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The issue is that as long as you want kids, having a baby mama is equally problematic

Myrepublic:
Wetin really dey marriage these days? Since good moral are now going into extinction in the society, marriage is no longer what it used to be. If not for children,me sef for no bother at all. The heart of ladies these days is so wic ked

You are absolutely right the ladies are just exhibiting some of the signs of the end times which the bible talked about where it was stated that humans will be lovers of themselves rather than lovers of God or his ways I have since come to realize that there's actually nothing anyone can do to change the current situation it will only get worse as time progresses.

Marriage is useless.

Marriage is now a useless venture, it kills and rob you ur peace

Toke talk pass this. See who don carry bele. Follow internet advisers at your own risk.

Myrepublic:
Wetin really dey marriage these days? Since good moral are now going into extinction in the society, marriage is no longer what it used to be. If not for children,me sef for no bother at all. The heart of ladies these days is so wic ked

When you step up they fear you. .. Since you know Killer of man is woman. What will a reasonable somebody do ?

xtianchris:
When you step up they fear you. .. Since you know Killer of man is woman. What will a reasonable somebody do ?

No woman fears you oh,she might just respect you at the beginning,but as soon as she has giving you kids,see finish go enter.. Most men don't have peace of mind in their homes,even we the money they have. That is why most of them travel up and down, telling you they traveled for business. They are running from madam wahala at home.

No matter how you step up,you can never win her o.. except you want a broken home or maybe you married a numu who will say yes to anything you tell her..

Social media and wanna be Western lifestyle has damaged majority of the ladies and men. Ladies are now men,while men are now ladies when it comes to power in relationships

stampo:
Could he be Gabriel

This kind talk shock me .

Just imagine

Even Gabriels marry for cover up.
Some also marry fellow Gabriels.

So I don't see reason with your question.
In his own case he doesn't want to marry at all. It has nothing to do with orientation.

Like I said even Gabriels marry every Saturday 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. So marriage does not make you a straight man.

brain54:
It's clearly stated there were he said "for him"...

Meaning he wasn't generalizing!

He also added "Marriage is not for me. "My happiness depends on my financial stability”

Make una dey take am easy!

don't be surprised if you hear him getting married next month

It's like Fame and fortune has eaten your brains up..for you to open your mouth to say that.
This is what God has Instituted right from origin.

Relationship no favour man ,talk more of marriage.
Women have absolutely nothing to offer in a relationship.It’s what you can provide that ultimately determines how you’d be respected.

They know what they are doing and would leave you once your financial life is in a shambles.

Asides from having offspring ,I don’t think marriage is worth it anymore.Ask your lawyer friend and they’d tell you how divorce cases have become a norm in their profession.Stay woke my manchis!

GOFRONT:
Hanty Linda I.K talk pass this one...........Along d line, Hanty carry belle.

As she carry belle, dem talk say she marry? All these small gen z children on Nairaland these days sha. You don't know the difference between being married and having a child, since when dem talk say na only person wey marry fit born?

Mrexcell:
End times spirit he doesn't want to marry but want to be fornicating.

Define endtime make I see

Make we dey see...since una feel say,waiting happen for another person own go happen for una own.....well am enjoying my marriage with my beautiful wife....the wife of my youth .....August 10th made it 19 years I knw my wife and 4 years in marriage.......if u like marry,if u no like stay ur stay,no come change mouth dat time ...tell us say no be waiting u talk...like our politicians way go talk something finish come back come tell us say they were misquoted .....fine a good wife or husband and enjoy your home...I grow up with my wife....she is the best.....a little advice that has helped me grow in marriage " there is different btw Wife and girlfriend.....no carry your wife like girl friend,and no carry your girl friend like your wife......even in men too....some guys are just boyfriend....not husband ,and some husband are just boy friend...some understands the meaning of love and respect,understanding,communication,care and affections .....while some don't.....good women are out there...good men are out there too.

stasius:
Even Gabriels marry for cover up.
Some also marry fellow Gabriels.

So I don't see reason with your question.
In his own case he doesn't want to marry at all. It has nothing to do with orientation.

Like I said even Gabriels marry every Saturday 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. So marriage does not make you a straight man.

It's over 3 years I heard dude is gay from a source I dare to say it's reliable.
So I'm not really surprised.

Industreet gaybriel. If u know u know

U sabi. D guy na industreet gaybriel

MARKETfund:
It's over 3 years I heard dude is gay from a source I dare to say it's reliable.
So I'm not really surprised.

People have been made to believe marriage is some divine decree, written in the stars or sealed by the heavens. It is not. Marriage is simply people deciding to live together under a shared agreement. That’s all. No cosmic stamp. No eternal law. Just an arrangement that humans created.

But over time, it was dressed in rules, rituals, and pressures—until refusing to marry became a mark of shame. Many now enter marriage without knowing themselves, without even asking whether they can coexist with anyone long-term. And yet, we keep pretending it’s the natural order of things.

Marriage may help build pockets of society, but it does not, on its own, raise children. A community raises children. A society raises children. Marriage has merely been inflated into a badge of responsibility, so that avoiding it makes you “irresponsible.” That is a lie we have swallowed for generations.

You must ask yourself—do I actually want to marry, or am I just ticking a box the culture handed me? Age, money, tradition—none of these are reasons. Marriage is not compulsory. It is not sacred. It is not divine. It is human—fragile, flawed, and entirely optional.

Spot on

Let me remind him with this song;


Life is one big party when you are stil young, but whose gonna rub your back when that is all gone?

Marriage is gradually going into extinction.

Commitment is very hard to find nowadays.

He has sense.
Most women will rob you of your peace, you will also use your money to provide, she will nag you. She becomes your responsibility and you hardly have time for people that supported you to become successful. Some of them dont even want you to pamper your parents and siblings-The same people that will take care of you without complaining if you ever become sick and need support for daily living.
The idea of marriage(to modern Nigerian ladies especially) is increasingly becoming pointless for a successful man.

This guy is just like me, I also don't have plans for marriage whatsoever.

babztee:
Relationship no favour man ,talk more of marriage.
Women have absolutely nothing to offer in a relationship.It’s what you can provide that ultimately determines how you’d be respected.

They know what they are doing and would leave you once your financial life is in a shambles.

Asides from having offspring ,I don’t think marriage is worth it anymore.Ask your lawyer friend and they’d tell you how divorce cases have become a norm in their profession.Stay woke my manchis!

you said it all in one post...even relationship no favour man... I ended my last relationship early this year and I no longer see the need of jumping into another.

Batman2412:
Why buy a cow when you can get the milk for free?

Did you say free? How?

What about the money for transport, recharge card, hair, makeup, school fees etc a man gives to a woman? Is that free.

Every that is in a relationship with a Nigerian woman spends money. So don't say he is getting the milk free please.

scrupulousblog:
Did you say free? How?

What about the money for transport, recharge card, hair, makeup, school fees etc a man gives to a woman? Is that free.

Every that is in a relationship with a Nigerian woman spends money. So don't say he is getting the milk free please.

sincerely,relationship is not free. It's relatively cheaper to rent( relationship ) her than to buy(marry) her.

pocohantas:
Did Chike use these exact words?
He is not one to speak anyhow, but if he did, he should know how to say some things in a professional manner given he performs mostly for newly weds.

Anyway, I love how the comments here are supportive. Let's keep this energy when it is a woman. Thank you.

"I love the woman I am becoming" and "independent woman". No be today we don dey hear am from plenty women.
Lol

Myrepublic:
No woman fears you oh,she might just respect you at the beginning,but as soon as she has giving you kids,see finish go enter.. Most men don't have peace of mind in their homes,even we the money they have. That is why most of them travel up and down, telling you they traveled for business. They are running from madam wahala at home.

No matter how you step up,you can never win her o.. except you want a broken home or maybe you married a numu who will say yes to anything you tell her..

Social media and wanna be Western lifestyle has damaged majority of the ladies and men. Ladies are now men,while men are now ladies when it comes to power in relationships

You talk from a Canal point of View. It's like you haven't met responsible ladies for relationship.. Have a woman who would impact in your life .. You Better redefine your search and be purposeful . Try to structure yourself and everything fall in place. ..If you wanan dine with the devil use a long spoon .The man is the price. If you no stand well you fall.

TheWolfen:
"I love the woman I am becoming" and "independent woman". No be today we don dey hear am from plenty women.
Lol

It is not about hearing it.

It is about supporting it as we have seen on this thread. Don't call them feminist, bitter or threaten with Shiloh and menopause.