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We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Go herbal, blocked fallopian tube would be opened in no time. Nature is the greatest healer

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

I understand how you feel bro... But, first calm down.
It is not as bad as it sounds... You both just have to determine to work through this challenges together.
First and foremost, go and register for a comprehensive HMO (choose a package that covers major surgery). This will greatly reduce the medical bills and make things easier for both of you.
Discuss with the gynaecologist on the best way to proceed with the necessary medications and surgery then go for it.

Your wife needs you now more than ever before... You can reach out for moral support at anytime and any day by just mentioning me in your comments.

I wish you all the best and the strength to weather the storm!!!

Paulpaulpaul:
Go herbal, blocked fallopian tube would be opened in no time. Nature is the greatest healer

Thank You for this, Please do you have any Reliable Herbal fertility treatment or contact That works? I'll really appreciate it.

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KobeMan:
Thank You for this, Please do you have any Reliable Herbal fertility treatment or contact That works? I'll really appreciate it.

Where is your location?

Paulpaulpaul:
Where is your location?

Lagos

dawnomike:
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Your wife needs you now more than ever before...

Baba is down with his mental health impaired, and limited resources that isn't enough to for all this fertility issues.....
But His wife needs him ??Who does he need?? Abi man nor need help.??

dawnomike:
I understand how you feel bro... But, first calm down.
It is not as bad as it sounds... You both just have to determine to work through this challenges together.
First and foremost, go and register for a comprehensive HMO (choose a package that covers major surgery). This will greatly reduce the medical bills and make things easier for both of you.
Discuss with the gynaecologist on the best way to proceed with the necessary medications and surgery then go for it.

Your wife needs you now more than ever before... You can reach out for moral support at anytime and any day by just mentioning me in your comments.

I wish you all the best and the strength to weather the storm!!!

Thanks for the encouragement & motivation. She's is a Civil Servant at the Federal Level She's has a functioning HMO/NHIS package, I'll make enquiries if it covers Major sugery & We'll reach out to the gynecologist for further steps. Well, Noted, Thanks once again.

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

I feel for your situation.

But prayer works brother.
Look up to God in prayers and believe for a breakthrough

As bad as it is,you should carefully weigh your options...this journey will test your mental, emotional and financial strength.

Find a traditional birth attendant to help you...don't give up! Ask your wife to stop crying let her use that energy to find those traditional women to help her. It will be sorted out. Let her be discreet about it especially to her family & friends so that there won't be room for doubts...because you guys need a lot of that positive energy to thrive & win together

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Bro talk to Bridge clinic, they have an installment payment structure.

dawnomike:
I understand how you feel bro... But, first calm down.
It is not as bad as it sounds... You both just have to determine to work through this challenges together.
First and foremost, go and register for a comprehensive HMO (choose a package that covers major surgery). This will greatly reduce the medical bills and make things easier for both of you.
Discuss with the gynaecologist on the best way to proceed with the necessary medications and surgery then go for it.

Your wife needs you now more than ever before... You can reach out for moral support at anytime and any day by just mentioning me in your comments.

I wish you all the best and the strength to weather the storm!!!

Thank you. You have said it all. If this guy follows this advice of yours, he won't regret it.


In addition, those advising him to go traditional are his greatest enemies.

Follow Dawnomike's comment above.

There are actually worst cases of infertility than yours. With the right steps, this can be addressed. Imagine if it were to be severe case of PCOS or non obstructive azoospermia(no sperm cells), it would have been a different ball game.

Please and please, don't go into traditional medicine. You will waste your time,money and probably expose your wife to harm. They usual preach things like delivering fibroid without surgery or making it to shrink with herbs, na scam.

All will be well brother.

dawnomike:
I understand how you feel bro... But, first calm down.
It is not as bad as it sounds... You both just have to determine to work through this challenges together.
First and foremost, go and register for a comprehensive HMO (choose a package that covers major surgery). This will greatly reduce the medical bills and make things easier for both of you.
Discuss with the gynaecologist on the best way to proceed with the necessary medications and surgery then go for it.

Your wife needs you now more than ever before... You can reach out for moral support at anytime and any day by just mentioning me in your comments.

I wish you all the best and the strength to weather the storm!!!

You are a great guy. Smart suggestion too. God bless you

Marry second wife
Marry second wife
Marry second wife

It's cheaper..

Don't carry another person daughter matter on your head.. the journey you about to start is long. Best to give up now

You married and you decided to wait 1 year to be finding baby, I sense manipulation in that statement. Your wife knew she can't have babies and was manipulating you.

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Try the God of Bishop David Oyedepo

You are too much in a hurry. You married last year and you are already worried about "serious fertility issue" after you both agreed not to have a child in the first year? Please read what you wrote.

You can't impregnate her with this state of mind when you are in a hurry. As the man, you are the one to be calming the waters and assuring her and yourself that it will come soon. Bro, go and relax. You don't need any advice, you're just in a hurry to write your book of life. This is how life humbles everyone. By the way, you never told us how old she was because you know the older the woman, the more serious her fertility issue is, using your own serious words.

I know it is not easy but if you can...try and be supportive. She needs you more than anyone else....

Put yourself in her condition, if the medical test had shown you are the one with a problem, how would you want her to react or treat you??

My prayer is that God will visit you..either with a miracle or with plenty help or money to carry out the surgery.

Watch how SIMPS will be advising the man to be strong that "his wife needs him more than ever".

If reverse was the case, I doubt any woman would have advised their fellow gender to do the same.

Anyways, unless it's a court wedding, I don't think this issue is up for debate. Me I'll first secure my future by impregnating another woman outside while I and my wife continue to search for her own fruit of the womb.

Please calm down.
May she should operate it and do the birth later.
You guys may have caused it by not been pregnant on time.

Oga, do you believe in the miracle working power of God?

That will determine whether your story remains a lamentation or turns to a testimony.

Enter any Winners' Chapel near you on Sunday, there is a special healing service going on, and sort your issue out with the God of all flesh.

In case you are commited in your local church already, no wahala, enter into agreement with your wife, and dedicate just three days fasting and prayer to the issue; you will celebrate by this time next year.

I await your testimony.

If you have any question, message me.

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

(1) Just settle down and give yoir life truthfully to Christ Jesus and make Him yoir Lord and Saviour. Both you and your wife. Then live righteously. Pray together in love.


(2) Try and get that herbal drink called Jinja extracts for your wife and let her start taking it.

Fibroid?

Dude why didn't you do medical scan before you married her?

Oga don't waste your time jumping from one herbal centre to the other. Just get yourself a second wife and have children in peace. Besides you're the only son and generations is expected to come out from you

KobeMan:
I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Maturity is when you realise that in living your own life, you owe no one anything and no one owes you. You seem to still be living in the frame of other people's expectations without realizing that putting yourself first above your own expectation will take you far in life. Or else, you will continue to be a slave to people's changing demands in life. Be a man! This is your family, take care of your wife and stop worrying. When they say 'be a man', there's a lot to it. I don't buy into this feminine culture they are brainwashing men into today and saying mental wealth or health. Women themselves want men that are firm, courageous and confident. This is the time to be reassuring and man up, not ranting online. Every man will face his own challenge in life, it's how you react to it that matters.

I am not writing any nice words to you, man up. There's nothing you have written that is new or has not happened to someone else. Instead of you to learn from other people's experiences and weather the storm, you are busy gathering storm with pressure.

Start looking for a solution as soon as you possibly can

KobeMan:
We married A Year ago. We decided to wait for a year before having kids. We started trying 3 few months but no success. I told both of us needs to get tested. I did Sperm Analysis & the result is good, I'm very fertile.

She did pelvic scan, and in the scan, She has fibroid (Submocousal fibroid 5.5cm). The news broke me and I was very sad, I never imagined I'll be in this kind of situation. We went to the gynecologist and He told us to go for HSG to check her fallopian tube, The result showed that Both Tubes are blocked. Or if the gynaecologist advises otherwise u can get a surrogate.

I've not been myself for the last couple of days. I had to pretend to be strong because She was down & has been crying as well. This are two serious fertility issues and Her chances of conception is very low. Even if The gynecologist tells us to do the IVF(Which I don't even have money for it cause it's vey expensive) They'll still have to remove the fibroid.

This are very expensive procedures that are not even guaranteed that it will work and She will conceive. I'm the only male child in my family, in my early 30's. Pressure will start coming from all directions and also considering my my age, I don't pray to experience delay with child birth. I just decided to pour own my mind here. I'm really down, I don't know what to do.

Start saving for ivf with 2.5 m u can have it done don't waste money jumping from hospital to hospital or going fo this herb or that herb..don't worry ur wife should be able to carry the pregnancy.