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Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Nobody: 7:01pm On Aug 15, 2025
I watched a video recently where ladies were complaining during an interactive session in a church youth program that the young men in the church rarely approach them for a marital relationship nowadays.

Some years back, religion centres like churches were the top spot were eligible bachelors search for their conjugal partners because it was widely believe that marrying a lady from the church means marrying someone with not just good character but Godly character justifying what the Bible said that he who found a wife have found a good thing and obtained favour from our good Lord (Proverbs 18:22).

Currently many single men will say 'God forbid' if you tell them about going to church to look for a wife and the big question is WHY?

Over the past years many men who married ladies they only knew within the church community have regretted doing so. While some of these marriages crashed in a very dangerous manner, some men are living in pains because they married a devil disguised as an angel.

Because the church and Christianity preaches about forgiveness which comes with deep emotion and forgetting past dirty deeds, a lot of evil ladies have taken advantage of the Christianity teaching of forgiveness.

That lady with 10 - 20 active experience on the street as a commercial sex worker who later become an active chorister, the one who spent her prime age jumping from one married man, sugar daddy to another and she's now a leader of the evangelism and prayer unit, the drug addict who have worked as an Intel for criminals, the hooker who was passed from one men to another and she's now a chief usher that's always punctual in church activities - these are not miracles or coincidence rather there are either a well conceived game plan or due to what I called the LEFT OVER CONDITION.

Ever wonder why a lady will present herself as a baddie to the man she met on the streets or in a club and present herself as a decent and spotless person to the man she met in the church ?

That lady who sells her body at a given price to anybody on the street will suddenly turn to a decent lady when a man from her church approach her for sex - telling the man she need a marriage proposal before sex

Another question is:
Why do street ladies not present themselves as wife material to the men on the streets who are aware of their escapades? Why always church men?

Church leaders also encourage this scam act by highly encouraging or sometimes enforcing single men to marry any lady who's a church member without digging of her past because she's now a born again.

There's this saying amongst our ladies:
'Na bad girls dey marry better husband pass the good girls' .
This is a big lie because no man will want to marry a bad wife except in some cases of mutual benefits for instance a drug dealer marrying a street hooker that will help him scale the streets and so on. The reason good men fall into the hands of bad women is due to manipulations which Christianity religion is a major manipulative tool evil ladies use to manipulate good men into marriage.

Church leaders should stop encouraging their single men to marry 'any lady' provided she's born again and committed to church activities.

Even though Christianity preaches forgiveness, the past shouldn't be over-looked as it is the operating system of a lady.

Single and responsible men in the church are not ordained to marry left over ladies that have been used, re-used, over-used and discarded by many men

Sermon's over
Peace.
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Blitzking: 8:46pm On Aug 15, 2025
Na hookers dey go church pass and dem no dey miss am.this thing baffles me.
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Jashub: 8:47pm On Aug 15, 2025
I wish I could double like your post ; you're seriously on point .
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Nobody: 9:00pm On Aug 15, 2025
Blitzking:
Na hookers dey go church pass and dem no dey miss am.this thing baffles me.
I remember some years ago, there's this full-time hooker I had her phone number and when I saw her Facebook profile from friend's suggestion, all her posts on Facebook, I mean from beginning to the end was about God, church, Bible portions etc.
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Nobody: 10:04pm On Aug 15, 2025
Jashub:
I wish I could double like your post ; you're seriously on point .
Well done bro
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Nobody: 11:54pm On Aug 16, 2025
Nlfpmod
Take a look at this sermon
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by Nobody: 3:29pm On Aug 30, 2025
Blitzking:
Na hookers dey go church pass and dem no dey miss am.this thing baffles me.
Church is now the retiring place for almost all the hook up and OS ladies
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by NewsPilot: 11:55pm On Sep 13, 2025
Church is a place where people aren't or cannot be held accountable for their actions and a place where logic cannot be applied.

You aren't expected to judge anyone's action irrespective of their action and because this ladies knows this, they take full advantage of it.

The jump around, damaged themselves and when they are done, they enter the nearest church and one finished man will approach them for marriage because old things are past away.

Young men especially single men please be careful out there
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by NewsPilot: 12:11am On Sep 14, 2025
Blitzking:
Na hookers dey go church pass and dem no dey miss am.this thing baffles me.
They are the wolves in sheep's clothing
Re: Dear Church Leaders, Your Single Male Members Are Not For Left Overs by PulcherGee(m): 4:37pm On Oct 12, 2025
Blitzking:
Na hookers dey go church pass and dem no dey miss am.this thing baffles me.
Because they know the church doesn't judge
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