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A Nigerian woman has shared her heartbreaking story of how she thought she had found her soulmate, only to end up in an abusive marriage after relocating to the UK for love.

According to her, two months after moving, her husband began physically attacking her — punching her in the face, strangling her neck, and calling her degrading names such as “bitch, animal, fat, Nigerian scammer.”

She revealed that despite constantly apologising even when she wasn’t at fault, and trying to make the marriage work, the abuse only got worse.

Sad story of Nigerian woman abused by husband after relocating to UK for love

I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

Eeyah. Not meeting his family was an obvious red flag because even oyibo people relate well with their extended families too. After all, when you see those Yoruba traditional marriages of interracial nature on social media, you notice the white groom's family literally come in entourages.

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I saw it on TikTok today.
Any race can be bad, but the way our people ignore all checks and standard just because they want to marry a foreigner needs to be studied. It reeks of inferiority complex. Those people are not brash like us that will show you all their cards. They will slowly finish you inside, hence the name calling to destroy her self-esteem in addition to the physical abuse.

If they had their way, they will stick to their own. When you see them going outside their race, they are hiding something or gaining something major. Could be money, or extreme subservience. Could be a mental condition, addiction or criminal past. Look well o, and try have a source of income. So you can at least feed yourself if things get bad.

I hope she did not use the Nigerian ladies dating format of billing on the guy, that could lead to this

Believe her at your foolishness. Women are sympathy and attention seeker

When you think you have gotten a dollar bag of a white man with your smartness
Then ......come back to back beating

Atleast you no lose, you don japa.

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Better quit @ the speed of lightning, if you love your life. But if you continue hoping for change, well you have determined your own fate

It is not by force to get married to a foreigner. You can simply file for divorce.

Love is not always what it seems to be.

Sometimes, love is nothing but ephemeral feelings that disappear with the passage of time.

U for call police make them throw am out of his house naaa....abi na because he's caucasian


Madam ....no worry ... You go dey alright

Oy a come back Nigeria come stay nah. Yen yen yen. You go meet am for citizenship, not love. At least, u don jakpa. Thank your stars first

You see that if a woman invest much in marriage. If you like carry her up and give her smack down she will not leave that marriage.

The reason women easily leave marriage is
.1. She didn't spend a dime on you
2. Bride price was paid by the man
3. Wedding bills by the man
4. House to live in bought by man

So when she sees that she has nothing she contributed she will leave the marriage after small argument with her

[b]When A Woman pays groom price
And bring 50% wedding money
And bring 50% money for household
[/b]If you like bomb the house with nuclear bomb. She will not leave that marriage ooo.

In this case she invested in the marriage to gain citizenship. Once women are invested in something. No matter how many slap you give her she will not back out easily.

The ones that easily divorce and walk away
They never invested anything so no loss for them.

The grass is not always greener at the other side.

They come in all colors and colors. Please take note next time

Well, I don't believe a single word until I hear the man's story.

No apologies;. You must have seen red flags and decided to ignore.. Last last e pay na
You don follow japa

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The only difference between her and Kora Obidih is that Kora had camera and ring light to showcase the world how terrible a wife she is. If not, Kora will be singing the same victim songs. Believe all women.

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Its obvious she married him and relocated for the same reasons most of them do..greener pasture and quick wealth. Something prompted the husband to label her a scammer. Man discovered her true color after bringing her over. Enough of this emotional blackmail from women abeg.

Make we hear from the man first, because fear all this women wey dey spray hair different colour fear them like 97% of them.

"He met all my family but you never met his". What does that tell you?
Most times we just ignore obvious red flags just because of material gains. There is a reason why probably he refused introducing you to his family.
You can't eat your cake and have it.

Happy you've left the marriage for your sanity.

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

She is not married to a white man, get your facts right.

Pele oo kindly endure the punishment because your Jazz don expire

Abi the baba didn’t warn you?