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OfeAchi:
Who is the father of the child?
You immoral celebrities have gravely desecrated the sanctity of matrimony and childbearing.

That baby needs a father figure.
The fact that you chose to mother a child without a father, places you onthe same pedestal as the LGBTV community.

Some people would think you are just dashing and hating but it is proven fact that single parenthood is a menace to the society.

These children are being affected psychologically, and they have high tendency (fact) towards crime. I get it when middle aged women have no option then to get pregnant but then when we do stop to think of the impact on the children and it corrupts the society at large.

autoez:
Many modern women are choosing to have children without fathers. They seem to believe that providing financial luxury is all that matters for their kids. They don't know, this could lead to raising children who miss out on the benefits of balanced parenting. The emotional challenges a child may face, seeing others with two loving parents, can be disorienting. Many of you reading may dismiss my perspective, but I believe many understand where I'm coming from.

Queenslander:
She is Setting a bad precedent, I don't support this one bit,. She looks good though.. Congratulations to her anyways,.. enough said!!

Maybe some of you may not know, so let me remind you all.

Toke Makinwa was once married to Maje Ayida and they got divorced not long after they got married. Toke accused him of reckless cheating, domestic violence and emotional punishments. She revealed that she started bleaching her skin just to please Maje who loved fair skin ladies. It wasn't easy for her back then I guessed so they divorced and she focused all her energy on her media career and today she has become a household name in anything media in Nigeria.

So she is different from other female celebrities. She cherished marriage, got married, wished to have a happy home and marriage but unfortunately it didn't work out for her, which we cannot entirely blame her for.


Knowing fully well that she was approaching MP, she decided to have a child, probably out of wedlock, she could still be secretly married nobody knows yet. But her decision to have a child before her MP sets in is very well informed. Its far better than remaining unmarried and no child like Oprah Winfrey, the regrets at old age will be loud.



So let's support and encourage her in any way we can, whether she is reading or not, it's not cool castigating what she did cos she must have calculated and weighed the pros and the cons. Life is not really balanced, so it's better one take things in good faith when some things doesn't go your way or as you wished and dreamed

Celebrating Fornication. No marriage, just pregnancy, just like Linda Ikeji whose baby daddy is still in contest till date

autoez:
Many modern women are choosing to have children without fathers. They seem to believe that providing financial luxury is all that matters for their kids. They don't know, this could lead to raising children who miss out on the benefits of balanced parenting. The emotional challenges a child may face, seeing others with two loving parents, can be disorienting. Many of you reading may dismiss my perspective, but I believe many understand where I'm coming from.

Anyone who hasn't understood your perspective has not opened his eyes to see what's happening with the black community in places like the USA! Many single mothers roaming around leaving "fatherless" children going down the road to perdition!
Some say we're "hating" on a successful woman! Hmmmmm...I smile in Xhosa!

autoez:
Many modern women are choosing to have children without fathers. They seem to believe that providing financial luxury is all that matters for their kids. They don't know, this could lead to raising children who miss out on the benefits of balanced parenting. The emotional challenges a child may face, seeing others with two loving parents, can be disorienting. Many of you reading may dismiss my perspective, but I believe many understand where I'm coming from.

That's true darl.,.. I see a special type of Joy when my hubby comes home and our few months baby, will being jumping from one hands to the other , like monkey wey dey jump from Tree 2 Tree

diluch123:
Congratulations Toke, you have done well for yourself

Done well for herself by carrying a baby whose father she doesn’t know?

koladata:
Tiwa Savage is always friends with single mothers

It’s a generational curse

autoez:
Many modern women are choosing to have children without fathers. They seem to believe that providing financial luxury is all that matters for their kids. They don't know, this could lead to raising children who miss out on the benefits of balanced parenting. The emotional challenges a child may face, seeing others with two loving parents, can be disorienting. Many of you reading may dismiss my perspective, but I believe many understand where I'm coming from.

A single mother or a woman that believes she needs no man, can never never raise a "man". She can raise a girl to be whatever she wants her to be (maybe like her or way worse or better than her).

Single mothers at the end, ends up raising girls with daddy issues or sassy boys that the same single mothers complain about.

Kids needs parent figures in their lives, especially the male figure.

franchasng:
Maybe some of you may not know, so let me remind you all.

Toke Makinwa was once married to Maje Ayida and they got divorced not long after they got married. Toke accused him of reckless cheating, domestic violence and emotional punishments. She revealed that she started bleaching her skin just to please Maje who loved fair skin ladies. It wasn't easy for her back then I guessed so they divorced and she focused all her energy on her media career and today she has become a household name in anything media in Nigeria.

So she is different from other female celebrities. She cherished marriage, got married, wished to have a happy home and marriage but unfortunately it didn't work out for her, which we cannot entirely blame her for.


Knowing fully well that she was approaching MP, she decided to have a child, probably out of wedlock, she could still be secretly married nobody knows yet. But her decision to have a child before her MP sets in is very well informed. Its far better than remaining unmarried and no child like Oprah Winfrey, the regrets at old age will be loud.



So let's support and encourage her in any way we can, whether she is reading or not, it's not cool castigating what she did cos she must have calculated and weighed the pros and the cons. Life is not really balanced, so it's better one take things in good faith when some things doesn't go your way or as you wished and dreamed

Small shame shikini, you no get

franchasng:
Maybe some of you may not know, so let me remind you all.

Toke Makinwa was once married to Maje Ayida and they got divorced not long after they got married. Toke accused him of reckless cheating, domestic violence and emotional punishments. She revealed that she started bleaching her skin just to please Maje who loved fair skin ladies. It wasn't easy for her back then I guessed so they divorced and she focused all her energy on her media career and today she has become a household name in anything media in Nigeria.

So she is different from other female celebrities. She cherished marriage, got married, wished to have a happy home and marriage but unfortunately it didn't work out for her, which we cannot entirely blame her for.


Knowing fully well that she was approaching MP, she decided to have a child, probably out of wedlock, she could still be secretly married nobody knows yet. But her decision to have a child before her MP sets in is very well informed. Its far better than remaining unmarried and no child like Oprah Winfrey, the regrets at old age will be loud.



So let's support and encourage her in any way we can, whether she is reading or not, it's not cool castigating what she did cos she must have calculated and weighed the pros and the cons. Life is not really balanced, so it's better one take things in good faith when some things doesn't go your way or as you wished and dreamed

Moral lesson= support and encourage people in any way you can so they can make fatherless babies.

koladata:
Tiwa Savage is always friends with single mothers

Yes.

Is there a problem with that? Y'all have deluded yourselves that women hate each other.

Women friendships are all we've got and it is refreshing to see our gender support the other in good and bad times.

motionarena:
Shame?
You naija men should stop this disgusting of being hateful of women success

Someone got pregnant for the at age of 40+ and does a baby shower and you are here being hateful

You did not understand the angle he came from.

Queenslander:
She is Setting a bad precedent, I don't support this one bit,. She looks good though.. Congratulations to her anyways,.. enough said!!

How is she a bad precedent, is she the 1st or 100th to do it, what is irrational is why a young gurl will want to toll her path
You see omotola sexy, Morayo afolabi and a host of good examples you no follow ... well that's on you

You can tell that baby is going to be so well loved. Congratulations to her

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Marriage is bondage to men. They don’t need it.
Why are you advocating for men to stay in the bondage of marriage? It doesn’t benefit them.

marlow1962:
Moral lesson= support and encourage people in any way you can so they can make fatherless babies.

simpleseyi:
Small shame shikini, you no get

Harddiskng:
Some people would think you are just dashing and hating but it is proven fact that single parenthood is a menace to the society.

MrJames007:
Where's the husband?

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OfeAchi:
Who is the father of the child?
You immoral celebrities have gravely desecrated the sanctity of matrimony and childbearing.

That baby needs a father figure.
The fact that you chose to mother a child without a father, places you onthe same pedestal as the LGBTV community.

autoez:
Many modern women are choosing to have children without fathers. They seem to believe that providing financial luxury is all that matters for their kids. They don't know, this could lead to raising children who miss out on the benefits of balanced parenting. The emotional challenges a child may face, seeing others with two loving parents, can be disorienting. Many of you reading may dismiss my perspective, but I believe many understand where I'm coming from.

cococandy:
Marriage is bondage to men. They don’t need it.
Why are you advocating for men to stay in the bondage of marriage? It doesn’t benefit them.

I wonderrrrr. They even complain pass the men that want marriage. Trust me if she flaunted a husband, they will still complain and remind men not to marry.

fcbelle72:
That's true darl.,.. I see a special type of Joy when my hubby comes home and our few months baby, will being jumping from one hands to the other , like monkey wey dey jump from Tree 2 Tree

so the women that can't get husbands and are nearing menopause shouldn't take in? even adoption will be be harder because orphanages will be slower in granting a single parent a child from their homes and you feel you are better because you have a balanced home(2 parents involved)?it's your type who gloats over and shame unmarried women in your communities

women are their greatest enemies if the men are unkind it should be expected from a woman it's not as if toke didn't even try to get married!!

pocohantas:
I wonderrrrr. They even complain pass the men that want marriage. Trust me if she flaunted a husband, they will still complain and remind men not to marry.

They’ll call the man a simp for marrying her.

Look at all the crap they said about Rita Dominic’s husband and marriage.

Very bitter and hateful society

cococandy:
They’ll call the man a simp for marrying her.

Look at all the crap they said about Rita Dominic’s husband and marriage.
Very bitter and hateful society

One of the monikers you even quoted is a champion of discouraging marriage. I am very sure of him because he quoted me. They just give these advice out of mockery because they think it is unattainable for you. So they can continuously gloat on your misfortune. Anyday you get it, you will see the main pain and anger in them.

You don’t really get what that means. Look at 2face’s ex-wife for example, living alone as a woman isn’t cool, with time she’ll feel it. No matter how bad 2face is, it’s still better than having no man. She endured his flaws even when 2face had over 3 kids in that marriage, but once she chose Tiwa as her confidant in their marriage issue this time, boom, the marriage completely over.

When you have issues with your partner, your best friend shouldn’t be someone battling her ex, but someone who is happily married. And since Tiwa’s close friends are single mothers, it’ll be hard for her or her friends to settle again, because their talks will always be about how men are scum.

folake4u:
Yes.

Is there a problem with that? Y'all have deluded yourselves that women hate each other.

Women friendships are all we've got and it is refreshing to see our gender support the other in good and bad times.

Very unfortunate people.
That’s their style

pocohantas:
One of the monikers you even quoted is a champion of discouraging marriage. I am very sure of him because he quoted me. They just give these advice out of mockery because they think it is unattainable for you. So they can continuously gloat on your misfortune. Anyday you get it, you will see the main pain and anger in them.

Such a dense opinion

koladata:
Look at 2face’s ex-wife, living alone as a woman isn’t cool, with time she’ll feel it. No matter how bad 2face is, it’s still better than having no man.

cococandy:
Marriage is bondage to men. They don’t need it.
Why are you advocating for men to stay in the bondage of marriage? It doesn’t benefit them
.[quote author=marlow1962 post=136529148]

Marriage is never a bondage to a man, bad wife in the home makes marriage a bondage.[/quote]

cococandy:
Marriage is bondage to men. They don’t need it.
Why are you advocating for men to stay in the bondage of marriage? It doesn’t benefit them.

Can you read?

Please read my comment again, I wasn’t advocating for marriage.

Don’t drag children into this world to fill your lack of happiness from being single at an advanced age. These children are being affected and that is a fact that is my point.

Why is there no visible change in her body as pregnant women usually experience?

Obviously she just filled her tummy. When she's done counting her time, her surrogate will born the child and she can do another photo ops in the hospital.

Very true...don't know her facially...but that name always rings a bell

Thundafireseun:
Toke makinwa …. The celebrity that her name sells more than her….

A lot of people know her name but don’t know what she looks like

They're now normalising "baby mamaism" before our very eyes..
The same way they want to normalize homosexuality in this country..
Importing all sorts weird cultural trends just to "belong"..

koladata:
You don’t really get what that means. Look at 2face’s ex-wife for example, living alone as a woman isn’t cool, with time she’ll feel it. No matter how bad 2face is, it’s still better than having no man. She endured his flaws even when 2face had over 3 kids in that marriage, but once she chose Tiwa as her confidant in their marriage issue this time, boom, the marriage completely over.

When you have issues with your partner, your best friend shouldn’t be someone battling her ex, but someone who is happily married. And since Tiwa’s close friends are single mothers, it’ll be hard for her or her friends to settle again, because their talks will always be about how men are scum.

OK.

motionarena:
Shame?
You naija men should stop this disgusting of being hateful of women success

Someone got pregnant for the at age of 40+ and does a baby shower and you are here being hateful

stop being surprised. Is it news to you that the nigerian society in itself is misogynistic and the men come here to display their hatred and contempt for women.if someone shows he clearly hates you will you be struggling or angry or bothered about why he hates you or make decisions that protects yourself from his venom,hatred and toxicity.when a group of people have shown over the years through their words and consistent actions that they hate women will you still be trying to impress or convince them to like you?

There's nothing you can do about their hatred but there's everything you can do to protect yourself from the effects of their hatred.i remember before she got pregnant they were shaming her for not getting married, how menopause has caught up with her,how she will never be able to have a baby. Now she has a baby they're still shaming her for having a baby. So what does that tell you? if you like kill your mother for them they'll still shame you.you better live your life like you own it

There's even a yoruba saying that says there's nothing you want to do to a hateful and envious person that will make him like you. If like remove your intestines for him,godge out your eyes for him,he will still hate you and see you as less human so its an exercise in futility. Don't bother

spencekat:
You did not understand the angle he came from.

What angle?

Explain