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Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Chilipepper(op): 6:43pm On Aug 18, 2025
Mothers-in-law destroy marriages more than the couples themselves - Nigerian lawyer says

Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 6:45pm On Aug 18, 2025
Chilipepper:
Mothers-in-law destroy marriages more than the couples themselves - Nigerian lawyer says
This I wholly disagree with! 🥱🥱🥱

Marriage has always been between a man and a woman. It is the husband/wife whose mother it is that allows his/her mother to destroy the marriage that the blame lies with—not the outsider to the marriage. undecided
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Thundafireseun: 6:47pm On Aug 18, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This I disagree with! It is the husband/wife whose mother it is that allows his/her mother to destroy the marriage. The blame remains with the man or woman, not the outsider to the marriage. undecided
You are obviously not married and you don’t have married people as friends
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Aug 18, 2025
Thundafireseun:
You are obviously not married and you don’t have married people as friends
See dem.... always looking for avenues to shift blame onto others, right? If you are not able to accept responsibility for your decisions in life, then you are simply not mature enough for marriage and other adult decisions in life. huh
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by brain54(m): 6:50pm On Aug 18, 2025
Na mu² dey let mother and father in-law destroy their marriage...
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by wellmax(m): 9:21pm On Aug 19, 2025
That for those of you who married children of devils.



My mother in law is one of the sweetest person on earth.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by cr7lomo: 9:22pm On Aug 19, 2025
Women are the real problem of social society ... they are so selfish and only want what benefits them... they are only loyal to their emotions. . Women don't know how to be selfless, compassionate, sacrificing and loving towards what they wudnt benefit from.... reason women don't help anyone , unlike men ... Or have u ever seen a female celeb uplift anyone , like their male counterparts do
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by wellmax(m): 9:22pm On Aug 19, 2025
Chilipepper:
Mothers-in-law destroy marriages more than the couples themselves - Nigerian lawyer says
She’s prolly talking about MILs from her tribe. They do that a lot.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by tunapawizzy: 9:22pm On Aug 19, 2025
-Na still woman
-mother of husband o
-mother of wife o
-this gender is not beating the accusation
-if its not the mother of husband trying to compete with the wife of her son
-it will be the mother of the wife pushing her daughter to take one unfair action against the husband
-the young girl that everybody is supporting against her troublesome mother-in-law today will become a monster for the girl that will marry/date her own son tomorrow
That gender no like peace.
-If husband and wife are peacefully living in harmony, managing their challenge and growing together, there will be one woman somewhere(whether mum in law, or friend or sister of husband/wife or one jezebel in the form of family member or friend) sowing seeds of destruction/distrust on the mind of either the husband or wife
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by SmartPolician: 9:23pm On Aug 19, 2025
Mothers find it extremely difficult letting another woman enjoy their sons' money after they have suffered for them for decades, forgetting they were once someone else's wives 😀😀😀

Truth be told, the fight between mothers-in-law and wives will never end because mothers know that nobody can love their sons the way they do.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Lanruze: 9:24pm On Aug 19, 2025
My neighbour divorced his wife immediately he lost his mother.

The wife went on Social Media - Facebook specifically and wrote an epistle that God has cleared her tears and seen her hidden prayers.

The Man told her he was no longer interested in the marriage and has not picked her call for 8 years.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by maik: 9:26pm On Aug 19, 2025
Some mothers-in-law are wonderful while some give bad advice to their children.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Doubleoo(m): 9:27pm On Aug 19, 2025
SmartPolician:
Mothers find it extremely difficult letting another woman enjoy their sons' money after they have suffered for them for decades, forgetting they were once someone else's wives 😀😀😀

Truth be told, the fight between mothers-in-law and wives will never end because mothers know that nobody can love their sons the way they do.
You might be surprised to know that it is mostly from the wife side. In many cases the man can control the situation with his family but the woman mostly use manipulation for her's.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Deepspirituals: 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2025
Kobojunkie:
This I wholly disagree with! 🥱🥱🥱

Marriage has always been between a man and a woman. It is the husband/wife whose mother it is that allows his/her mother to destroy the marriage that the blame lies with—not the outsider to the marriage. undecided
Is there anything Right that u ever agrees .. angry No be U..
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Eriokanmi: 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2025
They had better be careful. Nowadays, guys dont want to get married. They should be glad and supportive if they see a guy that says he's ready to marry their daughter. Ladies full everywhere and it's so scary. No thanks to bad leaders in place. I hope the gullible ones have learned their lesson. 2027 no far again. Enough said
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Ruke1991: 9:29pm On Aug 19, 2025
This tells you that the average woman has catastrophic and toxic behaviours because they all grow up to become mother-in-laws. There is no mention of father-in-law contributing at all to divorce. Married men tolerate alot to be able to keep women at home with them

Most women need to be trained on financial independence, emotional discipline and minding their business. The lack of these three things is what makes them toxic and burdensome problem to those around
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Franklyspeakin: 9:29pm On Aug 19, 2025
nairaland is now boring no be lie..... see topic shaaaaaaaaaa
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by BodyCount: 9:35pm On Aug 19, 2025
Move in As she no get husband, work and other responsibilities abi?

NO MATTER MY AGE IN LIFE, ANY UNFORTUNATE WIFE THAT WILL LEAVE ME TO GO AND DO ONE YEYE OMUGO OR WHATEVER FOR MORE THAN TWO MONTHS, WILL DEFINITELY COME BACK HOME TO MEET ANOTHER WIFE.


AND

All ladies that doesn't like mother in-laws will be Hated by their son's wife too.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Ruke1991: 9:39pm On Aug 19, 2025
SmartPolician:
Mothers find it extremely difficult letting another woman enjoy their sons' money after they have suffered for them for decades, forgetting they were once someone else's wives 😀😀😀

Truth be told, the fight between mothers-in-law and wives will never end because mothers know that nobody can love their sons the way they do.
Not because of that. It's because every woman is ruthlessly selfish and want a successful man's wealth all for herself without rival. Rather than work for their own money, they can go all out to use JuJu or witchcraft to kill their co-wives, husband's mistresses, son's wife or husband's mother the moment they notice that the man they want 100% of his wealth, also has other women eating from that wealth. Most time it has nothing to do with love - just selfless. Women generally do not understand what love is - for them, it's just a buzz word for manipulating and stealing from men
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by revived2: 9:40pm On Aug 19, 2025
She herself will become a mother in-law someday

Until then.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Melagros(m): 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2025
COMRADES, I fully agree with this lawyer. Honestly, I don't know what else to say about those mother in-laws. Some of them are very wicked
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by omooba969(m): 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2025
Why are y'all trying to demonise our lovely mothers? Instead of the couple to get their act together, they want to pass the buck.

Shioor! 😒
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by egojeny1(f): 9:44pm On Aug 19, 2025
Pure truth, talking from experience. They will stay in their houses and want to know everything that is happening in their son's/daughter's house
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by omooba969(m): 9:47pm On Aug 19, 2025
Ruke1991:
Not because of that. It's because every woman is ruthlessly selfish and want a successful man's wealth all for herself without rival. Rather than work for their own money, they can go all out to use JuJu or witchcraft to kill their co-wives, husband's mistresses, son's wife or husband's mother the moment they notice that the man they want 100% of his wealth, also has other women eating from that wealth. Most time it has nothing to do with love - just selfless. Women generally do not understand what love is - for them, it's just a buzz word for manipulating and stealing from men
Them say mother-in-law, you com begin dey roast our women all together.

Your blood too dey hot o! smiley
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Softmirror: 9:47pm On Aug 19, 2025
omooba969:
Why are y'all trying to demonise our lovely mothers? Instead of the couple to get their act together, they want to pass the buck.

Shioor! 😒
You have said it all. The problem is with the couple. The weakness in their knot.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Ponmoalata:
Its only a foolish wife that sees her mother-inlaw as a competitor.
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by inoki247: 10:04pm On Aug 19, 2025
So in one word u want mak people jus dey Kpai dere mother in-law....


Before una Sha start any capping know you will become one mk Karma no come use u du test run...
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Charli3benkz(m): 10:08pm On Aug 19, 2025
Doubleoo:
You might be surprised to know that it is mostly from the wife side. In many cases the man can control the situation with his family but the woman mostly use manipulation for her's.
This I completely agree with u.... Same issues I'm presently facing in my home.....
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Pat081: 10:10pm On Aug 19, 2025
What of the wife that is talkative huhif anything happened at home her friends knows
Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by JackDaAlienz(m): 10:10pm On Aug 19, 2025
Women are just babies in elder body. Their childishness stretch from young age to 80 years
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