Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? - Culture (2) - Nairaland
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| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Rindo69: 12:38pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
In cities that are largely unplanned with no strict land laws or lands are considered ancestral and passed down the family, this will be the norm. You cannot try it in larger cities like Abuja. Land is only leased for up to 99 years after which it returns to the FG so you cannot possible bury your dead relatives or yourself there and that is why they have designated burial grounds however in my home town, I have 3 uncles an aunt and my grand dad buried around the house...and my grand mum buried in her bedroom. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by anytexy: 12:39pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
matrix199:You have a valid point though. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by kennyz247(m): 12:39pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
This usually happened in the villages.. mostly in the western part |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Legendguy(m): 12:40pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
campbelljosh:I just came back from my uncle's burial. Before he died, he told his Children that they should hurt him in his bedroom and that's where he was buried. House that he didn't build but he inherited, leaving his brother with nothing, even with some space left at the back of the house. Even in death he was still very greedy. Very Greedy man. Thank God for my Dad that has built his own house |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by franudi: 12:40pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
For future reference. So that you can tell your children where some of their relations were buried. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by nedekid: 12:41pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
tinnymerit:Where we buried my beloved baby sister last year cost about 40m for the regular area normal size chamber. That is aside the finishing ie tomb stones etc. Vaults and gardens Ikoyi. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Softmirror: 12:41pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
shortgun:LIES!!! |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by twilliamx(m): 12:41pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Erikiel:Las las when the shidren need better money...dem go uproot them still go that cemetery |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Rexymania(m): 12:41pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
foxman04:Hahahahahahahaha ![]() God help us |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by RISQUE: 12:43pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Erikiel:When you die, make your own family go bury you for cemetery. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Clemss88(m): 12:43pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
My grand father was buried in his parlour |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by RillJ(m): 12:43pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Its cultural in some places where men are buried inside the house (not just compound). It is considered disrespect for a successful man to be buried outside his house. In some other, the cost of burial site may not be affordable. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by RISQUE: 12:44pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Erikiel:What became of those corpses buried in the old cemetery close to old Mr. Biggs eatery at Rumuigbo PH? Cemetery was demolished and a building erected. ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by HitRun(m): 12:44pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Erikiel:Because before “civilization” came to Nigeria and we started having cemeteries, people did die and were buried. Every tribe and culture had a way of doing it. Bad person ➡️ Evil forest straight. Good person ➡️ In the vicinity of the home. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by AdUlAM(m): 12:47pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Scarrr:I dey happy say even you know say you dey buga yourself and you know the people wey mining of bones and skull be their occupation. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by campbelljosh(m): 12:47pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Is he a chief or something? It's occult to bury the dead in the room. Legendguy: |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by ARISHEM: 12:48pm On Aug 25, 2025*. Modified: 2:04pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
It’s a surprise that they don’t haunt new owners who later purchased the house. My Neighbor that completed his house never knew someone was buried in that land till date. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Zocalite: 12:49pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Just to lay claim on the land it's buried. Nothing more Later the children will still sell the land |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Rexnegro(m): 12:49pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
StoryHaven:😂🤣🤣🤣 |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by FavouriteOfGod(f): 12:50pm On Aug 25, 2025*. Modified: 2:20pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Scarrr:Ehhhnnnn??! 😳This looks like and imagination rathan tha reality. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Scarrr: 12:50pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
FavouriteOfGod:are u related to Ezeani? U seems offended 🥱 |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Legendguy(m): 12:53pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Talkisneeded:I swear, I heard from someone who works at a cemetery that when the run out of space, they dig up people's grave and to bury someone there. As they are digging, they dug out particles of bones from the deceased of the grave |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Legendguy(m): 12:55pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
campbelljosh:he's just an elderly man, I don't think he has a chieftains title |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by blaise26abj(m): 12:56pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Natbrowny:Very valid question . I also thought about the wood used for burials if they are truly necessary . Because to me they are a waste of resources . I think most burial grounds are reusable after a while . Only the burial places of the high and mighty are kept for way longer . By the 2nd-3rd generation of most regular family , no one will truly care about what happened to the bones or even know the burial places . I don’t know where the burial place of my great great grandparents are. I doubt most people do . And that is what will happen to every one of us . In fact I am leaning more towards cremation when I pass . |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Pat081: 12:58pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Maybe because of those who may want to sell the house in future |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by xtianchris(m): 1:00pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
ERockson:Same way you we become after our time on Earth here . We ought to live with all uprightness and honesty. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by RedboneSmith(m): 1:00pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
You said something here which I find very funny. You said: "It has become not only a habit but culture, for people burying the dead in their households." You made it sound like cemetery burials are the regular norm, while household burials are the new trend. It is actually the other way around. Household burials has not become any habit or culture. It WAS always the way we did it. It is cemetery burials that are becoming a habit among some urbanized people. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Pat081: 1:03pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
RillJ:Yes in sitting room my ex gal say that is how they burial her father |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by ChybuzzDD(m): 1:04pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Erikiel:Some of the questions you guys ask here are very surprising. Are there cemeteries in your village ![]() |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by Jeon(f): 1:04pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
1. They are still part of the family. 2. Fear of taking away the bones. 3. Some did this to aviod house, compound,or land disputes. |
| Re: Why Do Some Nigerians Bury The Dead In Their Compounds Instead Of The Cemetery? by package7(m): 1:04pm On Aug 25, 2025 |
Peraventure you hear koko on the ground, you may quickly dig and exhumed your love once ![]() |
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