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A lot of people who can’t find love in their immediate vicinity have problem. Always keep that in mind. It could be extensive criminal record or mental issue that can be detected from dating and seeing each other more often.

Someone that needs to travel to another continent and find a stranger to marry has something to hide. Many people abroad have serious and severe mental problem that can never be treated. The kind wey no even de naija. Everyone they dated in their country has either been killed or escaped being killed or ran for their lives. So they don’t have a good reputation.

His face is even looking abusive

That's why your mates go for the ancient of days. Sorry oooo

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

Bla bla blaaaaaaaaaa!!!

Always complaining.

But why she couldn't report to the police in this case?
Am curious and confused!

Toneyo:
Had it been the husband is a Nigerian or black like her, she would’ve reported him to the authorities, add salt and pepper to it, sends him to jail or make him face deportation.

But all she could do was to run for all life.

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

So it's her fault for being called Nigerian scammer, fat etc. your reasoning is faulty, illogical and fallacious. Hasty conclusion and victim blaming

I want to hear the man's side of the story before anything.

Abusers are usually the first to complain.

Love800:
But why she couldn't report to the police in this case?
Am curious and confused!

Maybe she was the cause of change of attitude towards her. Many of them setup or instigate a fight. Pushed their husbands to the limit until he loses it, then fiam, they report their husbands to the authorities. Have them jailed or deported.

Love800:
But why she couldn't report to the police in this case?
Am curious and confused!

Exactly.. sue him and get damages while she's at it. Possibly even get some of his assets since they're married and he's the one that filed for the divorce not her

Chilipepper:
A Nigerian woman has shared her heartbreaking story of how she thought she had found her soulmate, only to end up in an abusive marriage after relocating to the UK for love.

According to her, two months after moving, her husband began physically attacking her — punching her in the face, strangling her neck, and calling her degrading names such as “bitch, animal, fat, Nigerian scammer.”

She revealed that despite constantly apologising even when she wasn’t at fault, and trying to make the marriage work, the abuse only got worse.

the man drank alcohol before he proposed, when his eyes cleared, he then see why he ordered for

Chilipepper:
➜A Nigerian woman has shared her heartbreaking story of how she thought she had found her soulmate, only to end up in an abusive marriage after relocating to the UK for love.
According to her, two months after moving, her husband began physically attacking her — punching her in the face, strangling her neck, and calling her degrading names such as “bitch, animal, fat, Nigerian scammer.”
She revealed that despite constantly apologising even when she wasn’t at fault, and trying to make the marriage work, the abuse only got worse.

At least she posted his picture, so other women can know him to avoid him like the plague.

Why did she wait for him to file for a divorce against her? If two months in, he had already started assaulting her, she should have filed for divorce and gotten him arrested and charged? Poor kid!

Mothers should stop raising their daughters to become wives, abeg! Start raising your sons and daughters the exact same way, so women do not go around allowing themselves to be used as slaves & punching bags later on in life.

advanceDNA:
U for call police make them throw am out of his house naaa....abi na because he's caucasian


Madam ....no worry ... You go dey alright

She dares not try it bcoz it will likely turn to a tricky one especially if she doesn't know her rights nor how to seek help/support.

Yea... that is what i thought... because if na black man... She would evicted him out of the house.
So why could she do the same?
That is why am curious, lol!

SonofElElyonRet:
Exactly.. sue him and get damages while she's at it. Possibly even get some of his assets since they're married and he's the one that filed for the divorce not her

Love800:
➜But why she couldn't report to the police in this case?Am curious and confused!

Really? The millions of wife-beaters in Nigeria who walk around proudly beating their chests in Nigeria despite the fact that the criminal code in Nigeria clearly states that physical assault of any human being is a crime... wetin don do dem?

Love800:
➜Yea... that is what i thought... because if na black man... She would evicted him out of the house.
So why could she do the same? That is why am curious, lol!

Stop lying! Right there in the same UK, there are still 1000s of Nigerian women stuck in abusive homes who are regularly placated either by family or pastors to remain calm and keep the peace.

Go to your Nigerian churches and the many mosques abroad, na dem full that place. Nigerian churches, particularly the Redeemed, Deeper Life, etc, are filled to the brim with women who believe that remaining in abusive marriages sets them apart and on the right path as opposed to enlightened women in those same countries. Na only a handful dey eventual make am out of that cognitive dissonance that is the many religious doctrines their heads are constantly pumped with.

Kobojunkie:
At least she posted his picture, so other women can know him to avoid him like the plague.

Why did she wait for him to file for a divorce against her? If two months in, he had already started assaulting her, she should have filed for divorce and gotten him arrested and charged? Poor kid!

Mothers should stop raising their daughters to become wives, abeg! Start raising your sons and daughters the exact same way, so women do not go around allowing themselves to be used as slaves & punching bags later on in life.

Lol , Kobojunkieeeee the senior special adviser on relationship matters.

So let us just conclude that once it happened in homeland of the man(be it white or black), no more reporting.

Alright.

Kobojunkie:
Really? The millions of wife-beaters in Nigeria who walk around proudly beating their chests in Nigeria despite the fact that the criminal code in Nigeria clearly states that physical assault of any human being is a crime... wetin don do dem?

omooba969:
➜Lol , Kobojunkieeeee the senior special adviser on relationship matters.

Human relationships are not unique to anyone.

Toneyo:
Had it been the husband is a Nigerian or black like her, she would’ve reported him to the authorities, add salt and pepper to it, sends him to jail or make him face deportation.

But all she could do was to run for all life.

White is different from black na.

Love800:
So let us just conclude that once it happened in homeland of the man(be it white or black), no more reporting. Alright.

This conclusion of yours is a product of tiny-brained twiddling. 🥱🥱

Come on naw! Are you seriously wanting us to believe you have never heard of African women in interracial marriages who called the cops on their ex and even filed for divorce not long after?

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

when it comes to emotional and physical abuse there’s really no monopoly of race, a Nigerian/African man abroad could marry a Nigerian/African woman, she’ll relocate and still get treated like this scenario. It’s just a human thing, best is to pray to meet a well cultured God fearing person irrespective of gender/race or religion tbh

Okay.

I don't know about this.

Cool... nice one from you.

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying! Right there in the same UK, there are still 1000s of Nigerian women stuck in abusive homes who are regularly placated either by family or pastors to remain calm and keep the peace.

Go to your Nigerian churches and the many mosques abroad, na dem full that place. Nigerian churches, particularly the Redeemed, Deeper Life, etc, are filled to the brim with women who believe that remaining in abusive marriages sets them apart and on the right path as opposed to enlightened women in those same countries. Na only a handful dey eventual make am out of that cognitive dissonance that is the many religious doctrines their heads are constantly pumped with.

motymop:
She is not married to a white man, get your facts right.

How did the divorce come, if they are not married. Did you miss where she said two weeks after she packed out of the house, he got divorce papers

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

A mere looking at her you'll know she's a street gold digger who tried to use the white man to level up.

Some of them were picked from their hookup zone by the white men and most of them don't check for any kind of compatibility. Why didn't she call the police on the white guy? Make she dey play, they think the law over there is made for the white, that law is made to disunite immigrants especially blacks

Truth of the matter is those two are created to destroy each other. And they destroyed each other very well. Most likely two people from past life with unfinished business with each other. I say that because look at both of their pictures during wedding ? She was beautiful black and lovely with a great looking face while he looked as handsome as any white man can be , he is looking soft and easy going. Now look at both of them after only 2 months of marriage ? They have destroyed each other. Looking wretched angry and spent. In only 2 months. Those two are karmic partners.

If na black man, she for don arrest am with popo, NW na white man, she gots to humble herself and leave on her own
Woman matter no dey finish.

This is why I’m a firm believer that you guys don’t deserve any pity whatsoever.
Any woman that wants to show you pepper should make sure she goes all the way. Like quality Cameroon pepper in a spray bottle

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
the man drank alcohol before he proposed, when his eyes cleared, he then see why he ordered for

Toneyo:
Maybe she was the cause of change of attitude towards her. Many of them setup or instigate a fight. Pushed their husbands to the limit until he loses it, then fiam, they report their husbands to the authorities. Have them jailed or deported.

Nonexisting1:
The quality of customer you get depends on the quality of goods you sell. Is Chimamda Adichie not married to a white man? See how the woman looks immediately after divorce, does that look like who has been responsible? Where and how did she meet the so called white man? Do you think he met him on linkedln? Forget, men will treat you how you deserve to be treated.

Don't forget Chimamanda already had her US permanent residency before she married her Nigerian-American husband.

Maybe... but i couldn't remember any one right now.

Okay... Intelligent quote from you.

I appreciate.

Kobojunkie:
This conclusion of yours is a product of tiny-brained twiddling. 🥱🥱

Come on naw! Are you seriously wanting us to believe you have never heard of African women in interracial marriages who called the cops on their ex and even filed for divorce not long after?

Chilipepper:
A Nigerian woman has shared her heartbreaking story of how she thought she had found her soulmate, only to end up in an abusive marriage after relocating to the UK for love.

According to her, two months after moving, her husband began physically attacking her — punching her in the face, strangling her neck, and calling her degrading names such as “bitch, animal, fat, Nigerian scammer.”

She revealed that despite constantly apologising even when she wasn’t at fault, and trying to make the marriage work, the abuse only got worse.

You all give preference to foreigners marrying your Nigerian women. How did you not meet his family before marrying him but he meet yours. All this is japa motivated

Gadaffi9ja:
I hope she did not use the Nigerian ladies dating format of billing on the guy, that could lead to this

plus nonsense grammar.

Mariangeles:
I've always felt African women marrying white men, and going to live with them in their country is a huge risk.
You cannot predict white people.

There is one African woman here in our street Germany 🇩🇪, I will use her a case study , She is always ragged and looks unkempt upon she’s marrying a white man , if you see her you will pity her , she told me last time that she’s tired of the marriage .