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Reduce or if possible for you, stop the consumption of sugary and junk stuff.

Take Banana, Watermelon, Tigernut (Aya), Coconut, Dates (Dabino) instead and also, stop thinking too much about your recent past performance. Just free your mind off worries and you will get better with time.

If you have the funds do a full body test, check for your testosterone levels and others, check for infection, do a semen analysis after that treat completely with the recommended treatment and backup with reliable herb( don't go and kill your organs with anyhow herbs Sha).
If you are a faithful married man avoid this one, you can sample a different PC and ensure it's not anxiety after the treatment but ignore if you are faithful.

Bros, no kill yourself over sey you want to satisfy a woman for bed. Do you 60 seconds and leave the rest. Preferably dey use your tongue and fingers.

Mynd44 I no see you for church today. Wetin happen?

NewPee44:
I learned women are easily proned to infection, that's why I ruled out tongue aspects

tongue massage is the sweetest. Put condom for your tongue and see how e be.

NewPee44:
Actually, I don't smoke, and I don't drink. But back then, I take sugary things, like sugarcane, and soda drinks

you should have taken that into consideration and marry a sugarcane baby.

spafu:
Sometimes we have to learn the Art and Science of Love makeing to be able to satisfy the other person.

Prof has spoken. Tuale baba. End of discussion.

franugo:
The first orgasm is usually like that, within 2-10mins, especially when you're very excited, your wife should see it as a compliment really . Now after the first orgasm tho is when shit gets done, na when your d no fit stand after first orgasm gbege dey start. As a young man, you should be able to go at least twice a session. Alternatively, you could learn how to pleasure your lady with your tongue and fingers, most ladies orgasm by clitoral stimulation not penetration

You know the Koko. Like I told someone, the first round is for you, the second round is for your woman.

Explanation for the uninitiated: the first round is so pleasurable that you cum within minutes. The second round however, is for madam. At this stage, the pleasure had dropped so you can sustain a much longer erection.

@ op. Few words of advice.
Exercise to increase you testosterone.
Don't rely on drugs. It will damage you in the long run.
You can also make you wife stay on top for the first round. This position can make you Last longer as it takes greater effort for you cum to flow against gravity.
Most importantly, relax. Do your best and leave the rest

Topbrass:
You know the Koko. Like I told someone, the first round is for you, the second round is for your woman.

Explanation for the uninitiated: the first round is so pleasurable that you cum within minutes. The second round however, is for madam. At this stage, the pleasure had dropped so you can sustain a much longer erection.

@ op. Few words of advice.
Exercise to increase you testosterone.
Don't rely on drugs. It will damage you in the long run.
You can also make you wife stay on top for the first round. This position can make you Last longer as it takes greater effort for you cum to flow against gravity.
Most importantly, relax. Do your best and leave the rest

Awesome advice on the wife being on top. When the lady is riding while the I lay down, I've noticed it takes much longer for me to get there, great spot!

NewPee44:
Good day Nairalanders,

I seriously need your help to save my marriage.
I will be very brief with my story.

I am a newly wedded man. Before I got married, I usually take soda (Coke, Fata and big cola) drinks a lot, sometimes I take 2 bottles a day. Back then I assumed that since my work is so stressful, the soda will nor have much effect.

Fast forward to few months of my wedding, I stopped drinking soda.

Surprisingly, my P*nis could not stand properly for almost a week, I had to visit a local herb seller for Agbo. After few days, it started working again.
Fast forward to few days ago, I realised that I cum as quickly as 2minutes or less. The present situation is making me restless.

Please kindly advise on what I can use to get back myself.

You just want to kill, yourself early by taking unhealthy items.,

Simple food like Garri, fruits like bittercola.. solves this issue..

Then seek medical care visit your doctor..

Exercise more .

Relax your mind too ...

Some kpekus are so soft ,tight and slippery... So you can't help but come too early.. its natural...

What you need is stamina to continue what you started .

I hope this helps...

My note is concentrated on married couples.

Goodluck to night

SisterAnn:
Omo see comments ooo🤣


Men supporting men! 😆😆😄😃🤣

Wetin u want make dem do?

The truest truth anyone can say about a woman!

aribisala0:
What this means is you are immature and don't know women
So what if the woman cheats ? That is a problem a mature man man must overgrow
It is insecurity
If you genuinely believe that screwing a woman will stop her cheating
The question is will that stop a man ? Woman are no different
Most women do not get orgasm having sex with men most of the time and often they fake orgasm
So don't deceive yourself that you are good in bed
More than half of the women out there have been raped and their heads are messed up they know how to please themselves they use men mostly for resources and validation I would say less than 1in 100 women have orgasms with men and some never do
It is very important to understand women the way they really are not by assumptions
Bleep them pay them move on . If you are married never believe you own her
After sometime one person will get tired of the other that is human nature
If you have a psychological fear of women cheating see a therapist
Most women cheat
Digest that
everywhere they are all the same just like men
stop pedestalizing women

The moment you even try to keep a woman loyal by sex you are lost
Will you be carrying weight till you are 70
Women stay loyal because of consequences not sex
If you don't have financial power over a woman she will leave you after 10 to 20 years
And I say what is wrong with that ?
Times have changed don't deceive yourself all women are oloshos deep down

DaddyCash:
The truest truth anyone can say about a woman!

Women are even more competitive than men
The thing a woman desires most is that other women bow for her kneel for her and she is on top of other WOMEN

That is more important to them than sex. Any man who can give a woman that is God

All the fake hair nails and so on is not for men it is competition with other WOMEN

And so even with men women want the man who gives her that dominance not sex

Engage in pre-intimacy. Let her suck you and make you come first, before you go in.

Alternatively, take Guinness Extra Smooth... When the intoxication clear, knack her. You'll be surprised at how long you'll last

Were you not having sex with her before marriage?

There is a thread here on Nairaland that can help you

E2000:
Were you not having sex with her before marriage?

I was a celibate actually

Saviola86:
Have frequent sex. Your penis sensors will get used to that thrusting and believe me to cum will be hard.

Moreso it takes the body sometimes to refill the sperm so imagine having sex in the morning and night you ask for it again it will take forever to cum.

I think you and your partner do not have regular sex which gives your body time to quickly refill the sperm and ready to be released.

We don't really practice sex often.

munezo:
Go and buy this drug, take one in the morning and one in the night, you will fire like a stallion.

Thank you for sharing,
I will give it a trial

Advocate1810:
I will advise you to go for testosterone and prolactin test, I once had same issue.

This advice is well appreciated.
The problem is that getting a proper medical attention in Nigeria will require one to visit expensive private hospitals. The government own are just too non challant, especially their staff

flokii:
@OP In all you do, avoid sex enhancement drugs, tea or herbs. Those things will mess you up and even worsen the problem on the long run.
Try to change your diet from junks and soft drinks to fruits and vegetables.. you can do smoothie with banana and nuts, your performance will change. Also, exercise regularly, walking is a good form of exercise most people don't know.

For your own safety, avoid sex enhancement drugs. A living dog is better than a dead lion. Ire o.

Well noted. Thanks for this advice

Check your high blood pressure…incorporate beets supplement, do test for infections and blood work to see if you have deficiencies. Be careful with unregulated Agbo…kidney failure is real. Keep us posted

NewPee44:
Good day Nairalanders,

I seriously need your help to save my marriage.
I will be very brief with my story.

I am a newly wedded man. Before I got married, I usually take soda (Coke, Fata and big cola) drinks a lot, sometimes I take 2 bottles a day. Back then I assumed that since my work is so stressful, the soda will nor have much effect.

Fast forward to few months of my wedding, I stopped drinking soda.

Surprisingly, my P*nis could not stand properly for almost a week, I had to visit a local herb seller for Agbo. After few days, it started working again.
Fast forward to few days ago, I realised that I cum as quickly as 2minutes or less. The present situation is making me restless.

Please kindly advise on what I can use to get back myself.

Cum4me:
then do your best and leave sugar for at list a year. Eat a lot of bitter cola with enough water and watch the difference

what if his sugar level becomes low? Una funny 😁 sha. Aboki wey dey eat plenty sugar, who last in bed pass dem? Low sugar is killing people every day. Be warned ⚠️

NewPee44:
We don't really practice sex often.

That is the reason for the quick ejaculation.

Your body sensors are already hyper active and sperms fully refilled, so once you go in after a long while you may not last 2mins.

But when you have it let's say 3 days regularly twice daily. You may go 30mins and won't cum at all. Even sex will not interest U cos U will be tired

NewPee44:
This advice is well appreciated.
The problem is that getting a proper medical attention in Nigeria will require one to visit expensive private hospitals. The government own are just too non challant, especially their staff

Exactly what happened to me when I went to Ahmadu Bello teaching Hospital, the best is to go Private lab to do the test, you can add full prostrate test to the ones you want to do. May Almighty God heal and be with you.

You are correct, that's the side effect

shedy03:
Na d headache it gives I no like.