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| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by EmperorIsaac(m): 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
Ruke1991:I agree with you completely!
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| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by pongwa(m): 10:50pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:na mature and advanced mind know this truth. One partner is to blame |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by ambale(m): 10:51pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
Only a foolish wife will be intimidated by her mother-in-law Some of una ladies are not ready to be married, you are just looking for a man who you can control and claim he loves you so much. Do what's right and enjoy your marriage |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by DrakenAubrey: 11:18pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
Kobojunkie post=136501256]See dem.... always looking for avenues to shift blame onto others, right? If you are not able to accept responsibility for your decisions in life, then you are simply not mature enough for marriage and other adult decisions in life. If this was fact based how come we have a continuous generation of people getting married? You need to stop the narrative of blaming mother in-laws for every crash that happens in marriages. Some are self inflicted by both parties. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by udemzyudex(m): 11:24pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
brain54:Na mother in-law wey sponsor marriage dey get chance destroy marriage. ![]() |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by DrakenAubrey: 11:25pm On Aug 19, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:What happens to husbands with late mothers? oh the mother in-laws come from the grave to cause chaos in the marriage? Wake up my dear. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 12:22am On Aug 20, 2025 |
DrakenAubrey:Self-inflicted in the sense that someone in that marriage home had to permit the outsider to come in to cause commotion — assuming that be the case, of course. ![]() If a man allows his mother into his marriage to dabaru things, no be im mama fault but na him own. The same goes for the woman. ![]() |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Kobojunkie: 12:23am On Aug 20, 2025 |
DrakenAubrey:Huh?? ![]() |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Toymax88: 1:01am On Aug 20, 2025 |
The lawyer is 100% correct, especially wife's mother |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by belikewater: 3:24am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Whether you like it or not, once you marry a man/woman know that you have married their parents by extension. Most mothers-in-law have no problem with their sons-in-law but you see that cat and mouse relationship between mothers-in-law and their daughters-in-law is something that needs to be researched. ![]() |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by marcus0123: 3:26am On Aug 20, 2025 |
That is how my evil father and mother inlaw wan to run my family down.They are evil support there daughter wrong doing and trying to pull me down guys I suspended them entering my house,only sent them cash,thus elders are something else. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by OnionBandit(f): 3:58am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Lanruze:I would have done same Good one from the man |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Harddiskng(m): 4:51am On Aug 20, 2025 |
If your mother is a single-mother by choice, it very advisable to keep her at bay from your marriage! Most women subconsciously like to put other woman in their own unhappy situation. “You mean your husband did this!, I can never take such from a man, this is what you should do!” A word is enough for the wise. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by epainos: 5:13am On Aug 20, 2025 |
I remember one thread here about making children the parents' investments and most people support it. Nigerians are funny. You guys supported a mother to invest in the child. She no go get her ROI back? The time comes for her to get her ROI back to back, and one "yebrika" gal wan spoil the show, she go stay? She no go stay. The same gal too go invest in her kids ooo. And the cycle continues. The day we shift that mentality of investing in kids to the right one, things like this will stop. Your kids are your obligations and everything you do for them, do not expect anything back from them. If they give you, accept and bless them. If dem no give, focus on your life. But you build your life around them such that you will do absolutely nothing in your old age and they will be 100% responsible for you, and you think it's OK. No worry. Dem go kpai you. And you too go kpai many others. Se una brains no wa reset ni.n Also, fix the nation. Let's make the health system OK such that there will be care homes and you don't need to burden your kids with your care. Another thread was here about a man complaining his wife doesn't want to accept his sick mother. His sick mother suppose stay with them in the first place? But many said the woman is wicked. OK oooo. We go see. The useless way of life una dey live that you keep killing yourselves, una still no wan change am, abi? Good luck! |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by occfx: 5:41am On Aug 20, 2025 |
If you marry move away from both mother in laws. I don suffer for mother in law hand badly. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by koladata(m): 6:10am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Indians lives with their parents ... Nigerian women don't like their mother inlaw. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Trueprophet91: 6:30am On Aug 20, 2025 |
wellmax:It's alright to make this about tribe huh? You sound so intelligent right now |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by feedthenation(m): 7:02am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Chilipepper:---There is some truth in this statement---M-I-Ls on both sides want to exercise control---hardly F-I-Ls interfere in marriages--- |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Exceed15: 9:06am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:I wholely disagree with you too. Someone who has been handling divorce cases and have actively listens to couples is taking n u are saying what u don't know .. talk is cheap |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Exceed15: 9:15am On Aug 20, 2025 |
I totally I agree 100% with this assertion. Most single mothers ended their marriages because they were behaving like their mothers who are not in their husbands house too. Run away from single mothers. They carry their mother's venom. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by gerizzim: 9:44am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Deepspirituals:Dnt take that guys comment serious. he intentionally likes playing the role of devils advocate. Every body go see white piece of cloth and call it white. He knows it is white but will just wnt to drop argument say Na black. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by CorperKola: 10:13am On Aug 20, 2025 |
Lanruze:How do you say shii like that for the whole world to see These people can be truly heartless |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by stormborn28(m): 3:27pm On Aug 20, 2025 |
JackDaAlienz:You are very correct. The age will change but that but that ability to establish deep understanding of wisdom. Is always lacking.. They are mostly driven by emotions. |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by femi4: 10:36pm On Aug 20, 2025 |
Chilipepper:What if she has no where to live |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by Jumbojax(m): 6:45am On Aug 21, 2025 |
Deepspirituals:The guy na just anti |
| Re: Mothers-in-law Destroy Marriages More Than The Couples Themselves: Lawyer Says by fxexperts: 12:35pm On Aug 21, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:I guess that is why you are still not married. Maybe when you finally get married, then you can come back and let's continue this discussion. |
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If this was fact based how come we have a continuous generation of people getting married? You need to stop the narrative of blaming mother in-laws for every crash that happens in marriages. Some are self inflicted by both parties.
No be U..