₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
If the man would be a househusband tending to the kids, cooking and probably grow a womb to have kids _then yes. There are many men with housewives and they are doing fine. The only downside to it is possible financial abuse and lack. Maybe you can tell me what a non-providing husband can do in a NIGERIAN home and we take your relevant comment from there.

You see your last statement gave you out, that's what a typical Nigerian who was raised and educated to think, if he doesn't give me money then I will not open legs for him(prostitution).

The above is the reason more than 80% of divorces are initiated by women. You don't see what a man brings to the home apart from money I laugh, why will you all see when you monetize relationship?

ExudeLoveToAll:
You see your last statement gave you out, that's what a typical Nigerian who was raised and educated to think, if he doesn't give me money then I will not open legs for him(prostitution).

The above is the reason more than 80% of divorces are initiated by women. You don't see what a man brings to the home apart from money I laugh, why will you all see when you monetize relationship?

I asked you a simple question and you went off tangent. Tell me what a house-husband will be doing as his contribution to the smooth running of the home.

Hhh4444:
Don't you think if we have more men that are spending less on their women,women would start demanding or expecting less from their men?

The thing is: we spend on our women. It is largely cultural. I think the state of the economy has affected men's spending power, but spending on our women is something we take pride in. Obviously, this has made some of these women become entitled, but we caused it. We use money to attract women, whether in Nigeria or outside. I won't forget the Liberian lady on TikTok with big yansh who Nigerian guys beckoned to move to Lagos, where "big boys" would spend on her. In other African countries, our men are noted for trying to outspend the native men. As noted, this is not possible outside Africa where our spending power no reach. But it is ingrained in our men to spend money on women. Our men LOVE sex so much and would spend anything to have it. We have men marrying today and carrying side chics tomorrow. We have men who buy houses for side chics, men sending 500K to random girls simply because the girls are "beautiful", going to girls' hostels to carry women etc. In fact, one of the driving factors many young men want to make money, even by all means, is so they can have sex with many women, and this involves money. Womanising is a rich man's sport.

I see this GehGeh's reign as a mere passing movement. This is not the first time, as we have had Stingy Men Association, Patrichary FC, and many more. Nigerian men would keep spending on their women.

Gerrard59:
I said most of his ideologies are unrealistic, not all. Telling men to avoid paying the school fees of a girl he is not married to is realistic and makes sense. However, the other ideologies are not realistic. Our men would continue to spend on women, both related and unrelated. When it comes to sex, our men go all the way to spend. Sex is where women have the upper hand.

So advising them not to spend on sex is unrealistic? Of course not. Will most men pass the test?? No. That's why they will keep getting ripped off till they learn.

Gerrard59:
The thing is: we spend on our women. It is largely cultural. I think the state of the economy has affected men's spending power, but spending on our women is something we take pride in. Obviously, this has made some of these women become entitled, but we caused it. We use money to attract women, whether in Nigeria or outside. I won't forget the Liberian lady on TikTok with big yansh who Nigerian guys beckoned to move to Lagos, where "big boys" would spend on her. In other African countries, our men are noted for trying to outspend the native men. As noted, this is not possible outside Africa where our spending power no reach. But it is ingrained in our men to spend money on women. Our men LOVE sex so much and would spend anything to have it. We have men marrying today and carrying side chics tomorrow. We have men who buy houses for side chics, men sending 500K to random girls simply because the girls are "beautiful", going to girls' hostels to carry women etc. In fact, one of the driving factors many young men want to make money, even by all means, is so they can have sex with many women, and this involves money. Womanising is a rich man's sport.

I see this GehGeh's reign as a mere passing movement. This is not the first time, as we have had Stingy Men Association, Patrichary FC, and many more. Nigerian men would keep spending on their women.

You are wrong. All Africa men love women and sex as much as Nigerian men BUT WE ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO PEDESTALIZE THE ISSUE BY USING MONEY TO FORCE A GIRL'S ATTENTION.

That's the issue right there. Without money, most Nigerian men think they can't get women. Other African men do get women based on mutual attraction. And I know most of the Nigerian men you talked of are mostly from the East and some from west and south. I don't know much about the northerners.

I don't spend money to attract a girl's attention and never will. I have said it here often. No phones, rent, houses or any of that shiit. Any woman I have given gifts of clothes have already spent 10x that much on me. That's what the redpill or it's other variants online keep saying. Go for who chooses you and let them invest in you. YOU DO NOT NEED MONEY TO ATTRACT WOMEN. IF YOU DO, YOU ONLY ATTRACT GOLDDIGGERS AND YOU LACK SELF ESTEEM.

franchasng:
My brother the world will keep running in a cycle.

Check fashion trend, some of the trendy fashion today were what our fathers wore in the ancient times.

Today youths want to dress half naked, indirectly they want to go back to Adam's era.


By the time they exhaust that, the new generation will come back to adopt the full clothedness again and it continues to cycle like that.


In the past, men enjoyed being the sole provider for their woman and breadwinner of the family, it made them feel masculine and complete, western culture brought the shared responsibility based on feminism that preached gender equality. Before then, men has upper hand in securing good jobs and all that, but with gender equality gaining ground, things changed as women now had better opportunities in certain jobs and fields. Today it's almost on equal basis, no longer gender based. Couples now share roles and responsibilities because most women now earn more than their husbands, things that never happened in the ancient times.


Gradually women now want to take up men's roles while men wish to take on women roles or run away from responsibilities.


So don't worry, it's part of life's cycle, it will surely get to that stage and then humans will want to revert back to the old ways where women stayed at home to care for the home/kids while the men went out to work and bring back bread.

These things are nothing but cycles of life that nobody can tame except time. Only time can tame it

God bless you for this

luminouz:
You are wrong. All Africa men love women and sex as much as Nigerian men BUT WE ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO PEDESTALIZE THE ISSUE BY USING MONEY TO FORCE A GIRL'S ATTENTION.

That's the issue right there. Without money, most Nigerian men think they can't get women. Other African men do get women based on mutual attraction. And I know most of the Nigerian men you talked of are mostly from the East and some from west and south. I don't know much about the northerners.

I don't spend money to attract a girl's attention and never will. I have said it here often. No phones, rent, houses or any of that shiit. Any woman I have given gifts of clothes have already spent 10x that much on me. That's what the redpill or it's other variants online keep saying. Go for who chooses you and let them invest in you. YOU DO NOT NEED MONEY TO ATTRACT WOMEN. IF YOU DO, YOU ONLY ATTRACT GOLDDIGGERS AND YOU LACK SELF ESTEEM.

Praise God!!!

We agree on one thing today.

Gerrard59:
Praise God!!!

We agree on one thing today.

Praise God?

Why on earth do you think I have been shouting the redpill if not for these facts I quoted? Or we say simps are not good for the society?

Even now, someone's son is still planning on using his school fees, rent money or salary to pay a girl's bills...

Simps don't ever learn.

luminouz:
So advising them not to spend on sex is unrealistic? Of course not. Will most men pass the test?? No. That's why they will keep getting ripped off till they learn.

Do you believe sex is free? If yes, please describe the process by which sex could be free, especially for a man who wants to have sex with more than one woman?

Gerrard59:
Do you believe sex is free? If yes, please describe the process by which sex could be free, especially for a man who wants to have sex with more than one woman?

I'm the architect of my own choices. I never said my sole purpose in life is to be fûcking multiple women.

And yes...for me, sex is free...I never had to pay for it. I have been paid for it. And the key is always improve yourself as a man. The more high value you are, the more options you have. And if you are like me, you don't need to spend before they come. They will come, they will sniff your value and overcompensate in hopes that they will be chosen.

Now...pay me for that lesson, don't be stingy!!!

luminouz:
I'm the architect of my own choices. I never said my sole purpose in life is to be fûcking multiple women.

And yes...for me, sex is free...I never had to pay for it. I have been paid for it. And the key is always improve yourself as a man. The more high value you are, the more options you have. And if you are like me, you don't need to spend before they come. They will come, they will sniff your value and overcompensate in hopes that they will be chosen.

Good lesson. Hopefully, every man out there reads and assimilates. What I just believe is that women are just billiers. They are an expense. Being with a woman means one must spend somehow. The more women, the higher the costs. The key thing is to spend on a woman who likes you (as the man), not to spend on a woman to like you.

Juoflife1:
My advice to men is to remain men. If you guys masculine women, it will not be in your favour. The only upper hand you have is that you make more money than women. I won't say much.

woman dey advise man?? U so funny with ur reasoning

Manculated:
It's already happening.

Personally, Women hardly comes to my mind these days. It's not hatred or grudges.

My full concentration is on my FUTURE and my intending offsprings.

Morso as you pointed out, The Diaplated Economy is a very big factor which has contributed to all this brouhaha

Any Woman who will come into my life at this moment has to be my helpful soulmate.

Exactly bro. You’ve said it all….

VinnyBaba:
You obviously do NOT know him.

His Contents are mostly on Financial Matters, not Macaroni that focuses on Yan.ch.

It is recently he started all the Tow.tow talk in response to SaidaBoj and other Feminists that shame Broke Guys.

He was just a financial advisor till he chop breakfast then he became a relationship advisor