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There's a girl in my area that year, the moment she gained admission to the University, the mother took her to the clinic for the contraceptives implant, according to her, she doesn't want the daughter to get pregnant from school.

These generation is nothing to write home about. Morally, academically, financially, spiritually, socially, physically, mentally, psychologically and generally.

They are not thinking anything apart from relationships, s*x and drugs and fraud.

Using this is like putting knife into the hearts of God. This is fornication.

Sin is sex before marriage, contraceptives or no condoms.

What about diseases and spiritual transactions?

May God help our youths to refocus on better things than sex before marriage in Jesus Christ name Amen.

SporaD8:
You nail it!
Too bad Op is still living in the olden days!
Desperate time calls for desperate measures!

How do the parents now prevent them from from contracting STDs?

Morality is gone with the wind!
Corrupt society!
Social media immorality programming!
Irresponsible parents and parenting!
Undisciplined and indisciplined children!
Etc

End times things....
Jesus Christ makes the difference...

saintmm:
➜I hope the implant will also prevent the child from sexually transmitted diseases!

The implant is specifically meant for preventing unwanted pregnancies. STDs require additional protection, and that is why both boys and guys are handed condoms to use whenever they decide to have sex.

Pacesetter123:
I don't really think it's a backward reasoning as you said.The guy has some point there.
Let's look at it objectively.
If a man sleeps with this secondary school girls we are talking about here which are around 14,15,16 years old,say with the consent of their parents.
Then the matter, through one way to the other gets to the government/law court,what do you think will be the fate of the man?
Will the LAW says because the under age girl willingly submitted to the love affairs or and that her parents even consented to it that the man is not liable for any sentencing?
The crux of the matter here is the age of consent.
So, for the medical personnel and the parents who are adults that knows the position of the law on that to have aided and abeted the crime (yes, encouraging a minor to have sex is a crime), they are liable to prosecution.
So the guy was,to some extent, right.

Ok lets be objective, there is nowhere in the constitution of Nigeria where putting an implant in ones teenage daughter is a crime,. Now as far as there is a responsible adult there when this procedure is carried out.
Now sleeping with a teenager under 18 as an adult is a crime. These are the two difference you 4got to take into consideration.
This leaves us with a question of morality.
Now morally speaking would you say by putting an implant in the arm of a female child encourages them to have more sex?
If she was slightly older ie 20 would you see any wrong in it ?
Morally speaking can you guarantee that not putting the implant on a teenage girl would make her not to have more sex?
One thing that is a constant in these two context is this, She wont get pregnant and have unwanted babies. However not having this implant might lead to unwanted pregnancy.
People had this same argument when the condom was introduce and the morning after pills where introduced.
This discussions had been had 30 years ago in the Uk and its part of sex education.
So we need more enlightment in this areas.

Kobojunkie:
The implant is specifically meant for preventing unwanted pregnancies. STDs require additional protection, and that is why both boys and guys are handed condoms to use whenever they decide to have sex.

Exactly, I don't know why this is hard to sink in. The age of having sex is going down every day a 14 year old can get a 13 year old pregnant, what do they expect both parties to do?

omojeesu:
Morality is gone with the wind!
Corrupt society!
Social media immorality programming!
Irresponsible parents and parenting!
Undisciplined and indisciplined children!
Etc

End times things....
Jesus Christ makes the difference...

So you think by engaging in family planning one is morally bankrupt?

Demigod22:
There's a girl in my area that year, the moment she gained admission to the University, the mother took her to the clinic for the contraceptives implant, according to her, she doesn't want the daughter to get pregnant from school.

These generation is nothing to write home about. Morally, academically, financially, spiritually, socially, physically, mentally, psychologically and generally.

They are not thinking anything apart from relationships, s*x and drugs and fraud.

Big up to the MUM

Eraddray:
compiled a long list of ppl who did it...and that I knw about...it didn't end well... And the last person who manage to escape it all eventually removed it when I notice the reaction in her in the third year she installed it... Strong hormonal change... irregular menstrual cycle... Redness of the skin... accompany by different skin reactions which stopped immediately she had it removed...

There are always exceptions to the norm, however doesn't negate the majority benefits.

BodyCount:
Take all your sisters to go put the implant.
A secondary school pupil age now ranges from 11-17 , when you have your daughters and age of 11 to 17, take them to the hospital to fix the implant.

Don't take yours ok, and when they get pregnant you take them to go do abortion which by the way is against the law.

andrealallor:
Either way the side effects affects the girl mostly.

Doctor what is the side effect ?

erico2k2:
Exactly, I don't know why this is hard to sink in. The age of having sex is going down every day a 14 year old can get a 13 year old pregnant, what do they expect both parties to do?

Back in the early to mid 90s, I met a pregnant 10-year-old girl when I went to spend vacation with an uncle of mine. Her mother was a full-time nurse and single mother who rarely had time to spend with her children since their dad was dead. Imagine the mother considering getting her child an abortion at that age? And in Nigeria at that?

Each child needs to be started as early as is necessary and healthy, and that is what parents are there for.

andrealallor:
So rapture will happen because of women?
The male that fornicate up and down are saints?

that one still dey live inside 1990

novodecipher:
To be honest we are not ready for this discussion.

First to avoid all these alien practice. I call it alien because I am more of a conservative person. I don't follow trend. You must be an intentional parent. If you have a girl child, you must a take a double dose. You've to be intentional of the environment you train your children, you've to be intentional about their friends and you must make out time to creat a strong bond with your daughters.

Now, remember that an apple doesn't fall far from the tree. If you know during your own time you were randy and have high libido. Their is every tendency one of your girls will inherit it.... In other to prevent it.... It's either you do the 'organic' way our ancestor used which the western world have demonized in other to sell their drugs to us that are killing our young girls today.

I know the will come after my post. But truth be told...it's better to practice FGM, to your girl child than this so called implants. It's safer, if they allow trained personal to do it.... But know, the have an agender ... They have criminalized it, and make it look like it's the leading cause of infertility in women, meanwhile it's the other way round.

As for me, it's all shades of wrong to allow a teen abuse her body with all this foreign body's in the name of implants. It's even better she gets pregnant...that might also be a turning point in her life, and most times, it might turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

Early use of contraceptives is the leading cause of hormonal imbalance which might eventually lead fertility complications. A word is of enough...if you like follow the woke people ..na premium tears

FGM lol, now this is a criminal offence, if you are thinking about it stop it, someone went to jail in the UK for this as termed to be historic crime

ceeceeuwa:
Hope it will give them protection from STD's?
Penny wise pound foolish 😅

I think you need to read and comprehend B4 you post, I don't think you even k now what this kind of family planning entails.
Some of you have not even seen what the implant looks like and how it works.

Kobojunkie:
Back in the early to mid 90s, I met a pregnant 10-year-old girl when I went to spend vacation with an uncle of mine. Her mother was a full-time nurse and single mother who rarely had time to spend with her children since their dad was dead. Imagine the mother considering getting her child an abortion at that age? And in Nigeria at that?

Each child needs to be started as early as is necessary and healthy, and that is what parents are there for.

Imagine that, tht could lead to depression on both sides. In the north those alamanjiri come about cos of this,

God2man2again:
Using this is like putting knife into the hearts of God. This is fornication.

Sin is sex before marriage, contraceptives or no condoms.

What about diseases and spiritual transactions?

May God help our youths to refocus on better things than sex before marriage in Jesus Christ name Amen.

Must you lot bring religion into everything? You think pastors and religious leaders do not practice family planning?
Una too dey over do for this Nigeria

novodecipher:
To be honest we are not ready for this discussion. First to avoid all these alien practice. I call it alien because I am more of a conservative person. I don't follow trend. You must be an intentional parent. If you have a girl child, you must a take a double dose. You've to be intentional of the environment you train your children, you've to be intentional about their friends and you must make out time to creat a strong bond with your daughters.
Now, remember that an apple doesn't fall far from the tree. If you know during your own time you were randy and have high libido. Their is every tendency one of your girls will inherit it.... In other to prevent it.... It's either you do the 'organic' way our ancestor used which the western world have demonized in other to sell their drugs to us that are killing our young girls today.
I know the will come after my post. But truth be told...it's better to practice FGM, to your girl child than this so called implants. It's safer, if they allow trained personal to do it.... But know, the have an agender ... They have criminalized it, and make it look like it's the leading cause of infertility in women, meanwhile it's the other way round.

FGM on a girl child? And this one is being allowed to procreate bayi!

Bearfruit:
➜Childhood and Youth are Vanity,if you like do just about anything with your body that is your palaver... Remember you will be Judged by what you do,how you do. I am bought with a price may non of my bodily Members be yield as Instrument for unrighteousness in Jesus name Amen.

Judged by whom? Nonsense!

IyaTola:
A Growing Moral Challenge Among Secondary School Girls

A disturbing incident recently occurred in a secondary school that calls for the urgent attention of parents and society at large.

A female student in SS2 committed an offense that led her teacher to discipline her. During the process, blood was unexpectedly seen dripping from her arm. She was taken to the principal’s office, where she was asked to remove her shirt.

To everyone’s shock, it was discovered that the bleeding came from an implant device lodged in her upper arm.

The implant, medically known as a contraceptive device, is designed to prevent pregnancy during sexual intercourse. Once inserted, it can remain in the body for up to three years.

Upon questioning, the student confessed that she was not the only one carrying the device. A school-wide investigation revealed that at least 40 female students were found with similar implants.

This raises critical questions:

What business does a girl under the age of 17 have with such a device?

How did these secondary school students gain access to it?

What is the role of medical practitioners inserting such devices into minors?

The implications are alarming. If left unchecked, this trend threatens the moral upbringing of children and the future of our society. Parents cannot afford to remain silent.

The Role of Parents and Society

Parents have a divine and moral duty to nurture, monitor, and guide their children. Failure to do so not only leads to societal decay but also carries accountability before God.
Equally concerning is the role of health workers who administer such implants to underage girls. By doing so, they indirectly promote immorality and compromise the values of the younger generation.

Way Forward
Parents must intensify close monitoring of their children, both at home and in school.
Open communication between parents and children on moral, religious, and social issues must be prioritized.
Community leaders, religious leaders, and schools should work together to restore discipline and moral guidance.
Where possible, girls who are of age and have responsible suitors should be encouraged to marry, as marriage helps curb immoral behavior.
What was once thought to be a challenge only among university students is now creeping into secondary schools. This calls for urgent action from parents, schools, health authorities, and society at large. The moral future of our children depends on the decisions we make today.

The shocking discovery of contraceptive implants among secondary school girls has stirred outrage, with many framing it as a sign of moral collapse. But before we condemn these young girls, let’s pause and consider: could this incident be less about immorality and more about protection, survival, and silence around sexual realities?

First, contraceptives don’t fall into the hands of minors by magic. If dozens of students in one school carry the same device, it means they are being guided—or perhaps pressured—by someone older. This raises a possibility that some of these girls may not even be engaging in consensual relationships but are rather being shielded (or silenced) from the consequences of exploitation. Instead of immediately seeing them as “wayward,” we should be asking: Are these girls victims of abuse, manipulation, or neglect?

Second, let’s face a hard truth: whether society admits it or not, teenagers are exposed to sexual realities—through peer influence, social media, or even unsafe encounters. For some, using contraceptives may not be about “promoting immorality,” but about avoiding early pregnancies that could ruin their education and future opportunities. A 16-year-old with a baby has her life trajectory altered forever. Isn’t it possible that, in their own limited wisdom, these girls are choosing what they see as the lesser of two evils?

Third, placing all the blame on parents, teachers, and health workers oversimplifies a bigger problem. Health practitioners may not be encouraging immorality; they might be responding to a painful reality—that society has failed to protect young girls from sexual risks, and the implants are a desperate form of damage control.

Instead of rushing to enforce stricter control, perhaps what is most urgently needed is:

Honest conversations between parents and children about sexuality—not just warnings and fear.

Empowerment of girls to understand consent, self-worth, and boundaries.

Accountability for men and older individuals who exploit underage girls (a part of the story often ignored).


Yes, the discovery is alarming. But the true moral challenge is not the implant itself—it’s the silence, neglect, and lack of safe guidance that push children into taking matters into their own hands.

The implants are a symptom. The deeper disease is a society that shies away from real conversations about sex, protection, and responsibility.

novodecipher:
To be honest we are not ready for this discussion.

First to avoid all these alien practice. I call it alien because I am more of a conservative person. I don't follow trend. You must be an intentional parent. If you have a girl child, you must a take a double dose. You've to be intentional of the environment you train your children, you've to be intentional about their friends and you must make out time to creat a strong bond with your daughters.

Now, remember that an apple doesn't fall far from the tree. If you know during your own time you were randy and have high libido. Their is every tendency one of your girls will inherit it.... In other to prevent it.... It's either you do the 'organic' way our ancestor used which the western world have demonized in other to sell their drugs to us that are killing our young girls today.

I know the will come after my post. But truth be told...it's better to practice FGM, to your girl child than this so called implants. It's safer, if they allow trained personal to do it.... But know, the have an agender ... They have criminalized it, and make it look like it's the leading cause of infertility in women, meanwhile it's the other way round.

As for me, it's all shades of wrong to allow a teen abuse her body with all this foreign body's in the name of implants. It's even better she gets pregnant...that might also be a turning point in her life, and most times, it might turn out to be a blessing in disguise.

Early use of contraceptives is the leading cause of hormonal imbalance which might eventually lead fertility complications. A word is of enough...if you like follow the woke people ..na premium tears

I understand where you’re coming from, and I respect your conservative view, but I think we need to look at this issue carefully.

First, Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is not “organic” or safe. It is not a cultural cure for high libido, neither is it a protection for our girls. Medical experts all over the world — including doctors right here in Nigeria — have shown that FGM can cause lifelong complications: chronic pain, severe infections, difficulties during childbirth, and yes, even infertility. It’s not just “the western world” saying this; it’s African doctors, midwives, and women who have lived with the trauma.

Secondly, calling implants “foreign bodies” ignores the fact that the real issue is not the method but why teens seek them in the first place. If parents are intentional, as you rightly said, and create that strong bond with their children, then conversations about sex, choices, and consequences can happen openly. That way, the child doesn’t feel the need to hide or secretly use dangerous or unsuitable options.

Pregnancy should never be seen as a “blessing in disguise” for a teenager. A teenage pregnancy often derails education, causes emotional stress, and can trap a young girl in cycles of poverty or unhealthy relationships. Yes, some women rise above it, but for many, it closes doors that could have led to a better life.

As for contraceptives, while overuse or misuse can have side effects, modern medicine provides safer, reversible options when guided by a professional. The real solution is balanced education — teaching our daughters about their bodies, self-worth, and decision-making, while also ensuring boys are taught responsibility too.

In short, protecting our girls doesn’t mean cutting them or leaving them exposed to risky situations. It means empowering them with knowledge, guidance, and love so that they don’t have to depend on secrecy, fear, or desperation to make choices about their bodies.

omojeesu:
Morality is gone with the wind!
Corrupt society!
Social media immorality programming!
Irresponsible parents and parenting!
Undisciplined and indisciplined children!
Etc

End times things....
Jesus Christ makes the difference...

I hear your frustration, but let’s also look at it from another angle.

Yes, society has its issues — corruption, immorality, parenting challenges — but that’s not the whole story. There are still young people building businesses, raising their voices for justice, choosing to live responsibly, and parents who sacrifice daily to raise children with values.

Every generation has thought the world was getting worse, but each one has also produced people who stood for what’s right. Social media isn’t only a tool for immorality — it has also spread the gospel, given opportunities to the poor, reunited families, and educated millions for free.

Instead of just lamenting, the real call is for us to model the difference we want to see. Jesus indeed makes the difference, but He does it through people who decide to live out His teachings in their homes, schools, businesses, and communities.

It’s not only “end times things”… it’s also “our time things.” What we plant now will determine what grows tomorrow.

Samantha125:
It's always best to take your child to the clinic to have her placed on birth control as soon as she starts hanging around boys to avoid a situation whereby she ends up as a teen mom.

prevention is better than cure... Traditional parenting no longer works on these teenagers.

I understand some parents may feel it’s too early or unnecessary, but the reality is that times have changed. Teenagers today are exposed to so much information, peer pressure, and influence from social media that “just warning them” isn’t always enough. Placing your daughter on birth control isn’t about encouraging immorality—it’s about protecting her future.

Imagine the difference between a 16-year-old dealing with the responsibility of raising a child versus that same 16-year-old focusing on her education and building her dreams. Prevention simply saves her from carrying a burden she’s not ready for. As parents, our responsibility is not only to advise but also to take practical steps to safeguard them.

The world has moved beyond traditional methods of parenting alone; we now need intentional and proactive strategies to keep our children safe.

Ibkay32:
We were brought up in different ways, so don’t be surprised if those girls’ parents are actually the ones behind the implants of these contraceptive devices. In this country, there are many parents like that. If you walk through towns and streets, you’ll see parents who take their children to herbalists for “yahoo plus,” just to make quick money. You’ll also find parents openly supporting their daughters to go into hookups, encouraging them instead of guiding them.

It’s sad because it shows how broken some values have become. Instead of teaching discipline, hard work, and dignity, many parents now push their children toward shortcuts and dangerous lifestyles. This is why society is getting worse because the very foundation, the home, is already compromised.

You’re absolutely right that we all come from different backgrounds, and the way a child is raised often reflects the mindset of the parents. Sadly, in today’s society, some parents have lost their sense of responsibility and are even the ones pushing their children into harmful paths—whether through contraceptives without proper guidance, supporting internet fraud, or encouraging hookups as a means of survival.

When the home fails in instilling discipline, dignity, and hard work, it’s only natural that society begins to crumble. The real tragedy is that children grow up confused, thinking shortcuts and immorality are the normal way of life, instead of understanding the value of patience, integrity, and building a future the right way.

At the end of the day, no amount of clinics, contraceptives, or “modern solutions” can replace the role of proper parenting. Once the foundation is compromised, every other structure will eventually show cracks.

erico2k2:
Must you lot bring religion into everything? You think pastors and religious leaders do not practice family planning?
Una too dey over do for this Nigeria

The thread is for secondary school.

Are we talking about adults here?

I agree.

It is just that in these end times evil will be prevalent until Jesus stops the satanic madness.

Solution: Everyone should secure his or her own lives and eternity in Christ.

The situation in the world won't get better but worse but God's people will survive even in the time of Great Tribulation...

Hamachi:
I hear your frustration, but let’s also look at it from another angle.

Yes, society has its issues — corruption, immorality, parenting challenges — but that’s not the whole story. There are still young people building businesses, raising their voices for justice, choosing to live responsibly, and parents who sacrifice daily to raise children with values.

Every generation has thought the world was getting worse, but each one has also produced people who stood for what’s right. Social media isn’t only a tool for immorality — it has also spread the gospel, given opportunities to the poor, reunited families, and educated millions for free.

Instead of just lamenting, the real call is for us to model the difference we want to see. Jesus indeed makes the difference, but He does it through people who decide to live out His teachings in their homes, schools, businesses, and communities.

It’s not only “end times things”… it’s also “our time things.” What we plant now will determine what grows tomorrow.

God2man2again:
The thread is for secondary school.

Are we talking about adults here?

What has this response o f yours got to do with religion? This very one

What kind of non sense implant is that??

This girls will just take 666 with their two eyes wide open.