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Samantha125:
It's always best to take your child to the clinic to have her placed on birth control as soon as she starts hanging around boys to avoid a situation whereby she ends up as a teen mom.

prevention is better than cure... Traditional parenting no longer works on these teenagers.

And they did not consider diseeases ??

Just hearing this for the first time, but going by the rate I see U25 single mothers, nothing shocks me anymore. I saw one feeding her baby corn and coconut __that type they sell into a paper. Small small girls without a source of income or understanding of life. It is poverty that causes these things. When you know the sex your daughter is having is what feeds you, you would even watch her go sweep for her yahoo bf and call him on phone once in a while.

Biofil84:
Am thinking so...cos sex and lot if it has a way of rewiring a woman's mindset.

I had a thing with a lady during Christmas period in south south and the the next year Jan she relocated from Lagos just to be close to me and never left until she travelled out.

What you wrote up there did not address nor answered my question, What was put on the teen was a form of contraceptive aka family planning device. It simply stops females from getting pregnant. Ether you like it or not in this day and age girls will have sex, when is another matter, so taking the extra step not to have your child and grandchild living under your roof is a win w in.I simply asked, if she was in her 20s would your view be same? But If you are not yet a father this might be hard for you to understand.

Samantha125:
It's always best to take your child to the clinic to have her placed on birth control as soon as she starts hanging around boys to avoid a situation whereby she ends up as a teen mom.

prevention is better than cure... Traditional parenting no longer works on these teenagers.

u guys not even talking about diseases,

cr7lomo:
And they did not consider diseeases ??

Oh dear, what has implant got to do with the prevention of diseases ?

emperor4love:
u guys not even talking about diseases,

How does family planning device prevent that?? isn't that what condoms are meant for ?

Kobojunkie:
Well, that is part of the reason to put them on contraceptives and educate them on the use of other forms of protection, right?

You are not even concern about the moral decadence or sexual insanity that can result from reckless sex escapades or the damage psychologically, emotionally or otherwise reckless sex can do to these girls now and in future.,na waoo

So, why is 18 the age of consent: if you guys can support this and even Universities allow any 16yr old in?

Samantha125:
It's always best to take your child to the clinic to have her placed on birth control as soon as she starts hanging around boys to avoid a situation whereby she ends up as a teen mom.

prevention is better than cure... Traditional parenting no longer works on these teenagers.

What's wrong with being a Teen Mum is adequately supported.

Did you for instance end up any more accomplished than your supported Teen mum peers

erico2k2:
What you wrote up there did not address nor answered my question, What was put on the teen was a form of contraceptive aka family planning device. It simply stops females from getting pregnant. Ether you like it or not in this day and age girls will have sex, when is another matter, so taking the extra step not to have your child and grandchild living under your roof is a win w in.I simply asked, if she was in her 20s would your view be same? But If you are not yet a father this might be hard for you to understand.

Is an indirect license given to the child to fornicate whichever way you try to look at it family planning or not...I will never do that to my child..no way

Biofil84:
You are not even concern about the moral decadence or sexual insanity that can result ....

the truth is the morally decadent and sexually insane teens of yesterday are now adult female celebrities - we all know them.

Biofil84:
Is an indirect license given to the child to fornicate whichever way you try to look at it family planning or not...I will never do that to my child..no way

That is your thought, this was why I asked would your thought be different is she was 25?and why?
You see this same way of reasoning was the reason older generation carried out female circumcision, They claimed if you cut off the clit it will lower sex drive amongst teens .but was that they case??

I find this ironic considering the fact that you guys are already the most populous nation in Africa... ... How come you don't consider those diseases when you're busy procreating anyhow?

Because not all those children conceived are legitimate, are they?

cr7lomo:
And they did not consider diseeases ??

Do you guys talk about diseases when you procreate anyhow?

I mean you are the giants of Africa.

emperor4love:
u guys not even talking about diseases,

Some people enjoy Nigerians living in archaic times. Every new device created to make life easier gets criticized. Tufia!

Eraddray:
This thing will eventually lead to hormonal imbalance and from there generate to terminal disease.... The body is designed to undergo it natural flow...even with that... problems can still happen..not to talk of tampering with the body hormones....

Which research did you do to come to these conclusions? Abi na just normal nairaland ignorant capping?

JONSYN7154:
I'm neither ma.

Go to this major cities and towns you'll understand what am saying.
It's the rich people who bring their children.

Wrong!! Rich upper class kids don't get easily wayward like the kids if the poor and often times are even far better behaved than the kids down the ladder..... They easily get shielded from the vagaries of the world by the comfort their parents provide.

Omo,I can never ever never ever do that to my daughter or even advise such to her😏

Jeez😏😏

I'm even having goosebumps reading people normalize this

I will raise her same way I was raised!!
Concentrate and focus on your studies as a teen.... there is time for everything

A time to s*x till mama comes will still come why fast-forward it?😲

My brother are you aware of the consequences ?

Sermwell:
Oga you need some education! I have an uncle who's a pastor that has this BC implanted on his two teenage daughters. It's safe, and I also intend doing same when I eventually have teenage daughters

E sure me die say na woman wey first " test apple " na dem go first collect Mark 666 disguised as one rubbish birth control implant . You dey see am now ? All so as to continue to chop forbidden fruit without concequences .

You should be advocating for safe sex with condoms and not the use of contraceptive devices which is commendable

advocatejare:
Would you rather have a teenage girl have teenage pregnancy and drop out of school or use contraceptive and go on with her life?

The problem of Africans is playing saints and holier than thou, it’s not a secret that many secondary school students engage in premarital sexual intercourse even those whose parents have been advising against it


Many of them end up with unwanted pregnancies and the society suffers for it


If giving them implants will save them, then let it be.

Well said

JONSYN7154:
I'm neither ma.

Go to this major cities and towns you'll understand what am saying.
It's the rich people who bring their children.

Which major towns and cities should she go to?

So once you just enter these major towns and cities, you will immediately see parents taking their kids for anti pregnancy implants?

Very useless post. Does the first picture look like a student or an holosho? The second picture was culled out from a southern African school years ago. Which kind post be this na. ?

🔨⚖️

delugadou:
The matter should not end there. They should bring that nurse that did the implant and jail her for life.

If it's a hospital, it has to be demolished. This is tragic

tnerro1:
But how does something implanted in the arm stop the sperm from finding the eggs in the ovaries, Abeg someone should enlighten me, I confuse well well🤔

..you can ask chatgpt or ask Google for answers and explanation

Biofil84:
You are not even concern about the moral decadence or sexual insanity that can result from reckless sex escapades or the damage psychologically, emotionally or otherwise reckless sex can do to these girls now and in future.,na waoo

Don't be surprised that some of the men here supporting these children going this route are the ones molesting and abusing the teenage girls. They even encourage the girls to go for it so that they can be having save sex with them. We just need to have stricter laws to punish men that sleep with underage girls as you have in developed countries. Any adult man that even suggests sex or even toasts an underaged should be prosecuted and jailed.

Seriously I have never heard of this, like 17yrs old. Honestly If I marry a young lady today and she is unable to conceive I will divorce her immediately.

JONSYN7154:
I'm so surprise that you are asking this question concerning the implant.

I have seen mothers taking there children to family planning clinic for implants that they don't want their children to become pregnant.

Omo! I weak o...mothers fa.anyway it's better than single motherhood