, 2025

Make she enjoy herself biko.

It's a sign that she's in control of her house and her husband loves her.

They dare not take her for granted.

Re: What Can She Do? by chatinent: 4:25am On Aug 08, 2025

Anyone labelling someone a witch is the witch, whether a fcking mother-in-law or jobless siblings-in-laws.

For me, come my face come talk am, I go surprise you ...no matter how highly respected dem dey respect you.

Re: What Can She Do? by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:09am On Aug 08, 2025

The best thing to do is to divorce the husband

Re: What Can She Do? by delugadou(m): 7:56am On Aug 08, 2025

bulunton:
This lady will be 9years married this year but her mil tagged her a witch at many instances to the extent her brother in laws told her girlfriend the lady is a witch and the girl went behind to let the lady know what they said behind her. The lady is very pained and questions why her husband supports his family to call her such because he never responds nor reacts but rather gets so cordial with the same brother spreading his wife in public and he says nothing. Though this husband has been supportive of the wife and provided for her but it pains her she feels defeated. This gets her really angry sometimes. Pls advise her.

If her husband dies young, she will know that hell is on earth.

Tell her to start planning for life without a husband. Save good money and start growing a business or career that can foot her bills. The future doesn't look rosy

Re: What Can She Do? by bulunton(op): 8:35am On Aug 08, 2025

delugadou:
If her husband dies young, she will know that hell is on earth.

Tell her to start planning for life without a husband. Save good money and start growing a business or career that can foot her bills. The future doesn't look rosy

God forbid her husband will not die young IJMN

Re: What Can She Do? by Kobojunkie: 12:23pm On Aug 08, 2025

bulunton:
✓ God forbid her husband will not die young IJMN

Storyland! 🥱🥱🥱

Pastors dey lose spouses including children and other relatives despite their numerous IJN incantations dem dey mention. Death is a respecter of no man and no schedule. 🙄🙄🙄🙄

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