₦airaland Forum

casualobserver:
most men end up ignored later by the wife and children in life despite having children wherasmost women end up being looked after by their children

Most men who live to old age die miserable and with regret despite having children because they didnt prioritize themselves.

Chopbeleful100:
See what all this ones are saying,ok let us turn the table upside down can that woman start paying for the children upkeep

cococandy:
Oh I wonder why. Probably has nothing to do with them thinking they don’t have a nurturing role in the family.

casualobserver:
A mans role is not nurturing, a man's role is to provide, structure, security and provide direction. stop trying to feminise men!

modern women want to abandon their roles eat their cake and have it, no wonder society is falling apart!

Drenix:
Once you are having an Issue with someone and the only thing that person could say is okay and nod his or her head. Forget it. 🤐🤐🤐🤐

casualobserver:
A mans role is not nurturing, a man's role is to provide financially, give security , provide structure, and provide direction. stop trying to feminise men!

modern women want to abandon their roles eat their cake and have it, no wonder society is falling apart!

Zeebuy:
Na so nah

Sonnobax15:

You told a woman your plans, unknowingly to you she had got similar but deeper plans than yours . The worst of it all is the fact that her family in Nigeria aren't even responding, meaning they had always been part and parcel of her plan right from the onset

Well,he should kindly accept his new fate and adapt to his new chieftaincy title of --"Single dad"and move on with his life..

cococandy:
Na you dey fight yourself.

You said men are not supposed to be nurturing.
In the same paragraph, you’re lamenting how your kids will abandon you in old age. You have no one but yourself to blame for that.

Be “masculine” all you want in exchange for a lonely old age. Your choice.

But I’ll have you know that real masculine men dote on and nurture their children as well. And in exchange, they don’t have to worry about being abandoned in old age.

blaise26abj:
Single dad of 5 . Shey he thinks he is smart . Nice move by the woman . The woman even returned to Nigeria . Sharp woman . She can start fresh and on a new slate . After all the kids are his too . Later the kids will always find their mama no matter what he tells them .

On a lighter note , the woman is strong sha . Women generally cannot easily do what she did

descarado:
Na ndi alpha male association, Nigerian branch.

blaise26abj:
Single dad of 5 . Shey he thinks he is smart . Nice move by the woman . The woman even returned to Nigeria . Sharp woman . She can start fresh and on a new slate . After all the kids are his too . Later the kids will always find their mama no matter what he tells them .

On a lighter note , the woman is strong sha . Women generally cannot easily do what she did .

Mariangeles:
Na why some men think say them fit take advantage.

The children will be alright.
After all, they're with daddy.☺️

cococandy:
Na you dey fight yourself.

You said men are not supposed to be nurturing.
In the same paragraph, you’re lamenting how your kids will abandon you in old age. You have no one but yourself to blame for that.

Be “masculine” all you want in exchange for a lonely old age. Your choice.

But I’ll have you know that real masculine men dote on and nurture their children as well. And in exchange, they don’t have to worry about being abandoned in old age.

JovialJune:
I'm elated 😆

Women should make it a habit to be the visiting parent. In cases of divorce, women should let husband have sole custody and pay for child support, the tide has to turn so that men must understand the sacrifice women do for their kids.

cococandy:
Little do they real alpha male are soft and gentle towards their children

descarado:
Tell that to the court. This is not Nigeria.parenting is 50/50.
We can see how a man's security and financial roles have shaped Nigeria. Pathetic